Welcome to English as a Second Language Podcast, number 197.
An apology.
You're listening to English as a Second Language Podcast, episode 197.
I'm your host, Dr Jeff McQuillan, coming to you from the Center for Educational Development in beautiful Los Angeles, California.
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Today's podcast is about someone who is making an apology, saying that they are sorry to another person.
Let's get started.
Oh, hi.
Can I talk to you for a minute?
I'm really busy right now.
Just one minute.
I promise it won't take long.
Okay.
Let's talk over here.
Kurt, I'm really sorry that I told Joyce that you had a crush on her.
We were just talking last Friday, and it just slipped out.
I know.
It's totally my fault.
I really regret saying anything.
I wish I could take it back.
I just want you to know that I'm really sorry and I hope that you'll accept my apology.
What's done is done.
I was really pissed off when I found out this morning, but I'm over it now.
Hold on a sec.
Guess who that was?
Who?
Joyce.
She wanted to know if I'd like to have lunch with her today.
It was?
That's great.
Maybe... And maybe not.
Maybe she just wants to tell me she's not interested in me.
Or maybe she likes you too.
Don't let your imagination run away with you.
I won't, but I'm keeping my fingers crossed.
This podcast is called...
An apology.
An apology.
A-P-O-L-O-G-Y is when you do something wrong and you tell the other person that you are sorry, that you feel badly and that you did not want to hurt them.
Those would be examples of an apology.
To say that you are sorry.
Well, in this dialogue, we hear Becky and Kurt talking.
Becky asks Kurt if she can talk to him for a minute.
When we say the expression for a minute, we mean for a short time, not necessarily 60 seconds.
Usually it means for a very short time.
You wouldn't use it for things that would take a long time, such as apologizing to your wife or girlfriend.
Well, Kurt doesn't seem to want to talk to Becky.
He says, I'm really busy right now.
Becky says, just one minute, meaning just a short amount of time.
I promise it won't take long.
To promise, P-R-O-M-I-S-E, means that you make a commitment to another person.
You are saying that it will happen the way you say it will happen.
So Becky promises Kurt that it won't take long.
Their conversation won't take very much time.
Kurt says, okay, let's talk over here.
Becky then apologizes to Kurt.
She says, To be sorry means that you regret doing something.
It's part of the apology.
To have a crush means is when you are romantically interested in someone.
Oftentimes we use this word crush to mean the very beginnings of your interest in someone else.
This is also a term we use sometimes with high school students or junior high school students.
They have crushes.
They're not in love, but they have romantic interests.
Becky then says that she and Joyce were just talking last Friday and it just slipped out.
Notice the use of the word just, J-U-S-T, here.
In the first case, we were just talking means that we were only talking.
We weren't doing anything else.
The second part of the sentence says, it just slipped out.
Here just means it accidentally happened, or it happened accidentally without me wanting it to or without me having that intention.
I didn't necessarily want it to slip out.
The expression to slip S-L-I-P out O-U-T two words means that you tell someone something that you didn't plan on telling them.
You weren't supposed to tell them.
It was a secret. but you were talking and it slipped out.
You said it even though you wanted to keep it a secret.
Kurt then says to Becky, but I told you about Joyce in confidence.
In confidence, C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-C-E, means that I told you as a secret.
I told you something as a secret that you did not want them to tell anyone else.
So when someone tells you something in confidence, it means that they don't want you to tell anyone else.
Becky says, I know.
It's totally my fault.
Totally here means it's completely my fault.
It's somewhat of an informal use.
It started out as something that you would only hear young people say high school students but now it's becoming more common.
So it's totally my fault means it's completely my fault.
Becky says, I really regret saying anything.
To regret means the same as you're sorry that you wish it had not happened.
In fact, Becky says, I wish I could take it back.
To take something back means that you wish something didn't happen.
I wish I could take it back.
I wish I had not said that.
Becky says, To accept an apology means to forgive the other person, to say it's okay, no problem when they apologize to you.
Kurt says, What's done is done.
What's done is done means... that we can't go back and change history.
We can't change what happened.
It's too late.
This expression what's done is done actually comes originally from Shakespeare, from the play Macbeth, when Lady Macbeth says what's done is done in the middle of the play.
Later she also has a famous quote what's done cannot be undone, meaning once you do something, you can't go back and change it.
So Kurt says what's done is done.
I was really pissed off, he says, when I found out this morning, but I'm over it now.
The expression to be pissed P-I-S-S-E-D off O-F-F is an informal expression, not something you would say to your boss, or perhaps your mother even.
And it means that you are very angry, that you are very mad, something that you would use with a friend perhaps, that expression
It means you were very angry.
Well, Kurt was very angry, but he says, I'm over it now.
To be over something means that it no longer bothers you.
It's okay now.
It doesn't matter to me.
The cell phone then rings, and Kurt says, Hold on a sec.
Or he could have said, hold on a second.
Hold on a sec or hold on a second means wait for a short amount of time.
When you say to someone, hold on, you mean, wait, I'm busy, I'm doing something else right now.
I will get back to you in a very short time, in a second.
A few seconds later, Kurt comes back and says, Guess who that was?
Guess who means I want you to guess.
I want you to think of who that was talking to me.
Guess who that was?
Becky says, Who?
And Kurt says, Joyce.
It was Joyce on the telephone who called him.
She wanted to know if Kurt wanted to have lunch with her today.
Becky says, it was, meaning it was Joyce, really?
That's great, maybe.
And then Kurt says, and maybe not.
When Becky says maybe, she's saying, maybe she likes you.
And Kurt immediately says, and maybe not.
Maybe she just wants to tell me she's not interested in me.
To be interested in someone means that you like them romantically, that you have a crush on them, perhaps.
I'm interested in you means I am interested in you romantically.
Becky says, or maybe she likes you too.
And Kurt says, don't let your imagination run away with you.
That means don't be thinking about things that may not happen.
Don't try to imagine something that isn't likely or isn't possible.
Becky says at the end, I won't meaning I won't let my imagination run away with me, but I'm keeping my fingers crossed.
To keep or to have your fingers crossed.
C-R-O-S-S-E-D means that you are hoping for something good to happen.
To cross your fingers means to hope that something good will happen in the future.
I'm keeping my fingers crossed that I will win the lottery this weekend.
If I do win the lottery, there probably won't be an ESL podcast next week.
So if you hear one, I didn't win.
Now let's listen to the dialogue at a native rate of speech.
Kurt.
Oh, hi.
Can I talk to you for a minute?
I'm really busy right now.
Just one minute.
I promise it won't take long.
Okay, let's talk over here.
Kurt, I'm really sorry that I told Joyce that you had a crush on her.
We were just talking last Friday and it just slipped out.
But I told you about Joyce and confidence.
I know.
It's totally my fault.
I really regret saying anything.
I wish I could take it back.
I just want you to know that I'm really sorry and I hope that you'll accept my apology.
What's done is done.
I was really pissed off when I found out this morning, but I'm over it now.
Hold on a sec.
Guess who that was?
Who?
Joyce.
She wanted to know if I'd like to have lunch with her today.
It was?
That's great.
Maybe... And maybe not.
Maybe she just wants to tell me she's not interested in me.
Or maybe she likes you, too.
Don't let your imagination run away with you.
I won't, but I'm keeping my fingers crossed.
The script for today's podcast was written, as always, by Dr. Lucy Say.
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From Los Angeles, California, I'm Jeff McQuillan.
Thanks for listening.
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English as a Second Language podcast is written and produced by Dr Lucy Say, hosted by Dr Jeff McQuillan.
This podcast is copyright 2006.
