All right, today we're hanging out with Ben Horowitz, the co-founder of A16Z.
These guys manage 46 billion in assets.
They've invested in Stripe, Coinbase, OpenAI, a bunch of the big hit tech companies.
But today we're talking about stuff that you don't usually get to hear from Ben.
So things like, how do you actually have a high confrontation conversation?
The advice he actually gives his founders.
Things like when he met Mark Zuckerberg and he was really young what he noticed about Mark that was different.
And what makes him such a great CEO that you can kind of steal a copy from Mark Zuckerberg's playbook.
Sam, what else do we got?
Dude, we also just hung out with him, which is like the best part.
And so he tells a story about how he helped catch Tupac's killer.
And we also asked him what interests him right now.
What books is he reading?
What content is he consuming?
What rabbit holes is he going down?
And it was incredibly interesting.
Awesome conversation with Ben Horwitz.
Enjoy.
I feel like I can rule the world.
I know I can be what I want to.
Okay, so I have a good Tupac story for you.
Oh my gosh.
All right.
I'm incredibly excited to hear it.
So my wife is like the biggest Las Vegas evangelist in the world.
And she was talking to Quincy Jones' son, QD3, and said, you know, you need to move to Vegas.
And he's like, fuck that.
I'll never move to Vegas.
They didn't solve the Tupac murder.
You know, his sister, Kidada, was dating Tupac.
I was like, let's have dinner with the Vegas PD and see what happened.
And so me and QD3 and Nas sit down to dinner with the Las Vegas Police Department and they bring the whole case file.
And it turns out the LAPD really filed the case, like almost on purpose, it looks like.
So at the end of the dinner I say to the chief of police, Mike Gennaro, I'm like Mike, you ought to reopen the Tupac case.
And he goes, I'll talk to the sheriff.
And the next day I called him.
I said, what did the sheriff say?
He said, if Ben wants us to open the case, we're opening the case.
And they reopened the Tupac case and they caught the guy.
That's insane.
So Sean, like I don't know Sean, if you know the story, but like basically, like you know, Pac and Shug got in a fight at a Tyson Mike Tyson fight.
And then like, 30 or 40 minutes later, he was shot right in the strip on Las Vegas.
And it was a cold case for years.
But everyone knew who did it.
They knew it was this guy named Orlando Anderson.
That was the rumor.
Orlando pulled the trigger.
Kifidi told him to shoot him.
And everyone knew this.
But for some reason, it didn't happen.
And Orlando ended up dying a handful of years later.
And the craziest thing ever is, there's this guy named DJ Vlad who does these interviews with all these gangsters.
And he got him to, like, Tell the story about the murder.
And this idiot, like, went on a podcast and just said, yeah, here's what happened.
So here's why he did that.
He thought he had immunity because the LAPD proffered him, which means basically in exchange for testimony, we grant you immunity.
But they granted him immunity in L.A., not in Vegas.
What an idiot.
Because the latest PD were like, oh, that doesn't count here.
And little do we know that Ben's behind the scenes getting it all done.
That's pretty awesome.
I followed that case religiously.
I thought it was riveting.
I did not know that you were involved.
That's pretty cool.
All right.
Well, I don't know where we want to start, but I just thought you know.
Usually Ben, you don't know this, but we have a little tradition here.
We'd like to typically start with our intro music, but for some reason, it's not playing.
I'm trying to get this cassette to play, but it's just not playing.
What are we looking at here?
Oh, boy, that's the blind and deaf crew.
So my friend, Seth Clark, this was back in 87 or 88, or maybe 86, got shot and was blind.
So we formed a rap group.
Called the Blind and Deaf Crew, D-E-F.
And, you know, we had all kinds of rhymes about being blind and being deaf.
I have one here.
It's like... The Blind Deaf Crew, you know where fly.
Three of us, but we got four eyes.
You know, like... Where did you grow up?
I mean, like, your dad was like a... I know who your dad is.
And he was like a well-known academic.
But where were you growing up where you were around... guys who got shot and rapping.
Well, so I grew up in Berkeley California, which you know kind of is either like an academic town or part of Oakland, depending on you know where you are.
And I was in that kind of more part of Oakland, Berkeley.
And then, you know, I went to school in New York.
And so I got into rap in New York.
And then Seth got shot back in the Bay Area.
And he was very, very depressed because he he's blind, he was only, he's a kid, you know.
So i sent him these um, dj red alert, check chill out mixtapes um, you know, board tapes that i taped off the radio show which had the brand new hip-hop, which was, you know, really new at the time and uh, that kind of cheered him up, and so that's how we got into rap when we came around.
