Welcome to English as a Second Language podcast number 889.
Taking up a new hobby.
This is English as a Second Language podcast number 889.
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This dialogue we will discuss in this episode is about starting a new hobby, a new thing that you're going to do for fun and entertainment.
Let's get started.
Who were you talking to on the phone?
Your father retired two months ago.
That was a good thing, right?
Well, it's good that he doesn't have to work anymore, but he's driving my mother up the wall.
He putters around the house and gets in her way.
She retired last year, so she's had a year to establish her new routine.
He's still kind of lost.
Why doesn't he take up a hobby?
That would give him something interesting to occupy his time.
Believe me, my mother has tried to interest him in gardening, woodworking and even scrapbooking, but nothing has worked.
Those sound too sedentary for somebody as active as your father.
How about encouraging him to take up birdwatching or golf?
He wouldn't be interested in those hobbies.
I think he needs something more challenging, maybe playing chess or doing genealogy.
Maybe he could even learn to play a musical instrument.
Maybe your dad just needs time to find his footing again.
Given time, he'll figure out what he wants to do with his newfound free time.
She can take up a new hobby, too.
Out of the house.
Eric starts off by saying, who were you talking to on the phone?
Melissa says, my mother.
I was commiserating with her about dad's retirement.
To commiserate, C-O-M-M-I-S-E-R-A-T-E
It means to spend time talking with someone about his or her experience of sadness or problems.
It's to give someone sympathy, to say, oh, yes, I understand.
Boy, that's really difficult.
You are commiserating with them.
Melissa was commiserating with her mother about her father's retirement.
Retirement is the period of time usually when you're older, when you stop working full-time and, we hope, relax a little.
Eric says, your father retired two months ago.
That was a good thing, right?
Melissa says well, it's good that he doesn't have to work anymore, but he's driving my mother up the wall.
To drive someone up the wall means to make them go crazy, to drive them crazy.
Usually, we... refer to people who are very annoying or who cause you to get angry or upset.
We may say those people are driving you up the wall.
Melissa's father is driving her mother up the wall.
Why?
She says that her father putters around the house and gets in her way.
To putter P-U-T-T-E-R around means to spend time doing things that aren't very important, especially when you're bored and you're looking for something to do.
Maybe you'll go and you'll clean your desk, or you'll go outside and try to cut your grass a little bit here and there, but not really seriously, not with any sort of purpose.
You're basically wasting time.
You're puttering around.
Well, Melissa's father is puttering around the house and getting in the way of his wife.
Melissa says that her mother retired last year So she's had a year to establish a new routine.
To establish a routine means to get into the habit of doing certain things.
When you retire and you don't have to go to work every day, you have to develop a new routine, a new set of habits that you will follow when you get up in the morning and through the rest of the day.
Melissa says that her father is still kind of lost, meaning he's somewhat lost.
Eric says, why doesn't he take up a hobby?
To take up is a two word phrasal verb, which here means to begin doing some activity for the first time.
Usually we use this phrasal verb when we are starting some new activity for fun.
An activity that you do for fun, for enjoyment, for pleasure, is often called a hobby.
H-O-B-B-Y.
A hobby could be something like golfing.
A hobby could be collecting stamps. postage stamps.
A hobby could be playing cards, playing cards with your friends every Tuesday.
That might be something that is part of your hobby.
To take up a hobby means to start a new hobby.
Eric said, That, taking up a hobby, would give him something interesting to occupy his time.
To occupy your time means to keep yourself busy, to keep yourself doing something so you don't get bored.
Melissa says, believe me, meaning trust me.
These are three hobbies you could take up.
The first is gardening, where you grow plants in a certain area.
You might grow flowers or vegetables or something else.
Woodworking... refers to building things out of wood.
We might also call it, if it were an occupation, carpentry.
To make things out of wood is woodworking.
Scrapbooking is creating informal books with photographs and other things to help you remember usually a certain time in your life or certain important events in your life.
