In the cultural landscape of the Yoruba people—an ethnic group of 52 million spanning Nigeria, Togo, and Benin—there exists a profound and highly esteemed quality known as itutu. To possess itutu is to be described in one of the most flattering ways possible; it is a state of being that is "unhurried, composed, assured and unflappable." Rather than a mere personality quirk, itutu represents a sophisticated approach to life, serving as a beacon of emotional intelligence and philosophical maturity.
At its core, itutu is defined by how one reacts to the inevitable frustrations of daily life. The text illustrates this through relatable scenarios: if a bus is late, a person of itutu avoids shouting or engaging in disputes with a ticket vendor. Instead, they offer a "minor sigh and pull a weary smile." Similarly, when faced with sudden inclement weather during a planned garden party, they do not succumb to frustration. In their "normal tranquil and unaffected way," they simply move the furniture back inside. There is very little in the external world that can "rattle a person of Itutu."
Crucially, the Yoruba philosophy posits that itutu is not a "divine gift or chance trait." It is a cultivated quality, the result of internalizing a specific "view of existence." Many people fall into the trap of "agitation and anger" because they operate under a "mistaken and over-ambitious sense of what it lies in our power to alter." When we falsely believe that we possess total "command of external reality," we inevitably respond to minor reversals and systemic frustrations with "rage."
However, the person of itutu is not necessarily void of emotion. They may be "every bit as sad as their hysterical counterpart" when things go wrong. The difference lies in their "equanimity," which is underpinned by the profound realization that "trouble could not be skirted and must be accepted as belonging to the order of things." This represents a "noble resignation" that allows the individual to remain grounded regardless of external chaos.
This composure is deeply rooted in the Yoruba concept of ase, which the text translates as "destiny existence, or the cosmic order." The philosophy suggests that certain events fall within the "province of Ase" and cannot be altered by "any human will." An enlightened individual is one who understands the direction of ase and proactively "adjusts their desires and ambitions accordingly." By aligning one's internal expectations with the reality of cosmic order, the individual achieves a state of peace that is resilient against the unpredictability of life.
Perhaps the most compelling aspect of itutu is its social and aesthetic value. It is not merely a tool for wisdom; it makes a person "attractive, including physically attractive and what we might call cool." This is why young Yoruba individuals strive to adopt the "outward signs" of this philosophy, especially in high-stakes social settings like portraiture sessions with renowned photographers such as Rashidi Bissiriou.
While many global cultures harbor a "lingering suspicion that being effective might rely on a capacity to be frantic and hot-tempered," the Yoruba perspective offers a refreshing alternative. For them, agitation is not just a misunderstanding of one's place in the universe—it is "also just horribly unfashionable." By choosing composure over chaos, the practitioner of itutu masters not just their own mind, but their presence in the world.