We didn't succeed, but we tried real hard.
Well, we wanted to just hang out with you because you've done 50000 podcasts.
I think A16Z now has 50,000 podcasts.
And so I could sit here and be like, hey, is AI a bubble?
We can kind of do that.
And we'll probably ask you something about AI.
But I think, more than anything, what we try to do on the podcast is give people a sense of what it's like to hang out with Ben Horowitz.
If they could just be a fly on the wall hanging out.
And obviously we come from a business and tech background, so we got a bunch of questions around that.
But I think for me and Sam the most interesting part that I feel like you've contributed to the collective wisdom of founders right is your stuff on leadership.
So you've written two books.
I feel like that are really, I don't know, like top shelf on how to be a leader.
And I think it started with a general philosophy.
So tell me why most management books are terrible.
Let's start with that.
You know, the problem with management generally I would say, is it's very complex kind of situational and emotional.
And so it's like, oh, here's a book to teach you how to play NFL quarterback.
And you could read that 20 times.
You go out on the field, like things are extremely different.
If there's a 290 pound guy running at you extremely, very fast, I'm going to kill you.
Like what you feel, like what you think, how you process that is just different.
And I think management tends to be like that, in that It really has to do a lot with your situation and the feeling you have at the time it happens.
And so these management books are written like it's some step by step.
You know, like you know, you're.
Anybody with a basic eighth grade education can understand the principles of management.
They're not that complicated.
Like it's a cookbook and you can just follow the recipe.
Yeah, and it's like oh, here are the five steps for building a strategy, or the three steps for setting objectives.
It's not actually very useful at all because that stuff is so simple.
So I always thought well, the difficult thing, you know, you're either going to run the risk of running completely out of money if you don't fire half the company.
But you don't want to have that conversation because you promised all these guys that the company was going to be success when you hired them.
So the level of inconsistency that you're going to have to go through, the level of like I was completely wrong about everything and now I'm going to fire half of you because of the mistakes I made, will just cause you to hesitate in a way that could cost you the company itself.
And how do you get over that?
And then what do you actually say?
And how do these conversations work?
And all this kind of thing is the actual thing that people need to really get an understanding of.
What are the words that get me out of this thing, at least temporarily?
And nobody... had been writing like that.
The last guy who kind of I thought wrote a book like that was Andy Grove back when he wrote High Output Management.
And yeah, that book was really old at the time.
So I was like, well, somebody had to write the sequel.
You know, we're now, it's been 30 years.
Do you think that it's like when it comes to leading?
Do you think that it's mostly just getting your mindset right?
I mean, is that what you're saying, where it's like?
No, no, no, it's more complicated than that.
You kind of strive to get to a point of honesty. like true honesty where you're actually being true.
Like you're not lying to yourself.
That's hard.
You know that it's almost like.
You know like if you're, you guys are kind of creatives on the pod, but like to be like a great creative at some point, you have to get all the way to that very vulnerable point where you've exposed yourself and all your issues and weaknesses and and everything.
And like leadership is a little bit like that and that you're kind of pushing and, pushing and pushing to get all the way to what's true.
So that's, you know, that's part of the process.
But the other thing is just you know.
You don't really necessarily completely know what you're doing, particularly when you start and you're building a company.
And so you have to kind of have, like it's a confidence game where you have to talk yourself into.
Okay, you know, like I think I know enough you know to do this.
And You know, it can be very little things.
Like I had a conversation with an entrepreneur.
He's like, Ben, like, I need your help.
And I was like, why do you need my help?
He says, my CTO is an asshole.
And I said, well, OK, but, you know, like he's a good CTO.
I know that from talking to you before.
So you're not even asking me, should you fire him, are you?
And he's like, no, I'm not asking you that.
And I said, well, tell me why he's an asshole and maybe I can help.
And he goes, well. he made a young woman on our finance team cry yesterday.
And I was like, okay, yeah, that's kind of mean-spirited for a CTO to do that.
And I said well, so you're really kind of asking me not how to fire him, but just how to have a conversation with him about his behavior without him quitting.
That's what you're saying.
And he's like, yeah.
And I said, well, look, here's what I would say to him.
I would say, hey, you're a fantastic director of engineering, but you're not an effective CTO.
And if you want to be a director of engineering forever, we can just run just like this and it's no problem.
You do a great job at managing your team.
You get stuff done on time.
You're great.
But you're not effective with the rest of the organization.
And that's what a CTO is.
The CTO has got to marshal the resources of the whole company to get what he needs to get the job done.
