Thank you.
Hello and welcome to In Hot Pursuit.
I'm Emily, the older sister you've always wanted.
I'm Jen, the cheese ball in your snack drawer.
And I'm Madeline, your girl who thinks everything really is that deep.
Mm-hmm.
Today we've got a juicy topic.
Today we're gonna be talking about how to bag an Asian boss girl.
You have three of them in front of you.
So if you want instructions, here we are.
This is how to get one of us.
Let's start off with some nice, fizzy, shallow shit though, should we?
Okay.
Shallow stuff, should we?
So what is the first feature that you notice in a guy?
Height.
Final answer.
How tall are you?
I'm 5'7".
And I love to wear like platform things to make myself look even taller.
I just love towering over people.
And so I just love a guy that can tower over me.
Well said.
How about you, Jen?
First thing I notice is their eyes.
Wow.
Yeah.
And then?
The next thing is their forearms.
Do they have to have veins?
A little bit.
I don't like the bulging ones.
You don't like the bulging ones?
No, I don't like the snakes on their arms.
I don't like those.
That's too much.
Do you mind hair on the forearm?
A little bit.
What about the forearm?
Specifically to when it's just the forearm and you don't get everything else.
I love to imagine.
Like a button-up that's been like...
Fold it up, right?
Yes, like a crisp white button up.
Fold it up.
She loves room for the imagination.
I do, I do.
I'm like, don't show me everything.
Let me work for it a little.
What about you, Mad?
If it's on their face, I'm a sucker for a good jawline.
She loves a good jawline.
That's all it takes.
Your personality could be a zero.
And if you have a jawline, it's like immediately i'll, i'll be considering it's.
It's bad like it.
If it's like sharp, if you could cut something with it.
She's like i will do anything for you if you can cut a carrot, a raw carrot, with it.
It has led me astray many times, unfortunately.
It's true Yes, yes.
Okay, what about personality?
What do you first notice?
Oh, okay.
I love a guy, I'm getting flashbacks.
I love a guy that's like really committed to his craft.
Like someone who's like so nerdy about something that he really loves.
And if I get to see them in action, like working and seeing them zone in, I am, would you like to tell us what?
The last craft that you observed?
Yes, perhaps.
Okay, the last craft i observed was a, a musician, and we went to a vintage instrument store and he played every single instrument there.
And he was so knowledgeable about all the panels and the pedals and everything.
And I was just like, I don't know what you're saying, but I think I'm in love with you.
He plays two chords.
You're like, let's get married.
I asked him, I was like, do you play piano?
And he was like, no, not really.
And then he goes to the keyboards and starts playing like this riff and I'm just like improvising.
And I was like...
He's humble too.
Take me.
A humble man committed to his craft.
Yeah.
It's over.
It's over.
Zero ego.
Yes, that too.
Zero ego.
Zero ego.
That's tall too.
That one was tall.
Very tall.
Yes.
Mm-hmm.
Just like when a guy doesn't feel like he has to prove anything to you.
He's just like really comfortable in who he is.
Like you take it or leave it.
Lost in his world.
So attractive.
She grips.
Dang.
Every man wants to be her mic.
I'm giggling just thinking about it.
Okay, how about you Jen?
I would say humility, which I find shows up often in their ability to be considerate of their people around them.
So I love when they're not even trying to impress me, but I just see them in a group of people and they like notice someone that's a little quieter and I can see they're putting an extra effort to like bring them into the conversation.
That's so hot.
It's so hot.
Especially when they don't think you're watching.
That is what sells me so hard.
Because they're not even trying to put on a show for you.
That's just who they are.
Yeah.
So I love that.
And Jenna's always watching.
I know.
Everyone.
She sees you when you're sleeping.
Everyone.
I see you when you're being considerate.
Yeah.
And I melt.
Yeah.
Because then that shows like the purity of the character when he's not like waiting for people to turn to him to do that.
Yeah yeah, it's like.
It's like what you do in the quiet, when no one has who you really are.
That has like the most pull and the most weight.
Yeah yeah, what about you mad?
Um oh, this is difficult.
We're all giggling, i know, we're all thinking of someone and we're all just like yo yo really, And we all know who each other's someone is probably.
I like really thoughtful humor, which sounds so boring.
No, it's not.
When they're bringing in things from like, totally different aspects of like I don't know, just parts of life that are not in front of them.
And it's not like a cheap joke.
