Budgeting was, I felt like one of my greatest superpowers.
And the word budget to a lot of people instills like this kind of fear that you have to live in deprivation.
But what my budget did for me was give me the opportunity to spend money on the things that were super important to me.
My name is Nasima McElroy.
I'm 44 years old.
I work as a labor and delivery nurse in the San Francisco Bay Area.
That second job, ironically, covers a lot of my childcare expenses as a single mom.
I actually took three months off of work just to focus on my family and recovering and finding a little bit of that balance.
I invested about 50000 into my business, into building out some things in the back end.
My business operates at a loss at the current moment because there are some really exciting things coming up.
I am a mom of three beautiful girls.
Having child care is rather a big line item in my budget.
I prioritize financial independence.
So as soon as I got to the point where I was able to max out a 403B and a 457 and invest in a Roth IRA, I started investment accounts for my kids.
The Bay Area is very expensive and I really feel like, when it comes to living comfortable, you have to be a little bit creative.
I always try to keep my mortgage under 30 of my income.
So I do live a little bit further east in the Bay Area.
I always have a room in my house where I let my coworkers or travel nurses stay, and that further decreases my housing costs.
I don't think that debt is a bad thing.
I think that we have to be intentional about the choices we make and the decisions that we make around debt.
All my debts have been intentional.
So the debt for my mortgage, of course, it would be very hard to buy a million dollar house cash.
The other debt is primarily to grow my business and invest back into my business.
I'm definitely a credit card girlie.
I do have about 20 credit cards.
I was heavy in the try to be a credit card like hacker.
And now it's just because I like having access to extra resources.
I grew up kind of poor.
I was raised by a single dad in West Oakland, but I went to a very affluent school in one of the most richest neighborhoods in Oakland.
So I was surrounded by people that didn't look like me that had wealth.
And so I assumed that wealth wasn't for me because we definitely didn't have it.
My biggest money mistakes in my 20s was investing in real estate and not really understanding what the investment meant.
Not really understanding the cost of home ownership and the cost of being a landlord and dealing with a lot of personalities.
And those lessons caused me to have two short sales and two foreclosures and ultimately have to file for bankruptcy in my twenties.
In 2015, I had just bought this brand new house and I had 36 windows and they all needed blinds on them.
And so I had to borrow money from my sister, And during that time I was working as a labor and delivery nurse and I was making over 200000.
So I really felt like it was ridiculous that I didn't have any savings.
I did not really have any investments.
It definitely felt like I was living paycheck to paycheck.
And honestly, I did not have an idea before I started on this journey where my money was going.
I wasn't tracking my expenses.
In 2015, I set out on a mission to take the same level of intentionality that I had in getting all my other degrees into learning how to better manage my money and fix the money mistakes that had gotten me to that point where I was borrowing money to put blinds on my windows.
My total debt at that time, with my mortgage included, was around a million dollars of debt.
So the first thing that I had to change was to figure out actually how to budget.
And I used a method called zero-based budgeting.
When I mastered that I was able to, without working extra, consistently put about 4000 a month towards debt.
It was just those little things that we do daily unconsciously in our spending that just added up.
When I was able to figure out my budget, I realized that number one I did not have to change anything in my lifestyle, but I was now being intentional, so that the things that I was actually spending money on actually felt like something and they were actually the things that I wanted and desired.
So as part of my debt payoff plan, i use a strategy called the debt snowball, which is where you line up your debts from your smallest debt to your largest debt, based off of the amount of the debt, not the interest rate, the amount of the debt and you tackle the smallest debt while just paying the minimum on the other debt once that smaller debt is paid off.
Now you have that minimum payment plus whatever extra you're able to put on to that.
Next, It grew into a business because from there, people asked me to share or brands wanted me to represent them and their businesses.
And so it became an unintentional.
Business.
I'm a firm believer that the biggest investment you can make is in yourself.
And for me, this business is one of the best things that has happened to me.
It's almost a no brainer to be able to put money into it.
I believe my business could totally be my full time income source.
I definitely believe in the next year it can totally replace and far surpass my nursing income.
The thought of quitting nursing is so hard for me because I love being a nurse.
But there's also times where, you know, we do experience those lows.
I think my goal ultimately is not to leave nursing but to have the flexibility to take those three months off to just work four days a week or something like that.
I really feel like it's within one or two years where I can pull back from nursing.
The goal is going to be to have as much financial independence as possible possible, not to just retire from work and live on a beach.
It's really about getting to do the things that I want to do and having the opportunity to spend time on the things that are important to me which, right now, is my family.