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Hey, Michelle, how are you doing?
Hey, Aubrey. I'm good.
I'm good. I'm happy to record with you today.
Guys, Lindsay is out of town, so she is not here, but don't worry, she will be back and we're looking forward to having her back.
But Aubrey, we're having some fun over here, right?
Yes, I love recording with you, Michelle.
I'm excited for this episode today.
Tell me, what is the name of the recording software that you use to record things like ads and titles?
tutorials oh it's audacity yeah that's that's the software that um we record on and it's a fun name for software because it has a very it's an interesting meaning in english right it's not just the brand of some computer recording software yes exactly so today we have a great question from our listener vita about this word would you like me to read the question is from YouTube.
All right. So Bita says, Hey guys, the other day I came across the term audacity on an Instagram reel.
I, and I've been hearing it all the time, but I didn't know the exact meaning or whether it is used in a positive or negative way.
I would appreciate it if you could make an episode about it.
You're a long time fan Bita.
Okay. Great question.
And thank you for being our longtime fan.
We're so appreciative of you.
Yes. Thank you, Bida.
And great question.
And we use it both ways.
So, this is really interesting.
This might be super positive to say someone has audacity.
It might be negative.
Yeah. When you say, like, oh, the audacity.
So, I'm going to dive into all of these.
Exactly. So, yeah, this is a super good question.
I mean, when I hear the word audacity, I think of, well, first of all, our software.
But I also one of the first things I think of is Barack Obama, because he had a book called The Audacity of Hope.
I don't know if I told you this, Michelle, or listeners out here, you may have heard this that my son recently had to memorize a speech at school.
And he memorized Obama's Yes, We Can speech. And it was all about hope and unity.
It was selections of it because it had to be three to five minutes, but he did did such a great job.
It was so amazing. It's just such an amazing message of hope.
Yeah. You sent me the video, I remember, and he's just, what an incredible boy, right?
That's, you must have been just beaming, right?
Absolutely. But it is interesting to use it this way to say the audacity of hope.
So yeah, that's interesting.
Yeah. So we're going to talk about more what this means.
I mean, I mean, all right, let's get into it.
So, it basically means this confidence, this boldness.
You don't have fear, right?
Exactly. And you can be used, it can be used in either a positive or a negative way, don't you think?
Exactly. So, here, this is very positive.
The audacity of hope, meaning like we are willing to hope even in spite of challenges, in spite of fears, right?
We're lacking fear.
We have confidence that we can have hope in spite of any reason that we wouldn't.
Yes, exactly. So, yeah, let's give some examples of how we can be used in a positive way.
I mean, here we go.
Here's the first one.
It's amazing that he had the audacity to move to New York all by himself.
I wouldn't be that brave. Yeah, and this is really interesting to think about describing someone as having audacity.
You don't always know for sure how positive someone is being, right?
If you say this, there could be an implication that you think it's sort of foolish or foolhardy, that someone maybe is just moving with no funds, no plan, be like, he's got a lot of audacity to just move to New York by himself.
That might be almost criticism, but someone else might mean it as really a compliment, like I'm impressed that they're that brave. I don't know if I could do it.
There's no implied criticism.
That's interesting about this word. Sometimes you won't really be sure yeah that's true you would have to listen to the intonation you would have to maybe know something a little something about the person who's saying it or you might even have to ask a follow -up question right like you could say like i think it's so impressive you know what about you are you yeah what do you think yep yep or here's another example his fashion choices show his audacity he really stands out on the red carpet yeah and again right is there an implied criticism here or is it only a compliment?
You might see this word audacity in news media and the author may have intended one or the other and you won't be sure.
True. So let's talk about more of the negative side.
Yeah. I mean, Aubrey, you've made a really good point that even the positive ones could be a veiled criticism.
This is where it's very subtle.
It's very slight. It's not It's not obvious because it could be taken positively.
Right. But these ones are a little bit more obvious that they're negative, right?
It's almost, in this way, audacity means almost too brave. And Aubrey, you want to read some of those examples?
So you might say, I can't believe she has the audacity to think she didn't need to audition for the part.
This is definitely a criticism, a judgment, right?
It's not a kind thing to say.
You probably would not say to someone's face, I can't believe you have the audacity to think you could get the part without auditioning.
This is really harsh.
Right, right, right, right.
Or if he has the audacity to argue with his boss, who knows what he will do next?
Right. This definitely means like they're overly bold to the point that it might be causing problems for them.
Right. That's definitely a negative characteristic sometimes to have audacity.
Right. Yep. It really depends.
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Okay. So Aubrey, um, yeah, to me, when I hear audacity, I do think that I, I do think more of the negative side, right?
Somebody has the audacity to do something like shocking.
Yeah. You too. I don't, I think, yeah, I think that is how I hear it used used more and how I use it more, but it can be positive.
So that's why it's really tricky.
You know, if we, if someone's saying like, I really admire her audacity, that's positive, right?
Because if someone is very shy and timid and has no audacity, they might really admire that in other people and they see themselves, maybe they're getting steamrolled a lot.
They're like, Like, I wish I had more audacity.
Right. Yeah, exactly.
So, I mean, and it can be positive, like that New York example, but that could also be negative.
So, it's really, you have to think about the context.
But I also wanted to point out the grammar. We often say the audacity to do something, the audacity to blank, right?
So, Aubrey, I thought we could play a tiny little game.
I'm going to give some examples and we'll talk about if we think it's more positive or negative.
Oh, you know I love a game.
I'm excited. Oh, God.