It's not like a jab at at anyone, but they're able to synthesize and bring things together and it's really funny.
I feel like that gives you a glimpse into their personality a little bit more.
Yeah, into their inner world.
Yeah, it builds intrigue.
When you fall in love with their minds.
That's a nice euphemism.
Something consistent between all three of us is we love big brains.
Yeah.
You cannot be dumb.
You cannot be broke.
We love big brains.
And we cannot lie.
Did you say and big wallets?
That too.
That too.
But it's not super important, but it is.
The older you get, the more important it is.
But it's unfortunate because you wish that it did not have to be a fact.
Like when we were in our young twenties, like it really doesn't matter.
Then the older you get, the more it unfortunately does matter.
If they're not contributing like you have to be pulling that weight and it's like we already know the pay gap, you know.
So.
Yeah.
And you kind of feel like when people ask you, they're like would you ever, you know, marry someone that is making less than you?
Blah blah, blah.
And it's like someone who's making significantly less and they give you numbers and stuff and you're like you just kind of feel like an asshole, you know.
You're like, I mean...
Is their heart really beautiful?
Are they tall at least?
Maybe, really, but it's harder and harder.
Okay, let's talk about our mousetraps.
A quality that's enticing, it's alluring, but you know it will end up in a world of pain.
Oh, so like a red flag you're attracted to.
Yes, yes.
That's so bad.
And she waves her red flag.
She wore that today for that reason.
Where you're like willingly being the mouse.
Yeah, you're like, I see that it's going to snap once I touch it, but I'm just going to smell it.
Like it looks like a berry.
It can't be that bad.
Yeah, one.
Okay, i like some emotionally unavailable misunderstood men.
How so um?
I specifically love when they're misunderstood, like when the rest of the world thinks their certain way, but i can see that there's more in them.
I just I really I melt for those.
You want to be the girl in the storybook.
Like I know you, I see who you are and you're not all.
You're not what people say you are.
I see the real you and you want to be that for them.
She wants to save them.
One time we were looking through pictures of guys and Jen was like this one looks really emotionally unavailable.
I love it.
I love it.
I can make you available.
Okay, so that's mine.
I like when a guy is very smooth with, like, his words.
Like, very suave.
Oh, you like a sweet talker.
Yeah, and like in the back of my mind, and even in the front of my mind, I'm like he knows how to say this, because he says this to every girl that he's talked to.
Yeah, but I still love it because I'm still a girl.
It still works.
I'm still a girl.
So I'm just like, okay, I'll just entertain it for tonight.
Like, we'll see where this goes.
And because it's fun, too, because I think in order to sweet talk, you have to be intelligent.
You have to kind of know everything. the nature of the heart.
And so to see someone navigate in real time what I'm thinking and feeling and telling me what I should think and feel, I'm like whoa, I'm being manhandled.
And I love it.
You're emotionally manhandled.
I think mine kind of falls in line with that.
Like it's really bad because when I am being toxic and manipulative, you know, but they can do it back.
It's kind of like thrilling.
You know what I mean?
Because your brains are talking to each other.
Yeah, and it's like, oh, you want to play that game?
Let's play, you know?
But it's not good.
I did poorly many times.
We just want to play.
We try not to do that anymore.
Yeah, we're just little cute little mousies.
We just want to play.
But it's like when you first meet someone and then like you're just kind of flirting a little bit, you know.
And then you're like, I see how you play.
You know the toxic ones immediately.
Yeah.
Yeah, you can see.
And I want to play.
Yeah.
Oh my gosh.
No, flirting is a skill.
It's so fun.
It's so fun.
It's like a litmus test to see how intelligent someone can be.
And if they can riff back and forth with you, you're like, okay.
Yeah.
Banter.
It's like instinct.
It's evolutionary.
It's just like, oh, are we on the same level of intelligence?
Yeah.
Mm-hmm. and you yeah yeah and you can get there just by flirting yeah on love island they'll like pull each other for a chat and they'll be like i really like your lips they're really not you look so pretty today i'm like come on yeah play a little you know you get to see how creative they are yeah We love to play, but the good thing is who we like to play with is very different from each other.
So should we just go around and describe our types really quickly?
Like when people are like, what kind of guy are you looking for?
What's your type?
We usually go for.
What do you say?
My type has been described back to me as a medium ugly men who are undeserving.
Yeah, those were not my words.
