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Hello, this is 6 Minute English from BBC Learning English.
I'm Pippa.
And I'm Beth.
In English, what we say and what we mean are sometimes two very different things.
We often use exaggeration for emphasis or for humour, something known as hyperbole.
For example, people say, I am so hungry I could eat a horse.
But of course, no one really could.
Here's presenter Michael Rosen and linguist Derek Bousfield discussing one example of hyperbole on BBC Radio 4's Word of Mouth.
People do say absolute nightmare.
Yeah, or as my daughters would say, I've had a mare today.
And when they say mare, which is obviously shortened for nightmare, what it basically means is they've had a mild and potentially slightly humorous occurrence at work.
You might call an unpleasant or difficult experience a nightmare.
Derek's daughter used the word mare, short for nightmare, to describe her terrible day at work.
But she was exaggerating.
Her day wasn't really terrible, more like strange or annoying.
Can you remember a time when what you said wasn't really what you meant, Beth?
Well, sometimes we say, hi, you all right?
Which means, hi, are you all right?
Like, are you okay?
But actually, we don't really want to hear the answer.
It just means hello, doesn't it?
Yeah, I have a friend who actually just says, all right, and they just mean hello.
They don't mean, are you okay?
They don't want to hear about my day.
No, if you're having a bad day, they don't want to know.
They're just saying hello.
In this episode, we'll be finding out more about how the meaning of words changes in English.
As usual, we'll be learning some useful new words and phrases.
But first, I have a question for you, Beth.
The word hyperbole comes from two ancient Greek words, hupa and balo.
But what is their literal meaning?
Is it A, to overthrow, B, to overspeak, or C, to overthink?
I have no idea, Pippa.
I'm going to say to overspeak.
OK, we'll find out the answer at the end of the programme.
It's not just hyperbole that changes the meaning of words.
Its opposite, something called understatement, has the same effect too.
Understatement involves de-emphasising something.
For example, imagine you were served an awful meal in a restaurant, but instead of saying how bad the food was, you just said it was less than perfect.
Here's linguist Derek Bousfield discussing understatement on BBC Radio 4's Word of Mouth.
We love understatement as a way of kind of signalling that something much more serious has gone on.
And it's a kind of performative sardonic, not taking oneself too seriously, identity when you do that.
Because, you know, taking yourself too seriously is a no-no in British culture.
And so linguistically not taking yourself too seriously is really the done thing.
Understatement is valued in British culture unlike taking yourself too seriously.
If you take yourself too seriously you think you're more important than you really are.
In Britain, this is a no-no, a way of behaving that is not socially acceptable.
In other words, it's not the done thing, meaning it's not what you're expected to do in a particular social situation.
Another area where the meaning of words can be easily misunderstood is apologising –
Here Michael Rosen responds to an imaginary situation where his toe gets accidentally stepped on by Derek Bousfield for BBC Radio 4 programme.
Word of Mouth.
Imagine I stepped on your toe and I said, oh, Michael, I'm really sorry.
And you said, it's all good.
Oh, right.
That probably means it isn't.
Yes, I'm actually a bit miffed, a little bit annoyed.
But then I don't want to have a Barney with you.
You're a stranger.
So I don't want to get into a whole thing.
So I say, yeah.
It's all good.
It's all good, exactly.
It's a bit like I mean that's a British English one and an equivalent American English one would be no worries.
If someone tells you it's all good, they could actually be feeling miffed, an adjective meaning slightly annoyed or hurt by someone's behaviour.
But no matter how annoyed you are, you probably don't want to get into a barney a loud argument or quarrel.
So you say something like it's all good or no worries and move on.
As an English learner, unclear word meanings are a challenge.
A lot depends on the situation and on the relationship between speaker and listener.
So don't be shy, get talking to others in English.
And if you make a mistake, say no worries and carry on.
Okay, Pippa, I think it's time to reveal the answer to your question.
Yes, you thought the ancient Greek words hooper and ballo meant overspeak, but the answer was actually a – to overthrow.
Hooper means beyond and ballo means I throw.
Oh well.
OK, let's recap the vocabulary we've learnt, starting with mare short for nightmare – meaning an unpleasant or difficult experience.
If you take yourself too seriously, you consider yourself and your actions more important than they really are.
In Britain this is a no-no, a way of behaving that is not socially acceptable.
The done thing on the other hand is what you are expected to do in a particular social situation.
If you're miffed you're slightly annoyed by someone's behaviour.
And finally, a barney is a loud argument or quarrel.
Once again, our six minutes are up, but if you're keen to practice these new words and phrases, then check out our website bbclearningenglishcom, where you'll find a worksheet and quiz for this episode.
See you again soon, but for now, goodbye.
Bye.
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