Exploring the Idiom: 'In the Cards'

In this episode of Daily Easy English Expressions, Coach Shane delves into the meaning and usage of the idiomatic expression, "in the cards." This phrase is commonly used to describe whether something is likely to happen in one's future or destiny.

The Origin and Meaning of 'In the Cards'

Coach Shane explains that the expression is rooted in the practice of "fortune telling." Historically, fortune tellers would look into a "crystal ball," consult the stars, or use "tarot cards" to predict a person's future. Consequently, saying that something is "in the cards" means that it is part of your destiny or a likely outcome. However, the host notes that we almost exclusively use this phrase in the negative form: "it wasn't in the cards" or "it's not in the cards."

Real-World Application: Expectations vs. Reality

The host illustrates the expression using his own life experiences. He reflects on his younger years, specifically his twenties, when he "planned on retiring at 40." Now at 49, and still putting in "12-hour workdays," he admits that his original goal "wasn't in the cards." He highlights that many people dream of specific outcomes—like "winning the lottery" or becoming a "Hollywood star"—but for the "vast majority," those specific dreams are simply "not in the cards."

The Role of Planning and Resilience

Coach Shane emphasizes a critical distinction between having a dream and having a strategy. He acknowledges that his failure to retire by 40 was due to the fact that he "never made a plan, a real solid plan" to achieve it.

Despite the realization that some early goals may not come to fruition, the host encourages listeners not to lose heart. He advocates for:

• Making solid plans: Moving beyond idle dreaming to actionable steps.
• Setting realistic goals: Adjusting expectations based on current circumstances.
• Maintaining persistence: Even though retiring at 40 "wasn't in the cards," he remains optimistic about retiring at 55 or 60, asserting, "I'm still gonna work hard to achieve that."

Conclusion

The podcast concludes with a message of encouragement. While some life paths may not align with our initial desires, it does not mean the end of progress. By shifting focus from what was "not in the cards" to creating new, realistic plans, individuals can continue to strive toward success. As Coach Shane reminds his listeners, even when faced with setbacks, "don't give up" and "don't be too sad," because there is always a path forward.