Did I say that?
You're like flashing back to every conversation.
Do you agree?
I don't think they're wrong.
I'm trying to be better.
Undeserving, yes.
No, but that speaks to her character.
Oh, that's a nice save, Em.
No, it's true.
She can see past the face.
She's like, I don't need you to be beautiful.
I just want your soul.
I thought they were cute.
Yeah, I feel this is... To each their own, though.
It's very subjective.
Mm-hmm.
Yeah.
Well, you also do describe like you like the ugly hot, which like ugly hot is kind of a thing now.
You know, like you want a little bit of repulsion.
Yes.
You want to be a little confused.
Jen's like, no.
Jen does not agree.
Just to be clear.
I see where you're coming from.
Thanks, Em.
I get it.
Thanks, Em.
She just wants to, yeah.
If it's too conventionally attractive, then it's boring.
There's something wrong with it.
She wants something to decipher, decode.
It'll be like, we don't know if he's cute, but maybe for Matt.
It's really hard finding the one that you're like, ah, this is perfect ugly hotness for you.
I like a little nerd.
What kind of nerd?
A clean cut nerd.
Like no facial hair?
What do you mean by clean cut?
No facial hair.
Okay.
Very clean.
No facial hair.
Preferably not.
A little scruff's cute sometimes.
Not the beards.
I don't want the beards.
Like a full beard.
Yeah.
I like just like a dorky little nerd.
I like those shy, somewhat quiet ones.
They're a little more reserved.
The ones that get overlooked and misunderstood.
The ones you can fix.
I'm using my words against you.
Okay.
Just that are sweet.
I like the sweet ones.
Someone warm and sweet.
Yeah, you can tell they're good.
They have no ulterior motive.
They're just like who they are.
Yes.
What are you thinking about?
I'm going through your roster of men.
I'm like, sweet.
But okay, yeah.
What about you, Em?
Okay, what about you, Em?
My type is someone who can play with me because I feel like I'm really connected to my inner child.
So if someone can recognize that immediately and then start playing with me like I'm a child, That's when I really come to life and that's when I start glowing because I'm like oh, we can do everything that is just like conventionally not really acceptable to do.
Like we can skip through the sidewalk, like stuff like that.
And like, there's no pause of like, oh, that's kind of embarrassing.
But if they're like, okay, you wanna do that?
I'm on board.
That's so attractive to me.
And that's my type.
You like the boyish charm.
Boyish charm, but not a boy.
Like a man with boyish charm. who's really good at his job and a super nerd.
You also kind of like a bad boy, though.
Yeah, you do.
You like a guy with a lot of riz.
Like a lot of dripping riz.
Which is like a blaring red flag, but I run to it because it is my beacon of hope.
Beacon of self-destruction.
Yeah, i just love.
I love someone like artistic and creative but yeah, humble and they're just.
They just have no time to have an ego because they're just working on their craft.
That's my type.
That's my type.
This combination of men is very hard to find and with the men that we meet, we see elements here and there, but unfortunately we treat men like a salad bar and we're like i, i need all these elements and if you don't have it, then i don't want it.
I don't know, we just have very high standards because we've had real world examples of really good men and we just want the best for ourselves.
And that's kind of come back to bite us because there's no ring.
As you can see, no bling bling in this room.
I have a horse or a ring.
I also have an aura ring.
I have a friendship ring with both of you.
Oh yes, I have a friendship ring.
I'm committed to my friends, my family, and my health.
Yeah, so clearly no men for us in this room.
And let's talk about why that is.
It is not for lack of opportunity.
We should say that.
Yes.
It's not like we're not going out and we're not meeting.
It's not that people don't try.
We're not living under a rock.
Yeah, there's an option.
Yeah.
And it's also that it's also not that we don't give those people that try a chance.
Not all of them, but like, you know.
We've given some a chance and we're like, this turned out exactly how I thought it would turn out.
It's just hard to find like the humility, I think.
That's the biggest thing I find is really hard to find that I think is so vital.
A humble man.
A humble man.
Are there even five in your life?
No.
I'm like struggling to think of two.
I have one.
Your father.
My father.
Yeah, and I think seeing that, I know what it looks like.
So I'm like, nope, nope.
He set the standard so high for you.
Really tall benchmark, yeah.
Yeah, like first to apologize, first to reconcile, like so intelligent, but does not need to flaunt it, does not need to prove himself in any room.
