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[How to Politely Ask for Feedback on Your Resume]-[BE 137: Can You Look Over My Resume? How to Ask for Job Application Help]

Business English from All Ears English · B1 · 2023-08-14

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Mastering the Art of Requesting Resume Feedback

In the competitive landscape of professional job hunting, getting a second opinion on your resume is a vital step. However, approaching friends or colleagues for this favor requires social intelligence to ensure you are not perceived as burdening them with a heavy workload. As discussed in the Business English podcast, the secret lies in using "non-committal" language that signals a light request rather than a major time commitment.

The Strategy: "Non-Committal" Language

When you ask someone to review your resume, the goal is to lower the perceived barrier to entry. If you use heavy verbs like "edit" or "work on," it implies a deep, time-consuming process that might make the recipient feel pressured or overwhelmed. Instead, the hosts suggest using phrases that sound quick and manageable:

  • "Would you mind looking over my resume?": This is the gold standard for a casual request. The phrase "look over" implies a quick scan or a "first look," which is far less intimidating than asking for a formal edit.
  • "Do you have a few extra minutes to proofread my resume?": By framing it as needing only "a few minutes," you respect the other person's schedule and make it easier for them to say yes.
  • "I could use an extra set of eyes...": This is a friendly, idiomatic expression that frames the request as a collaborative, light-touch review rather than a rigorous critique.

Choosing the Right Reviewer

While it is tempting to ask colleagues, the hosts advise caution. You must consider if that person is a "friend colleague" who can be trusted with the secret that you are looking for new opportunities. Generally, friends and family are the safest bets. Furthermore, you should match the person to their strengths: ask someone with professional hiring experience for strategic advice on bullet points and content, but go to someone with a sharp eye for detail if you simply need grammar and spelling proofreading.

Professional Integrity and Etiquette

Beyond the phrasing of your request, the podcast emphasizes two critical rules of resume etiquette:

  1. Never Plagiarize: It is essential to write your own content. Copying another resume is not only unethical but dangerous; you will inevitably be caught during the interview process when asked to elaborate on experience you do not actually possess.
  2. Respect the Feedback: When you ask, "Do you think I included enough accomplishments?" or "Do you think I included enough numbers or data?", you are inviting constructive criticism. Take it as a compliment that the person values your professional opinion enough to help, and be prepared to act on their advice to improve your narrative.

Conclusion

Ultimately, asking for help with your resume is an opportunity to strengthen professional bonds. By using low-pressure language and being mindful of the other person's time, you make the process a positive experience for both parties. As the hosts conclude, it is about connection, not perfection—so keep your requests light, be clear about your needs, and always present your authentic self.

🎯Key Sentences

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I've gotten that request at times for sure.
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I'll take a look at someone's resume just as a first look.
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It's been a while, but yeah, I do.
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hey, would you mind taking a look at this?
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could you look this over for me?
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📝Key Phrases

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look over
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take a look
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carve out time
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proofread
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an extra set of eyes
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📖 Transcript

This is the Business English Podcast, Episode 137.
Can you look over my resume? How to ask for job application help.
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