And if you go to a junior person five levels below you and make her cry, you're probably right, but you're never going to get what you want out of her.
So you can't even be effective with her.
How are you going to be effective with execs?
So if you want to learn how to do that, let's learn how to do that.
And if not, no problem, but just know that at some point I've got to bring in the CTO.
That's the way I would have the conversation with them.
And that kind of got them to went, okay, now I can talk to them.
And so so much of like the mistakes that CEOs make are like they just don't even know how to have the conversation.
And so it's a little bit like the mindset part is correct and that there is like a confidence part about it where you have to be able to kind of do things when you're not sure that you're right.
But there's techniques and there's ideas and there's things in there that you know.
It's just harder than it looks.
And the problem is the mistakes, like not talking to him is going to multiply, right?
Like, because now you're going to isolate engineering and nobody's going to like them and you're going to have politics in the company and like and and and and, and.
Then pretty soon people just don't even want to work there and you have high attrition.
And then, you know, Well, why the fuck do we have high attrition and this and that and the other?
And then the board's all upset in this.
So it kind of snowballs on you if you can't deal with these things.
Man.
This is so cool because I just read this book called The Motive, and the whole book is how to have a conversation like that.
And it's like small stuff.
So it's like someone shows up too late for a meeting, they're not prepared, they made someone cry.
And I remember reading this and I was like I don't wanna talk about this on the pod, maybe because I think I feel stupid that I'm having to learn a script on how to confront someone.
And then I hear you talking about this and I'm like all right, I feel a little bit better, because why is this conversation hard for me?
I feel like this should be easy.
I don't know what to say.
I literally don't know what words to use for this to be the effective confrontation.
And so I had to read a book.
And so it's actually really cool to hear you describe that other people.
I think you even said, I saw another interview about Zuck and I think you referenced Sam Altman.
You're like I've seen inside these companies.
They all face these like challenging situations, but they just don't know how to like communicate.
Yeah, you know, people get stuck.
And you know like nobody.
There's no way to learn like, how to be CEO of like a big company without kind of being CEO.
And so you found a company and it starts growing and you don't know what you're doing and you make mistakes and it's very scary.
And, you know, it's easy to lose your confidence.
And if you lose your confidence, you hesitate.
And if you hesitate as CEO, then somebody's got to step into that vacuum.
And then that's when it becomes very like political and dysfunctional.
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You've said before, like having confrontation the right way. is super important.
And I nodded my head and then I was like, cool, I really don't know how to do that though.
So okay, so what is the right way to have confrontation?
And it's complicated, but like the first thing is you got to stop thinking about yourself, right?
So, you know, and it could be anything.
It could be like firing somebody or getting them to change their behavior or whatever.
You're going to be saying something that they don't want to hear.
And so I think people get caught up in.
Well, either I need to be a tough guy or I need them to like me, or some other thing that's about you.
But really you have to go.
Okay, what am I going to say to them?
That isolates it to this thing that I'm really talking about?
So if I need them to change this behavior Like, how do I get them to hear that in a way they can actually act on it without getting in their feelings?
And you know, in order to do that, you just have to be like, very straightforward and you have to be open with how you feel about it.
Like if you think they're a shit bird, then you're probably going to have to fire them anyway.
But if you think they're otherwise good, then you kind of have to let them know that, but in a way where you're not clearly setting them up, you're not giving them a shit sandwich.
You're a greatest person in the world, but this is all fucked up.
And I love you.
People are onto that.
It's just too simple.
So you have to get to a very honest place with them and say, we're working together on this.
You're doing this.
It's not working.
It's not effective.
And I can help you get the to be effective, but i need you to get it to be effective, like you have to get that message across and a lot of it.
You know, like people will accept things from you if they feel like you're basically telling them the truth, like you're.
I'm like completely open and honest about this, like i'm not.
I'm not telling you it's worse than it is and i'm not telling you it's better than it is.
I'm telling you what it is uh, and and this is.
You know, when i said earlier about like a lot of leadership is getting all the way to the truth, You have to sit with yourself and say what do I really think about this?
Not what motherfuckers were complaining about him, or this happened, or it hurt my feelings the way this went down, like he's doing that in my company.
You kind of have to get beyond that and go, what's really true?
Why did they do it?
Can it be corrected?
If it can be corrected, what would motivate them to correct it?
Like you, you have to get all the way to, to that.
Otherwise, what happens is, you know they're just going to get upset and defensive or, like you know, they're not going to hear it cause it's too soft.
And it's like, well, yeah, like Ben kind of doesn't like that, but he doesn't really care.
So you know how do you get into that like meaningful place where people can hear what you're talking about?