Yeah.
Yeah possible, it's possible, but it's really hard.
Yeah yeah yeah, so that's hard.
Yeah, i think also like i have tried like dating so many different types of people, and then you find that your life actually loses quality when you're like yeah, like like you have, you have like a routine, you have peace, you have like stable income, you have all these things that you built for yourself health.
And then like when you date, it's really fun.
Obviously you get to go out and like, but you spend money and you do things.
And if you're like life goals don't align, like it actually, and they are not emotionally developed, it like brings down your quality of life because you're like constantly trying, would you like to add?
Hey.
No, finish your thought, please.
And just dealing with someone who is not emotionally developed, they bring you down to their level.
My hair personally gets so greasy when I'm dating.
Oh no, you just forget about hygiene, you forget about your routine, you forget about also, the hair oil is a as a result of stress, too stress yeah, yes.
No amen to the fact that you said peace, because i think what we've experienced in the past is that like yes, dating is fun, but it is not peaceful at all if it's with the wrong person yeah, if it's not with the girl.
So it causes, like your, your cortisol to spike, like my menstrual cycle was late.
Like I broke out in like acne and like my hair was falling out, like stuff like that.
And then you really notice it in your body.
And it's just like, It's not worth it.
You don't know peace when you're with the wrong guy.
And like your routine is thrown off, especially if you're not like, if they're like, not your husband, you're not living with them either.
And then so it takes a lot of time as well.
It does.
It does.
There's also some things that we are responsible for, at least for me.
I feel like after one important relationship, seeing how hard it was to untangle your heart from somebody, I feel like the desire and the barrier to give that fully again was thwarted for a couple of years.
You know what I mean?
So I feel like that was also a factor.
Yeah.
Well, and it's also like you know how much it means to give that so fully that to then give that again, you're like oh, I want to give it to somebody that feels like it's worth all those things, for all the reasons that we said before.
But that's also a dimension too of reopening yourself up again after heartbreak can be challenging.
And the older we get, I think it feels harder to do that because you know that there's limited time.
All the costs get greater the older you get.
All the costs.
Yes, emotional costs, physical costs, time.
Because you're already set in your waves.
Yes.
Yeah.
That's actually a red flag.
I'm like, if we can't talk about our hobbies without explicitly asking it, we do not have chemistry.
And you do not have the sweat.
The conversation is not flowing.
No.
One time Jen came back and she was just like, why is that the question you asked?
Sometimes they try and phrase it a little differently.
They're like, what do you like to do in your free time?
I was just like, oh my god.
I'm bored by this.
Bring more to the table.
My type from when I was younger to now has definitely changed significantly from when I was in my early 20s to late 20s to 30s.
And definitely was not shy boy reserved one.
It was like the one I could like, you know, the Riz that worked the room smooth.
So I'm curious.
Emily's current type.
My current type.
Yes.
Yeah.
So I'm curious if your type has changed over time.
And so like, what has informed why your type changes?
Is it people you've dated?
Is other factors that inform what your type is now, which might be different?
I think my type has really, it hasn't changed, but it's evolved.
So instead of being like, oh, nice, it's evolved into like three, four, five subsets of that.
Like considerate, very caring, kind, gentle.
I think with each person I've dated, they've upped the benchmark, all every single level.
So so my type is just being refined into like this god of a man, and so so i know like bits and pieces are possible within, like different men, but I'm like, is there like a perfect combination for me?
I don't know.
Yeah.
So I'm just holding out for that, but I know, I know people aren't perfect.
I'm not going to expect perfection out of anyone, but I just know like it's possible.
Cause this person's done it.
Yeah.
So if you can't do it and this is something that I really hold dear and like near and dear to my heart then like, if it's not there, then I don't want it.
Something you say a lot is like, I know I'm a lot, but like I also deserve a lot.
You talk about that a lot.
You know that you have certain qualities that are quote unquote, difficult or a handful, but everyone has them.
But you're like, I know that this is what I am, but I also know what I deserve. i know i'm a catch i know you guys are catches too which is why we're all single because we we see all the men that each other date and we're just like like immediately we're like not it yeah not it and then we listen to each other too yeah like madeline for example has been the catalyst of a lot of my breakups oh Yes.
No.
And it's so valuable because I'm like, should I, shouldn't I?
And she'll pull up like screenshots and she'll be like.
She'll be like remember when you said this, this is still a problem when you're later.
