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Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio.
Good morning.
This is Laura.
Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.
Today's tip is that hard work is good, but make sure it is getting you somewhere that you intend to go.
So I recently heard of someone who, in the words of her colleague, runs a marathon on a treadmill.
It is a striking image.
We all probably know somebody who is always busy but without accomplishing much.
Maybe you have a colleague who is always stressed and frowning at her computer, but who doesn't seem to produce that much.
Perhaps you know someone who moves around her house at 100 miles per hour, taking objects from room to room, straightening the same pictures again and again, but without the house ever feeling tidy enough to stop.
Or maybe you have a co-worker who's always keeping balls in the air for a dozen projects but strangely doesn't seem to finish any of them.
Maybe you feel like you are running a marathon on a treadmill.
You are going at the fastest pace you possibly can, but you aren't finishing what you want to finish.
Now, in running, treadmills serve their purpose.
I run a few miles on the treadmill when it is icy outside or dark at 4 p.m.
But if you are training for a marathon and running longer distances, this would soon become quite maddening to have no real sense of forward motion.
So how do you get off the treadmill and onto the roadway where those 26 miles actually cover 26 miles?
One idea is to first focus on your language of productivity.
Try to talk about what you will accomplish rather than vague projects you are randomly working on.
Generally, there should be a noun and a verb in your plans or even a time limit.
Email doesn't work.
Instead, you could decide to spend 30 minutes processing my emails.
You will know you have accomplished that when you have spent 30 focused minutes addressing what is most important in your inbox and capturing tasks into your task processing system.
Likewise, job search is too vague.
Instead, you might plan to review a particular job board and identify any jobs you want to apply for, or reach out to three connections on LinkedIn and ask for their help in particular ways.
Make sure your plans get you going in a particular direction.
There is no point being busy just to be busy.
Just as you use language about what you plan to accomplish in the future, you can also use the language of accomplishment looking back on your time.
If you don't already have a way of tracking what you have done, consider keeping a spreadsheet where you have a row for each day and a column for each phase of the day, perhaps morning afternoon, evening.
In each cell, you jot down your accomplishments in a few words.
Think edited banks document and sent it in, or drafted agenda for quarterly meeting and sent it around.
Doing this keeps you focused on what you have gotten done.
And if you have gotten done what you set out to get done, give yourself freedom to choose what to do next.
You don't have to seem busy.
If you're done with your priorities for the morning, great.
Read an article related to a topic you are interested in.
Have a cup of coffee with a new colleague.
Or flesh out ideas for a project you want to pitch to your boss.
When you reach your destination early, you do not have to keep running in place.
Now, maybe you are not the one who stays busy but doesn't accomplish much.
Maybe you are a manager and you have a direct report who always seems to be running a marathon on their treadmill?
A lot of the same strategies apply.
Use the language of accomplishment.
Ask what they plan to get done, what projects or tasks they completed, any barriers to accomplishment they need your help on, etc.
Also, recognize accomplishment, not long hours.
You don't want your team to think you see good employees as those who arrive early and stay late and are always talking about just how busy they are.
So don't praise that behavior.
Instead, compliment high-quality work.
People will get the message.
You may also need to address the treadmill directly.
When an employee is always busy but doesn't seem to be getting a lot done.
Ask what their top priorities are.
Be a guide and a thought partner in making sure their effort is focused on those priorities and moving forward on them.
It is not always obvious how to do this.
Having guidance from a supervisor can be transformative.
No one really wants to run a marathon on a treadmill.
A few miles are fine, but too much treadmill time can be exhausting and not all that satisfying.
So if that is you sometimes, take a step back and refocus.
Figure out what you want to do in any given unit of time.
Do it, and then celebrate the accomplishment.
You won't feel so much like you are running in place.
In the meantime, this is Laura.
Thanks for listening.
And here's to making the most of our time.
Thanks for listening to Before Breakfast.
If you've got questions, ideas, or feedback, you can reach me at Laura at LauraVanderkam.com.
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