And you've invested in and known for a long time a lot of the tech, the biggest tech ceos and i would say the stereotype of the most successful tech founders is this sort of like slightly autistic, very high iq, lower eq sort of persona.
But that's not really what would be good at the thing you're talking about.
And so is it that that stereotype is just wrong and that's not what you've seen when you've kind of been you guys, i think, invested in facebook early on, stuff like that like?
Is it that the stereotype is wrong?
Is it that they learned these things?
Are they taking touchy-feely at Stanford?
What's helping them be able to do this?
Yes, I think some of these guys have much higher people understanding than you might think.
The ones who truly can't read people and understand people, they don't become Mark Zuckerberg.
Mark Zuckerberg, his mom, by the way, is a psychiatrist or a psychologist.
And Like, he's actually pretty insightful.
And you can see it, like, in the deals he's negotiated, the moves he's made.
You know, guys who are processing information at that rate of speed, you know, it's a little weird.
Like, you always feel like, okay, what the fuck is wrong with my clock?
Like, this guy's thinking faster than me.
So my very first conversation I had with Zach was, I think, in 2007.
And you know, at that time, if you guys recall, you know, the Facebook traffic had flattened and the current the executive staff that he had at the time was trying to run a coup to force him to sell to Yahoo.
So they they were leaking all this stuff to Valley rag at the time and Valley rag was, you know, calling for Zach to be fired and the you know that whole stupidness.
And that was like that famous story where you like didn't sell, right?
Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean he didn't sell, uh.
But right at that time his first question to me was if I fired my executive team for the second time, would the board be nervous?
I was like well, that's not even the question Mark, because if you're asking that question then you know you kind of have to do it because you can't succeed with them.
You know, whether or not you can succeed without them is like at least a question mark.
Like, you know, you're going to die with them.
And I said, but like, you know, like, let's talk about like why they're doing this.
You know, like, why has traffic been flat?
And he said, well, he said, look, we doubled the size of the engineering team this year.
We went from 400 to 800 engineers.
And we had.
You know the way the product is architected.
We have like a MySQL layer and then an API, and then the applications are built on the API.
But a lot of the new engineers just wrote straight to MySQL and they like worked up the whole thing.
And now it takes like 10 seconds to log in.
And so traffic flattened because of that.
And I was like, well, how do you train these guys?
And he said, train these guys.
And I never forget that.
And I was like, oh, shit.
I said.
Zach, like when you're 10 people, there's no knowledge in the company.
Like everybody just comes on and they jump in and they start working and so forth.
But you get to like 800 people, a thousand people.
Like you have a lot of knowledge that's in your company about like, how the product works, how you check in, code everything.
You actually have to teach people that because they don't know who to ask or how to learn that on their own.
And so you have to do that.
And, like just you know, to show you what a like great CEO he ended up being, he created this two-month boot camp for like everybody in product management.
Every engineer who entered Facebook had to go through this thing, learn everything, and so forth.
So he was, like, he, you know, like, he's, like, a phenomenal student of management.
And you know, before he became like now he's.
I wouldn't call him a student.
He's a great CEO but, like a lot of these guys are, can figure out the people part pretty fast.
I would say.
And like I said, the ones who truly don't understand people don't actually turn out to be good CEOs.
They don't get to that level.
You can make fun of Larry Page or Elon or Zucker, but they are actually very smart about people, all three of them.
You have these great stories.
That's a great story.
One, I think that's in your new book, is...
A story that I feel like is relevant to kind of any business size.
So some of these are, it's like, oh, well, my company's never going to be 20,000 people.
So like, I don't really, I can't really relate to this, but one, I thought it was about collections.
It was about collecting money, which I think is that you know whether you're like an accountant and you have to do this for your clients or your 10 clients, or you're a big business.
And I think it's the CEO of nation, uh, yeah.
Can you tell this story?
I thought this was a phenomenal story.
Yeah, so, you know, they're kind of, we're living on the edge.
You know, they need every kind of thing collected possible.
And you know she was just like.
You know, cash collections would just be, you know, and there were all this dumb stuff that would happen, like they sent out the wrong kind of email or this and that and you know they didn't get the thing, and so forth.
And I said, you know, I learned this technique actually from Andy, Andy Grove.
Where like, if a project was off track, he would just go.
Okay, 8 am every day, we're going to meet on it and I'm going to be in the meeting and I'm going to want answers.
And what that meeting actually turns into is.
You know every dumb thing going on you can just resolve very, very fast, because people don't know who to ask how to resolve it, you know whether it's a problem, and so forth.