It's not going to change.
So maybe you should just end things.
And it's been very helpful.
Yeah, i also like i will.
I wait and jen's really good at this too like i wait until it's the right time, because you might always be thinking that as a friend, but they might not be ready for it.
So i wait until there's a crack in the glass and then i'm like i think i think now is the time.
She's very patient.
Yeah, because if you, if you voice, if you vocalize it at the wrong time, it could and they choose to stay with that person, it could really it could cause a riff in your friendship.
Just, tact when making these decisions, when the moment is ripe ripe yes, but yeah, like you were saying, like it's okay to be high maintenance.
You just have to find someone who loves to maintain you.
Yeah, and some, some guys love maintaining things.
Like have you seen what they do to their honda civics?
Like they like mod it.
They add a spoiler.
They wash it with a little microfiber cloth.
Wax it with their hands.
They are capable of doing that.
Don't let a guy tell you otherwise.
They love taking care of things in their nature.
What about you, Mads?
How has attraction changed over time?
So I am naturally inclined towards toxic men and I have been trying and working really hard to not be attracted to those things.
And it's really hard.
It is what it is, girl.
It's hard.
The first step is admitting it.
Yeah, so I feel like I've dated guys that were obviously very toxic and then I've dated guys that had less toxic traits.
And so kind of like.
There's qualities in men that I find unattractive instinctually, but then I try to take pause and then think about why and realize that it's actually a good trait.
Yeah, so I think my type has evolved into hopefully more developed men.
But TBD on that, because we are like, probably in the middle of the slope.
It is not really at the peak yet.
One thing that we often talk about with each other is how much there's just so much richness in our female friendships and how there's traits that are exhibited and modeled that we can see is so valuable.
That helps us feel really loved, or know how we feel really loved and how We can now look for some of those things.
Obviously, you know, it's going to be the same or at the same level, of course.
But there's more clarity in knowing what we want based on what we've received and felt really loved in through our female friendships.
So I'm curious if you guys have thoughts about traits or qualities you've seen in your friendships with females that have like informed traits that you look for in men.
I wish I could marry all my friends because if that was, I mean it is a possibility, but not for me romantically.
But they cannot provide logistically like emotionally.
All of my female friendships have been so life-giving because girls are just able to see more nuanced sides of you and they're able to read micro expressions so quickly.
And for the girls that like are in it for the long run, the girls that are like your ride or die.
They will excavate and they will dig deeply into why you do things.
And instead of like in conflict, like for me and Madeline we don't just have the conflict, we'll have like a debrief after the conflict.
Like immediately following.
How did it go?
As to like okay, I said this because I wanted to understand you, or I said this because I felt misunderstood.
So we're able to label certain reactions in a way where we're like okay, we can catch this next time.
And next time I'll be more mindful.
And so it's like stuff like that.
That's like so easy and simple for women to do that.
It's just like, if a guy has it, it's like wow, he must be straight from heaven.
Because like, how is that so possible for a guy to do so?
It's just like yeah, it's just like certain qualities that are pretty typical within female friendships is, if a guy has it, then it's just like wow, he's a catch.
And then you compare it with like, oh, my best friend just did that the other day.
And so the bar really is very different.
And I think like friendships are so romantic, but people don't talk about them.
So, like you know, like you get texts from your friends in the middle of the day, or like I've gotten Oh no, I've gotten, I've gotten cards from both of you randomly in the mail, or you just get little gifts just because.
You and I, we like to accumulate gifts from our travels and we just give care packages to each other.
We're like crows oh, something shiny for madeline.
I'll put this in the box for later.
Really though yeah, and like jen sends wrapped gifts in the mail and they're always so thoughtful, and so it's like those little things.
Or like my friends will get me flowers sometimes, you know, and it's just like so nice.
So when you are treated like that and then like a man comes in and doesn't even give you a quarter of that, you're like why am i even dealing with?
Yeah,
Yeah.
When I can get all of my emotional tank filled by my friends.
And so like, how do you reconcile?
Like, do I even need a man?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
What about you, Jen?
Yeah, I was thinking about this question and I feel like the thing that stood out to me was how much like friendships actually teach you, sometimes in safe places, the healthiest form of relationships
And then it actually trickles out into your romantic relationships and your relationships with your family, whoever it is, but like there's such safety, i feel like in friendships that's chosen like out of everybody in the world, like i choose to like do this life with you, and that safety creates such an environment to like be a little bit messier, whereas i think with family or in romantic relationships maybe there's hard like that takes longer, maybe to develop that like years and years just think about your friends that you've known for like decades like there's such comfort and safety.
