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[Enriching Everyday Life Through the Art of Poetry with Sarah Kay]-[How to enrich your everyday life with poetry (w/ Sarah Kay) (Rerun)]

How to Be a Better Human · B2 · 2025-04-14

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Enriching Everyday Life Through the Art of Poetry

In this episode of How to Be a Better Human, host Chris Duffy sits down with poet and educator Sarah Kay to explore how poetry can serve as a vital tool for personal growth, connection, and mindfulness. Sarah, known for her evocative work and her commitment to education, shares her insights on how to transform the mundane into the meaningful through the practice of poetry.

The Origins of a Poet

Sarah’s relationship with poetry began in an unexpected way: through "lunchbox poems." As a child, her parents would write short, handwritten poems on neon-colored paper and tuck them into her lunchbox every day. While Sarah notes that her parents were not professional writers, these notes established a foundational belief that poetry could be "dependable like clockwork" while remaining a "surprise" and a "gift." This early exposure taught her that poetry is an intimate sign of care, a lesson she continues to carry into her work as an educator and performer.

Habits of Observation and Delight

One of the core themes of the discussion is the practice of "pinning" moments of delight. Sarah admits that she is often struck by the smallest, most mundane details of life. She emphasizes that most people let these moments "fly through their hands," but poets learn to stop and ask, "What about this is delightful to me?"

To facilitate this, Sarah carries a notebook—which she describes as "incredibly unpoetic"—that serves as a record-keeping tool rather than a space for finished drafts. She uses it to jot down "Hansel and Gretel breadcrumbs," clues that allow her to return to moments of genuine curiosity when she sits down to write. By marking these small observations, she avoids the intimidation of the blank page and instead works from a place of existing inspiration.

Lowering the Stakes: Process Over Product

When working with students or aspiring writers, Sarah advocates for "lowering the stakes." She suggests using accessible forms like lists—such as "10 things I know to be true" or "reasons you should date me"—to encourage people to express themselves without the pressure of creating a "perfect" poem.

Sarah argues that shifting the focus from the final product to the process is essential. She explains, "I never want to be grading a student on a poem because who am I to determine the arbitrary goodness or badness of this poem?" By prioritizing the act of creation, collaboration, and taking risks, writers can protect their relationship with the art form. This iterative approach mirrors the host's own experience with podcasting, where the goal is to reach "draft 10" rather than obsessing over the perfection of draft one.

Living with Open Arms

Perhaps the most profound takeaway from the conversation is Sarah’s philosophy on vulnerability. She discusses the tendency for people, especially teenagers, to keep their "arms crossed" as a form of protection against the world. While she acknowledges that this posture is often a necessary survival mechanism, she encourages people to practice having their "hands open to catch whatever comes your way."

Being vulnerable is undeniably "scary," but Sarah maintains that it is "worth it." She emphasizes that we must be intentional about expressing our care for others; simply loving someone in your head is not enough if you do not express it in a "tangible way." Whether it is a text message, a photo, or a note, these small gestures are essential to being a better friend and a better human.

Conclusion

Sarah Kay’s approach to poetry is not about elitism or perfection; it is about paying attention. By cultivating habits of observation, embracing the iterative nature of the creative process, and choosing to walk through the world with openness, anyone can enrich their life and deepen their connections with others. As Sarah notes, when we find language for the things we previously couldn't express, it feels like "plugging my soul into an amplifier," reminding us that poetry is ultimately a communal and urgent way to feel alive.

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