So I said Leah, just like every day 8 am, get everybody in the cash collection team together and start the meeting by saying like, where's my money?
Like, why haven't we collected it?
And like make them explain to you why they haven't collected it.
And you'll be shocked at why they haven't collected it.
And sure enough, you know, it's like, well, we didn't know we could edit the email.
It's just like.
You didn't know you could edit the email.
But those kinds of things start popping up.
I didn't know that I could do this, because this is what we ought to be doing, but we're not doing it because I don't think I'm allowed to do it.
And it's like, well, no, I'm the CEO.
You're allowed to do it.
And then that can unstick a project that's way off track or a process that's off track or so forth.
So it's kind of like a different idea about management, where You know the enemy.
As you grow like, communication becomes your biggest challenge.
And so it's just a way to go like OK, I'm going to manually unscalably fix communication in this organization right now.
And the amazing thing about it is it does tend to be very long lasting where like, once they get that, then you know it sustains.
I had an experience with a founder you invested in.
Do you know Sui Ali?
He's one of my good buddies, and you guys invested in Tiny back in the day.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, he does this exact thing.
The founder emailed us and was like, hey, we're going to start raising money.
We really need to raise money, so it's important and I would just love to pick your brain on whatever.
It was like a very like, can I pick your brain?
Would you like to go get coffee for this?
My house is on fire.
And we were like wait wait, just to clarify, is the house on fire?
He's like yeah, the house is on fire.
So we said okay well, let's meet like now, why are you emailing me?
Let's just talk right now.
And so he jumps on the call and like okay, what do you have so far?
You know, let's raise the money.
And he's like well, here's the pitch deck.
And basically in the first 30 minutes we just gave him like hey, here's three things let's go like these are the three most important things you got to change.
This is this.
Part of the story is broken.
You're missing this information and You know you're not.
You're framing it the wrong way.
You got to frame it this way.
And he's like, OK, this is so helpful.
Wow.
Thank you, guys.
Would love to touch base again next week.
And Suli was like next week.
How long do you think it'll take you to make those three changes?
He's like, well, he's like, how about we meet today at 3 p.m.
And you show me.
And we did two days with that.
And I it kind of broke my brain a little bit because there was like this invisible wall.
As a business person like you don't meet twice in a day.
Like that would be a faux pas, you know, like it's like bad manners.
It's like, fuck your manners.
When it's like, was this a big problem or not?
Like, just clarify that for me.
Cause if it is a big problem, then I'll just keep showing up and saying, okay, now what?
Okay.
Now what?
And okay.
And if you just do that for three days, the like all of the excuses get squeezed away is what I found.
Like all the excuses suddenly disappear and you get to the brass tacks about what's going on.
It was amazing.
That's definitely right.
No no, that's a we.
You know, Celia and I actually had a lot of conversations, but he went through a lot of crises in that.
So he knows.
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Can I ask you about confidence?
You give a talk with a bunch of your portfolio companies about.
I think I saw you say that they don't fail due to lack of competence but a lack of confidence.
I would say the number one reason why a founder fails at the CEO job is some kind of lack of confidence, crisis of confidence, whatever it is that causes them to hesitate.
Basically,
Okay, I should do this, and I can see that I should do this, but I'm not sure I should do this, so I'm going to wait.
If you had to teach a class on how to improve someone's confidence, do you have a framework or some bullet points that you would stand by?
It ends up being at the end of the day, confidence is personal and you have to feel it yourself to have it.
Like, I can't, you know, it's like the Wizard of Oz.
It's like you know, I can give you like a clock and tell you it's a heart or whatever, but like at some point you've got to believe that.
And the thing that causes that crisis in confidence is you know okay, you invent something, you hire a bunch of people, you make a decision.
It's wrong.
People really suffer from it.
You feel horrible because you're like wow, I don't know what I'm doing and I made a mistake and it had real consequences.
Most people in life don't have a situation like that until they become CEO.
And so then it's like, well, how do I recover that?
And so a lot of the idea of the firm is like, well, what if you could call anybody?
How would that make you feel?
What if you could call anybody in the White House, in Congress, any executive, any big company CEO and be able to have a conversation?
What if we could build that network for you?
That was the idea behind the platform.
I used to have this event, which I should probably bring back, but I ran out of room in my backyard called the CEO barbecue, where we would bring all the CEOs for the portfolio.
And then we would just like put like very famous people around them.
So we had like Zach and Larry page and Kanye all at a barbecue and they're at the barbecue and there's no like talks.
There's no business agenda.
There's no nothing.
There's no even toast, right?