They know the depths of you yeah, and so there's almost permission to just be one of those times you figure things out yeah, like healthy relational conflict, I feel like is learned so beautifully in friendship um, and then clarifying like what makes you feel really loved and then being able to like articulate voice that to somebody else.
What's something that you've learned in your friendship that you, or friendships that have bled into other types of relationships?
Well, one thing that I find I feel really loved in is when people really ask and like create space for me to ask questions.
So these two are really great at probing and asking more beyond just like if i give a response or answer a question that they've asked, they'll like ask a little more and want to know a little bit more, and i feel like that has been so beautiful and so seeing when i felt that with a guy too has been like ah, I know what it feels like when someone wants to really know you, versus they're just breezing by on maybe layer one of you.
So the desire to go deeper and know you more.
The genuine curiosity.
The genuine care and curiosity?
Yeah, because when you're talking to guys, you're always wondering, like is there an ulterior motive?
Is he trying to get something from me?
And so when he takes that like extra step to get to know you and ask those follow-up questions, you're like ah okay, he's taking the time to get to know me and like yeah, this is, this is good.
It's a familiar feeling and it's a familiar you know that that's something that you need and want.
He makes you feel like you're with the girlies.
You know he's good, you know he's a good one and your girls provide such a good foundation and reference point for what you should want in a relationship.
But, at the same time, guys are built so differently and so having that expectation that you can have a relationship similar to what your friendships with your girlfriends look like is actually unrealistic, and you can't expect that from a guy either.
It's important to want the right things at the right standard, but also not to expect something from a guy when they are not a girl.
They're not built that way.
They're just built different.
It's kind of like what people say around best friends too, like you don't have one person that can be your perfect best friend, that can do everything for you and your um and your like emotional needs and understand every part of you.
But having that kaleidoscope in your life is really great and like I feel like your romantic relationships, your friendships are all in that kaleidoscope Different beads, different colors, different textures that all come together.
Yeah, for me, whenever I expect a man to be just like a woman, then that's where the problems happen.
Because sometimes they just like can't.
Or they're just not, it doesn't flow as naturally for them.
It's like a skill you can develop, but it's just like, you can't expect guys to.
It's not how they're wired.
It's not how they're wired.
It's not where their strengths lie.
It doesn't mean that they should not try.
It doesn't mean they can't meet you where you need to be met.
But a lot of times you find that the romance novels that hit so hard are written by women.
They're written by women yeah, and that's just like unrealistic, like it's.
It's an unrealistic expectation and it's kind of propaganda, to be honest, because it sets up the expectation for girls to want, like this perfect man who knows everything about you, and like your girlfriends have worked so hard to get to that point and um, not only are they your friends, they are girls.
And so like if a guy tries that hard, it's gonna look different.
It will still be beautiful but, like you can't expect that, it's gonna be just like the friendships that are like copy paste.
Like my friend said this, why can't you say it like her?
Why can't you do a follow up questions just like her?
And they're just like well, I'm trying, and they're trying in a different way, but you're just not recognizing it because you're expecting them to be like a girl.
And that's just like. where the relationship problems happen.
So that wraps up our episode about how to bag an A5 wag, you Asian boss girl.
It's so funny how the vibe of her episode has gone.
The full trajectory of like spritz forearms height, what do you?
And chiseled jawlines too.
The beauty of like pursuing deep relationship, whether it's friendship, whether it's in a romantic context um, just the key being being able to see another person so fully before you and know their soul and care deeply about every part of them, and also allowing ourselves to be on the receiving end of that too, and how friendships and your other deep relationships in your life are the foundations for that.
And when another cute man arrives in the ability to be able to give that fully and receive that fully is just really able to be unlocked.
We hope that, whether you got that special man in your life or you got those bestie girlfriends, that There's just There's deep, rich relationship in your life, in whatever form it takes, and I
This is also her sign from the universe to give her bestie a little romantic gesture.
She needs one.
Send her flowers, get her candy.
Fold her laundry.
It's all in the small stuff.
But then keep an eye out for the chisel jawlines out there.
You never know.
Send them my way if there's any.
Appreciate you.
We out.
511 and up.
Bye.
