Welcome to English as a Second Language Podcast, number 82, In a Rut.
You're listening to English as a Second Language Podcast, episode 82.
My name is Dr Jeff McQuillan from the Center for Educational Development in beautiful Los Angeles, California.
Today's podcast is about being in a rut.
Let's get started.
What do you want to do tonight?
I don't know.
What do you want to do?
I have no idea.
Do you think we're in a rut?
What do you mean?
Well, we do the same things every weekend.
We go to the same restaurants.
We see the same friends.
You know what I mean?
Yeah, I guess you're right.
It's easy to get bogged down in the day-to-day and forget to change things up once in a while.
Let's break out and do something completely different tonight.
Okay, I'll look in the events section of the paper to see what's going on tonight.
Hmm, we could go to a concert.
There is a good one tonight.
I bet it's not sold out.
But we'll have to drive an hour to the venue.
An hour?
That's a bit of a bummer.
Let me take a peek and see what else there is.
How about going dancing?
We haven't done that in a while.
There's a club in Silver Lake that's supposed to be hopping on Friday nights.
Eddie from work told me that they have a really good DJ and a big dance floor and the cover charge isn't bad.
I'm not really in the mood for dancing, actually.
You know what?
I just feel like staying home tonight and vegging, after all.
How about you?
Yeah, I was hoping you'd say that.
It's nice to have the option to go out, but I'd rather stay in.
Maybe we can go out tomorrow night.
Yeah, definitely, tomorrow night.
Thank you for having me.
To be in a rut means that you are doing the same thing over and over again until you get bored.
It's like having the same routine or same things that you do all the time.
When you start to get bored with that, we use the expression, I'm in a rut, right? a rut r u t is if for example you have a bicycle and the bicycle goes back and forth in the ground and many bicycles go back and forth eventually there will be a path or a line that is formed by the bicycles going back and forth, and so that when you go in your bicycle, it will fall into that little hole, that little path, which we call a rut.
So to be stuck in a rut or to be in a rut means that you are moving in a direction and that you always go in that direction.
The woman says that they go to the same restaurants and see the same friends.
You know what I mean?
That expression.
You know what I mean.
Or sometimes we might just say you know means, do you understand?
Though sometimes we use it just to make sure the other person is listening.
The man answers that it's easy to get bogged down in the day-to-day.
To get bogged down B-O-G-G-E-D.
The verb is to bog down, or to get bogged down means that you are slowed down or that you get stuck in a certain position.
A bog, B-O-G, is very wet, muddy ground that if you put something on it, it will sink.
It will go down into it, and it's hard to get it out.
So to be bogged down means that you have these burdens, these problems or these things that keep you from doing something different.
The expression the day to day D-A-Y.
The day to day just means the common ordinary, normal things that you do every day.
One way of getting out of being bogged down is to change things up.
To change things up.
Notice this is another two-word verb, to change up.
Again, it means pretty much the same as to change, to change the way you do things.
Let's change things up, and tonight we are going to the beach instead of to a movie.
That is the expression we might use.
The up doesn't change the meaning very much.
It's a little more common, however, when we say that we're going to change the way we do something.
The man suggests that they break out and do something different.
To break out Literally, if you are in prison and you want to get out before your time, you have to break out, means you have to escape, you have to get out.
So the man here is using this as a metaphor.
To break out means to get out of, to escape what they're doing right now.
The woman suggests that they look in the events section of the paper.
The events section is the part of a newspaper that has the listing of all the movies and the dance clubs and the theater and so forth.
Sometimes we call this the calendar section because it often has a calendar, a list, date by date, of when things will happen.
She suggests going to a concert and says, I bet it's not sold out.
I bet, to bet, B-E-T, again, has a couple of different meanings.
One meaning of to bet is that you go, for example, to Las Vegas or to Monte Carlo or someplace where you can gamble, play poker or do other sorts of gambling, and you can place a bet or simply bet, which means you put money down and you hope that you win that particular game.
Here, however, when we say, I bet, what we're really saying is, I think.
We use the phrase bet, I suppose because we're saying I could bet, I could put money down and be sure that I was going to win.
More generally, though, it simply means I think or in my opinion.
