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Good morning. This is Laura.
Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.
Today's tip is to take a 36 -hour vacation.
Getting away doesn't have to involve long flights, extended and pricey hotel stays, or even taking days off work.
Quick trips are sometimes more doable than long ones and can make life feel more memorable, even if they do take some work in the moment.
I am writing this after returning from a quick weekend trip to upstate New York.
My brother lives in a rural spot that is absolutely beautiful in fall, and so my family went to visit him to see the leaves at their peak.
My kids still have all their fall sports, so we got in the car at 2 p .m.
on Saturday. We got there a little before 6 p .m.
and we were back in the car at 4 p .m.
on Sunday to be home for bedtime on Sunday night.
Moving seven people anywhere is never easy.
And so there was a lot of packing and unpacking to take this 30 -something hour trip.
Getting the kids in bed on time on Sunday night wasn't easy, and it is possible that Monday morning was a bit bumpy.
But it was fun seeing family, and the leaves were gorgeous.
We hiked around a mountain lake rimmed with red maples and yellow oaks, and we picked apples with a view of the cliffs in the distance.
From the perspective of memory, I think it is so much better to have the memories than not have the memories, even if I did have to do laundry on Monday instead of over the weekend.
The New York Times has long run a feature on 36 hours in some destination.
Usually the idea is you could go Friday and be gone by Sunday midday.
Many of these places are exotic destinations, and I sometimes fantasize about the sort of life where I could spend 36 hours in Oslo or Costa Rica.
But the truth is you can spend 36 hours in places far closer to home.
You can have the feel of a vacation, but not have to wait for long weekends or holiday weeks to get that feeling.
You won't have to compete with the extra traffic long weekends and holiday weeks generate, and you don't have to take any extra days off work.
So consider what is within a 3 -4 hour radius from your house with driving.
Or if you live near a major airport, there are probably flights that take less than two hours, which means that you could get somewhere in less than four hours, door to door.
Maybe you could stay with family and friends, or get a reasonably cheap Airbnb.
If you like to relax on Friday night and don't want to battle Friday traffic, you can absolutely leave Saturday morning, come home Sunday night, and pack a lot in.
A 36 -hour vacation like this isn't doable every weekend, but it is probably doable every six weeks or so, in a way that a more formal vacation probably isn't.
Now, to be sure, many people do like to relax on weekends, and traveling over a normal weekend is not going to be that relaxing.
I will admit there was a lot of yelling in the minivan, and a lot of complaining during the hikes.
My toddler took his time going to sleep in a new location, which meant that I was sitting next to a portable crib at 11 .30pm, trying to convince him to be quiet.
It certainly would have been more relaxing to stay home.
But memory is a funny thing.
I know it was a hassle to travel, but my memories of the weekend center more on the fall color, and the kids' fun at picking apples.
We went to a farm where they encouraged us to try the merchandise, so everyone was sampling the apples and picking their favorites.
We got donuts, too, so that was a win.
The weekend was going to pass one way or another, and I rarely start the week feeling completely rested anyway.
So, in the grand scheme of things, what am I saving my energy for?
Plus, I don't do this every weekend.
A short trip once a month or so still leaves most weekends for staying home.
So consider if there's maybe a place you'd like to travel in the next month.
Pick a weekend where the calendar is fairly light, or where it could be light after noon on Saturday.
You could do your normal stuff from 6pm Friday to noon Saturday, and then still enjoy a getaway.
Travel doesn't have to be long to be fun.
The world is an amazing place, even corners of the world that are just a few hours away.
In the meantime, this is Laura.
Thanks for listening, and here's to making the most of our time.
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