Like it's just a barbecue.
And so it was just to make them feel like, Oh shit.
Like know kanye, like i'm i, i have to be somewhat important, like so.
So you're trying to like imbue this feeling that, like i may not totally know what i'm doing, but i should be ceo, you know, but i've had a barbecue with kanye, yeah.
Yeah, i can't be totally dumb.
Yeah, what about?
What about the inverse?
When you look at a ceo and you're like oh, they have just like hit this fork in the road.
Now confidence is going to go horribly, is going to go down and it's going to be the their demise, what decisions do those people make?
Like, what are the commonalities between the people who lose it that way?
Sort of like the Charlie Munger, like, tell me where I'm gonna die so I know not to go there, right?
What would be the decisions I would make to take me off the path?
I would say the big thing is it's almost like a lack of decision, right?
Like, it's a hesitation.
In football they always say, like you have to trust your eyes because you could be really fast.
But if you don't start running when you see the thing, If you wait, then you're not fast.
And that's kind of what it's like for CEOs.
Like you could be really, really smart, but if you wait too long before you pull the trigger, you're not smart anymore.
It's too late.
And there's all kinds of like excuses people tell themselves to not make a decision.
So, for example, like one of the biggest ones on an executive, like is well, if we made such a big deal when we hired him, what is the press going to say?
Or what are the people in the company going to say?
Or, you know, I don't have time to hire a new person to do the job that this guy's fucking up.
You know, like these kinds of, there's all these reasons not to make the decision.
And they're all just.
If you think about them for more than like five minutes you go.
Well, that doesn't make any fucking sense because this guy's like fucking up the whole org, like who gives a fuck what the press says?
Like you just get rid of him, like start rebuilding.
Now you know.
Like it's not if he's doing a bad job, like no job is better than a bad job, like i think we all know that, and everything kind of ends up like that i don't know enough to make the decision, like i didn't give him enough of a chance this and that, the other.
So it's kind of that lack of confidence that generally causes a no decision.
Where there really needs to be a decision is the main.
I would say that's the common pattern.
Yeah.
So in the two examples you gave, the first one was like, ah, the CTO, blah, blah, blah.
And that's kind of like avoiding the conversation would be the mistake there.
And then in this one, like avoiding the decision would be the mistake.
Yeah.
You have to, you know, I wrote a post a long time ago.
So You know, run at the pain and darkness.
You have to run at the pain and darkness.
You can't run away from it.
If you run away from it, it's all bad.
You're pretty good at titling blog posts and books.
I think, you know, the hard things about the hard things are like badass.
But I think you said that I think in the publishing industry, typically the author's title is not the winning title and i think you were like bragging that.
You're like that's my title.
I came up with it.
Yeah, they ran.
Well, i i well, you know, because i didn't need a book, like i didn't actually want to write the book, they asked me to write the book the the publisher.
So i felt like i didn't do what i wanted, so i i called it what i wanted.
Yeah, what um?
What do you?
What excites you?
So this, you know, a lot of the stuff we talked about is like the hard stuff, the pain, But nobody gets into this for just the pain, right?
Nobody gets into this.
The pain is just a sort of necessary that we go through to do the good stuff.
I'm just curious, what are you really excited about right now?
Like what are either.
You know, rabbit holes are going down, cool stuff.
You've seen that you haven't been able to forget.
Like what's really cool and interesting to Ben Horowitz?
Well, so one of the most exciting things that's going on now is, you know, like kind of it's well known that the United States has kind of fallen behind in defense, manufacturing rare earth minerals, all these kinds of things.
But what's been very exciting is there are startups that are like, oh, I'll solve that for America.
And so we have a company that we just funded recently, Periodic Labs, which is using AI to do novel material science to kind of enable better kind of design of everything from like rockets to missiles, to you know all sorts of things.
And then we have a company, cobalt uh metals, that is basically using ai, so they take a dirt sample and they use ai to analyze the dirt sample and they can tell you, oh yeah, there's going to be, like you know, copper below that um, you know whatever, a mile down into the earth, uh.
And so you know these kinds of techniques where you're kind of using tech to go okay, now we're going to catch up fast, has been like very, very exciting, I would say.
My view as a founder on the ground is just that sometimes you see something and, like I said, it breaks like an imaginary wall you had.
And sometimes things become cool.
And cool.
Although we try to not like follow trends.
Sometimes you could use your psychology for you rather than against you.
And so you know, seeing what Elon has done, Where it's like oh, he goes into these really hard spaces and does these like hardware, hard tech, literal rocket science, right.
And sort of unafraid of that.