The woman says it's probably not sold out.
To sell out or to be sold out means that there are no more tickets.
There's no more tickets to the event.
She says that it's going to take an hour to drive to the venue.
A venue, V-E-N-U-E, is a place where a concert or a play is performed.
A theater is a type of venue.
The man doesn't want to travel for an hour.
In fact, he says, that's a bit of a bummer.
A bummer, B-U-M-M-E-R, simply means something that you don't like, an unfortunate event.
It's an informal expression, probably used more often by younger people.
Boy, that's a bummer.
It just means that's a bad thing, that's an unfortunate thing.
The man says, let me take a peek and see what else there is.
To take a peek, P-E-A-K, means to take a look, usually a quick look.
A peek is when you look at something very quickly.
There's a game that young children play called peek-a-boo.
And peekaboo is when you hide behind something.
The little child will hide behind something, then stick their head out and then put it back so you can't see it.
That's kind of like playing peekaboo, or you put your hand in front of your eyes, you take a quick look, a peek, and then you put your hands back in front of your eyes.
The suggestion of the man is that they go dancing and he points out or he says to the woman that there's a club in Silver Lake that's supposed to be hopping on Friday nights.
A club is a place where people dance, in this instance, a dance club.
Silver Lake is just a neighborhood here in Los Angeles.
To be hopping means to be very busy, to have lots of excitement.
Usually we talk about a dance club or a party as being hopping.
It means there are a lot of people there and there is a lot of excitement there.
The dance club usually has a DJ, and DJ stands for disc jockey, and that's the person who plays the CDs nowadays or the records in the old days.
A dance floor, of course, is the place in the club where you can dance.
And the cover charge is how much you have to pay to get into a dance club.
That fee or that price is called the cover charge.
Sometimes people will just say the cover.
How much is the cover for that club?
How much do you have to pay to get in?
The woman says that she's not really in the mood for dancing.
To be in the mood means that you feel like doing something, that you want to do something.
She's not in the mood.
She wants to stay home and veg.
She says, I'm staying home tonight and vegging.
To veg, V-E-G, is an informal verb.
It means to relax, not to do any sort of thinking or anything that would make you have to work.
So someone who is vegging is someone who is relaxing but not doing anything intellectual.
The man says that he wants to stay home too.
He says it's nice to have the option to go out, but I'd rather stay in.
To have the option just means to have the choice.
To go out and to stay in are opposites.
To go out means to go somewhere like a play or a theater or a movie theater or a concert.
To leave your house and to go somewhere, usually for entertainment.
To stay in means to stay at your house.
If someone says, I'm staying in tonight, they mean I'm not going to leave my house or my apartment.
Now let's listen to the dialogue, this time at a native rate of speech.
What do you want to do tonight?
I don't know.
What do you want to do?
I have no idea.
Do you think we're in a rut?
What do you mean?
Well, we do the same things every weekend.
We go to the same restaurants, we see the same friends.
You know what I mean?
Yeah, I guess you're right.
It's easy to get bogged down in the day-to-day and forget to change things up once in a while.
Let's break out and do something completely different tonight.
Okay, I'll look in the events section of the paper to see what's going on tonight.
Hmm, we could go to a concert.
There's a good one tonight.
I bet it's not sold out.
But we'll have to drive an hour to the venue.
An hour?
That's a bit of a bummer.
Let me take a peek and see what else there is.
How about going dancing?
We haven't done that in a while.
There's a club in Silver Lake that's supposed to be hopping on Friday nights.
Eddie from work told me they have a really good DJ and a big dance floor and the cover charge isn't bad.
I'm not really in the mood for dancing, actually.
You know what?
I just feel like staying home tonight and vegging after all.
How about you?
Yeah, I was hoping you'd say that.
It's nice to have the option to go out, but I'd rather stay in.
Maybe we can go out tomorrow night?
Yeah, definitely, tomorrow night.
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I'm Jeff McQuillan from Los Angeles, California.
We'll see you next time on ESL Podcast.
English as a Second Language Podcast is written and produced by Dr Lucy Say, hosted by Dr Jeff McQuillan.
This podcast is copyright 2006.