That's called scrapbooking.
S-C-R-A-P-B-O-O-K-I-N-G.
Eric says that these hobbies that Melissa's mother has tried to interest her father in sound too sedentary for somebody as active as her father.
He is talking about activities being sedentary, S-E-D-E-N-T-A-R-Y.
That means to be without a lot of physical activity, not very active, just sitting in a chair, on a couch.
Eric says, how about encouraging him to take up birdwatching or golf?
Birdwatching is a hobby where people go and look at birds.
Try to identify different kinds of birds that are out in the world.
Golf is a game that you play with a small white ball called, or wooden sticks, which are called clubs.
You try to hit the ball into a little round hole.
Famous golfers would include people like Tiger Woods.
That's the game he plays, golf.
Melissa says he wouldn't be interested in those hobbies.
I think he needs something more challenging, more difficult.
Maybe playing chess or doing genealogy.
Chess, C-H-E-S-S, is a game that you play on a board where you have two players.
One player tries to move the chess pieces around in order to defeat the other player.
The board usually has white and black squares on it.
And each side of the board has these little pieces that you move around and try to capture the other person's pieces.
That's chess.
Genealogy, G-E-N-E-A-L-O-G-Y, is when you study your ancestors.
When you figure out who your grandfather, your great grandfather, your great great grandfather, your great, great great grandfather were.
You try to figure out who all those people were.
Melissa says maybe he could even learn to play a musical instrument.
A musical instrument would be something like a guitar or piano or a violin.
Those are all musical instruments, things that we use to make music.
Eric says maybe your dad just needs to find his footing again.
To find your footing.
F-O-O-T-I-N-G means simply to know what you want, to feel comfortable in a certain situation.
Sometimes it takes a while when people retire to adjust, to change their life, to change their thinking so that they are comfortable in the new situation.
Eric says, given time, if he has enough time, he'll figure out, he'll discover what he wants to do with his newfound free time.
Newfound, one word, means recently obtained, something you just got.
We often use that in describing freedom or free time.
My newfound freedom.
I just ended a relationship with my girlfriend.
I have newfound freedom.
Of course, you also don't have a girlfriend.
But the idea is that it's something positive.
My newfound free time.
Free time that I didn't have just a few days ago or weeks ago, and now I have.
Melissa says, maybe.
But what does my mother do in the meantime, until that happens?
Eric says she can take up a new hobby, too.
Out of the house.
Meaning...
Until Melissa's father finds a new hobby, a new routine, Melissa's mother should take up a new hobby that would require her to leave the house, so she wasn't in the house with her husband.
Now let's listen to the dialogue, this time at a normal speed.
My mother.
I was commiserating with her about Dad's retirement.
Well, it's good that he doesn't have to work anymore, but he's driving my mother up the wall.
He putters around the house and gets in her way.
She retired last year, so she's had a year to establish her new routine.
He's still kind of lost.
Why doesn't he take up a hobby?
That would give him something interesting to occupy his time.
Believe me, my mother has tried to interest him in gardening, woodworking and even scrapbooking, but nothing has worked.
Those sound too sedentary for somebody as active as your father.
How about encouraging him to take up bird watching or golf?
He wouldn't be interested in those hobbies.
I think he needs something more challenging.
Maybe playing chess or doing genealogy.
Maybe he could even learn to play a musical instrument.
Maybe your dad just needs time to find his footing again.
Given time, he'll figure out what he wants to do with his newfound free time.
Maybe.
But what does my mother do in the meantime?
She can take up a new hobby, too.
Out of the house.
We hope it's a long time before our scriptwriter goes into retirement.
That's because we love the wonderful Dr. Lucy Say.
From Los Angeles, California, I'm Jeff McQuillan.
Thank you for listening.
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English as a Second Language podcast is written and produced by Dr Lucy Say, hosted by Dr Jeff McQuillan.
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