All right. I'm shocked that she has the audacity to start her own fashion company.
She always seemed so timid to me.
So what do you think?
Is this more of like, I'm shocked in a good way?
This definitely seems more positive, right?
If you're seeing someone as normally being timid, and they have overcome that, and they have the audacity to create a business, where's the negative there?
Right? I think this is definitely positive.
What do you think? yeah i think so too now let's do this one i'm shocked that she has the audacity start her own fashion company after the way she behaved at that conference oh this is negative i didn't see the behavior at the conference but it sounds both in your intonation and some like context here the shot like i am shocked that she has the audacity you can hear in your voice that this is negative right right right and sometimes aubrey you were saying at the beginning when we were talking about the episode, that you often say it like this.
You want to do it for us?
Yeah, I will. After someone says something sort of shocking, I'll just say the audacity.
And this isn't just me.
I hear it used this way.
This is very common. But this is definitely how I most often use this word. Let's do a little role play to see how that might look, Michelle.
Okay. All right. She's always late.
Oh, the audacity. And so all that means is I'm saying sort of like, how dare she?
Like, think that it's okay to always be late, but it is a little bit playful, right?
Because if I actually said that outright, how dare she always be late?
It's so rude. All of that is so mean and critical.
Whereas to just be like the audacity, I'm sort of poking fun at us for caring so much, right?
I'm making it lighter.
Yeah, exactly. Some similar words you might hear are the gall or the nerve, right?
So she had the the gall to fire two employees who just earned her a lot of money.
Yes, we hear this a lot, right?
She has some gall. I can't believe she has the gall to do that.
It's very similar, very interchangeable.
Yep. Yep. Or what's another one?
Or the nerve. I use this even more.
I can't believe she has the nerve to do that.
This is negative. I don't think I would ever say like, I was so impressed she had the nerve to start that business i feel like i mostly hear this used negatively what do you think michelle could be possible it could be okay i'm imagining somebody right standing up to somebody right i i can't i'm so glad that one of us had the nerve to stand up to blah blah blah right a good point because then you're using it to mean courage right you had the nerve to do that you had the courage to do that that's a good point and even this other example that was so positive if i put in nerve I am shocked that she
has the nerve to start her own fashion company.
She always seems so timid to me Right very interchangeable Interesting cuz ball I would say I wouldn't say call that way can't believe she has the gall to do this I feel like that's always negative Very interesting and then of course you could use more basic ones like fearless or fearlessness Her fearlessness is exactly what got her to where she is in life Yeah.
And this is much more positive, right?
If someone is fearless, that's really usually, there's no negative implication there.
They're just brave. They're courageous.
They're fearless. You'd have to really add a lot of context to make that negative.
Yeah. Be like, she really doesn't think before she acts.
She's always been. But even then, I wouldn't say fearless.
I would say maybe foolhardy.
yeah I don't know I put foolhardy down as a as a key word for today because I really like it but I don't use it that much but I like it so maybe I'll start maybe I should start using it it is a little less common but yeah I like it I like it better than foolish I feel like the word foolish is so much kind of meaner and critical foolhardy just sounds a little more light -hearted so I say say that usually instead of foolish i like that i like it all right let's do a role play so here we are friends thinking about opening a boutique together oh i'm done all right here we go i don't know do we have the audacity
to actually do this let's make our dreams come true we are fearless yes no more working in bad situations where our bosses have the gall to call us in at 2 a .m for no reason.
You can say that again.
Mine definitely had a lot of nerve.
Yeah. These are good because this is really how we use it.
Right. You first said, do we have the audacity to actually do this?
And this is where it is being used just positively, Are we brave enough to take this risk?
Yeah, there it's positive.
And then we're kind of getting ourselves amped up.
We're all excited. So you said we are are fearless yeah I'm giving us a pep talk here we can do it we do have the nerve to do this and then you said our bosses had the gall to call us in at 2 a .m for no reason so this is very that negative use of like how dare they they had the gall of doing something unreasonable yep and then you said you can say that again mine definitely had a lot of nerve so negative way yeah meaning meaning they were willing to do things that were disrespectful or inappropriate, will often just be like, you got a lot of nerve doing that.
It means you're just criticizing, judging the action.
Yeah. Yeah, exactly.
Oh, my gosh. Well, this was a lot of fun, Aubrey.
What a good question.
Really brought us around to a lot of different conversation topics and talking about the depth of this word and how it really depends on the context.
guys head on over to one of our saturday episodes um that we did which was this isn't what i ordered how to ask for the correct order in english you might need a little bit of nerve to do that oh that's a good point right it takes a lot of nerve to send back an order that was incorrect i i have the nerve to do that if it's really wrong or something's really bad my partner does not he would never he's like i'm just gonna eat this silently he doesn't have the nerve to send it about.
I have the nerve. I have the nerve.
I'm paying. Anyway, takeaway for today is, you know, you really have to listen about whether audacity is used more in a positive or negative context.
Aubrey and I kind of came to this conclusion that more frequently you might hear it in a negative context, but there are different situations and we gave you lots of examples of that today.
This is definitely a word to be a little bit careful with because you could to mean it positively and accidentally say it negatively.
If the tone isn't just right or it's not clear by the context, whoever you're talking to or about might misunderstand because it is often used negatively to say someone has audacity or I can't believe they have the audacity to do that.
So definitely a pitfall to watch out for in English.
Really good point, Aubrey.
All right. Well, this was fun.
Thanks for chatting with me today and I'll see you soon.
Yes. Awesome. See you next time.
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