Or you know Anduril going in and doing you know weapons and defense tech and making that cool to be kind of patriotic in that way.
Is that what it was?
Is that what it took?
Or was there something else to it?
You know, there's a lot.
They're very challenging companies to build in some ways.
But on the other hand, you know, it's a good time to do that, because people, because Elon has I mean God bless Elon for showing that it was possible.
So now, whereas like only Elon could have financed Tesla, normal people can start to finance these things now, because Elon has shown that it's possible.
So it's a little bit like the four minute mile on that way, I would say.
But yeah, I mean, like you know the things that Yeah, and even in public safety you look at something like flock safety.
In a way, technologically it's not nearly as complicated as some of the others, like as an andrel or something like that.
But it's very, very powerful.
I mean, they really make both kind of policing being a citizen and even being a criminal more safe, because all of a sudden, you're using AI to provide real intelligence.
So, for example, in Las Vegas, where we deployed it, a huge problem, a huge problem in police violence police getting killed are traffic stops.
And a big reason for that is somebody reports there's a 1998 Honda Acura that's driving, that's brown, that kidnapped a baby.
Okay, so that's a real situation.
But that description is usually wrong.
The description of the actual car is usually wrong.
So you have flock safety, you have the exact match.
So the difference between a cop going into a situation where they may have the wrong guy, and if they have the wrong guy the guy could get very agitated and then you have a bad situation.
Or they know 100.
This guy he is in a car that we know is the car and there's a baby in the back.
That's not his.
Okay, you're going in with a whole.
You're not sending a single person in there with a gun coming off their motorcycle.
Like you've got a whole team that's going to make sure that that person is apprehended safely and correctly and the baby is safe.
I've heard flocks this amazing thing.
Is it drones?
Is it cameras?
What are they doing?
So it's primarily like a camera system where AI will basically – so somebody does something.
They grab the car on the camera.
That car shows up on another camera anywhere in the city, and they're like, oh, there it is.
And actually that's how they caught.
Interestingly, the Tesla terrorist who set the Tesla ship on fire in Las Vegas was –.
He came in earlier to case the place, flock safety, pick up the car.
They saw the car come back at night and they were like, oh, we know whose car that is.
And they just went and arrested him.
Did you guys see that ad?
I think it was like two weeks ago.
I was trying to find it was went viral on twitter, but it was basically, i believe it was a solar company.
Was it a solar company where they're recruiting employees?
And they had a whole website just dedicated to the recruitment uh, aspect of just they needed more staff and they bought an ad in the new york times, i believe, or some newspaper, and it was like uh uh, an old man sitting with, like what it looked like his grandson, overlooking a mountain, and they were like overlooking.
I think it was solar panels, i'm not exactly sure, but it was like do you really want to tell your grandkids that you spent your entire 30s and 40s building just B2B software?
It was great.
And there's this whole trend amongst young people on Twitter of being more traditional and things like that.
And I think that, to answer your question Sean, about Andrew and Elon, I think that it's kind of been like a perfect spiral or a perfect mix of people, seeing Elon and Palmer do these interesting things.
And also just like getting sick of building B2B software or something you know.
That's just a stereotype for what's boring.
That may or may not be true.
But like, you know, like seeing this, like there could be more out there.
I think that the software had to get good enough to, of course, make these other things possible, which is, you know, and it's amazing that we're at that time where you can really imagine changing the world in all kinds of ways.
You get to see a lot of pitches of the smartest people in the world telling you what the future is going to look like in five years.
And so you have this element of your job that's a little bit like a time traveler.
So you probably have a better sense of what the world looks – nobody has a perfect sense, but you have a better sense of what the world looks like five seven, ten years from now.
You don't know exactly when.
You don't know who's going to do it.
What's broken your brain, either from a demo or a story pitch that you've heard.
You know, sometime in the last year or so, that the rest of us will experience, you know sometime in the future.
Yeah, so I think you know one of the things that I mean.
Everybody's talking about embodied AI and robots and so forth, and rightly so.
But I would say, like in the creative space, I'm starting to realize, like this AI video and so forth.
It's not like making the old thing more efficient.
It's a new medium.
It's an actual new thing in the same ways that like movies weren't plays.
You know, AI video is not video.
The stories that you can tell are completely different, because you can do things that you just you know.
Without a 200 million budget you'd have no chance of doing.
And now it's like no problem.
And I think that's going to be like very, Very, very, very interesting.
And then how well it's working on like existing stuff.
So people, you know, the people who are on the cutting edge of the movie industry are now, you know they're able to do like whole movie scenes or edit or change their movie, have the AI actor do the third cut at a level of quality that even the actor doesn't know it wasn't them doing the acting and that kind of thing.
So I think it's going to change dramatically again.
And there's going to be kind of white space for not only new creatives but new entertainment entrepreneurs and so forth.
That nobody is really imagining now.
Is there any AI content that you consume as a fan?
Yeah, I don't know.
Well, like, you know, I've been watching that...
The one with the cat was pretty good over the weekend.
The cat playing all the instruments and the lady coming out on the porch going like you got to get that racket out.
Did you guys see that one?
Was that on Sora?
That was pretty good.
Yeah, I think this is Sora.
Ben, do you mess around on Suno at all with AI music?
Yeah, Suno and...
Well, you know, Eleven Labs has a model and UDO's got a very good model.
So there's a few different really good models.
Like, I feel like I could have a music career again.
That's going to be very, very interesting to me, because it's sort of Like one thing that hip-hop showed was So.
People don't really realize this, but this is something Quincy Jones pointed out to me before he passed.
He said, you know, Ben...
Hip-hop started exactly when they canceled all the music programs in schools.
It was the exact same time when people didn't learn to play instruments in schools.
That is exactly when hip-hop began.
Hip-hop kind of freed you, as somebody who was a musical talent, from actually having to learn to play an instrument which you know and and even for the producers right like you had a drum machine, you had samples so you could hear what you liked and play it, but you didn't need to be a virtuoso, and that kind of opened up a world that we've been happy for.
And i think ai music is kind of that on steroids.
I don't know if you guys know the number one song in the country right now is an ai country artist, so walk my walk, oh yeah, and I think the first AI artist that got a record deal recently.
So this is definitely what the future looks like.
Non-musicians.
It's just like Replit and others.
Make it so that you don't have to be a coder to make apps.
And now you don't have to be a musician to make music.
And I don't think people really understand how big of a deal that is.
My personal trainer, who's been in the fitness world.
His whole life has been in a rabbit hole making he's probably in the top 01 of AI creators in the world right now.
Oh, that's amazing.
And he's like got like a full band.
He's like his own record label.
And every day he's up till two in the morning and he knows these programs inside and out.
And because it wasn't really accessible to somebody who didn't have uh, you know, musical talent before to be able to make music.
Right.
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Sean, can you ask you have this really cool light about the rules of culture and making them uh, memorable?
Well yeah, so when i'm doing the research, one thing that stands out is like you talk about culture, you talk about like and which is normally culture is like i just fall asleep because it's so over talked about in the business world, just like you got to really tell me something new over talked about without anybody saying anything.
Yeah exactly culture culture right, so cool.
Tell me your values like integrity, like all right great, glad to hear it.
I'm uh, I was worried it was going to be the opposite, right.
Like it doesn't really tell you anything.
And you know when you go walk into the company the stuff on the wall doesn't match the stuff you see happening within the four walls.
So it's just you get sort of disillusioned in a way.
But when you see somebody doing something interesting or you or somebody actually pulling it off which of course there are examples I get interested.
And so one thing that I thought was cool a nuance that I hadn't really heard before was you were talking about how, at a 16 Z, you kind of take time to drive the culture.
Like.
I think in the new onboarding you like I do a culture session one hour, they sign something at the end and one of the nuances I thought that was interesting was you said my rule for writing the kind of like the culture rules is it has to have some shock value, like it has to give the other person like oh, what the hell, are you talking about type of reaction if it's going to be memorable?
I think the idea was, if it's not memorable, it's never going to be remembered or used.
So you have to do something to make it memorable.
Can you talk about your theory around this?
Yeah,
So, I mean, it kind of comes down to what you do every day, right?
Like it's a daily habit.
So you know this idea that you put cultural values on the wall and then once a year, at a performance review, you say do you follow the culture?
It's like that means absolutely nothing, right?
It's nothing.
And so it's like, well, what do you do every day?
And so like one of the things we do every day is like we meet with entrepreneurs.
So like what's a rule of That sets the culture around that.
So it's like, well, if you're late for that meeting, it's $10 a minute.
It's like, well, $10 a minute.
Like, well, what if I have to go to the bathroom?
Yeah, you owe me $50.
I don't care.
You know, what if I had an important phone call?
You owe me $100.
Like, I don't care.
You had an important phone call.
Well, like, why am I paying to work here?
You know, well, because.
Building a company is extremely hard and culturally, we want to have the ultimate respect for that and we don't want to waste any entrepreneur's time.
And so that's your most important thing.
So you have to plan to do that.
You guys have a fine now.
You're talking, this is a real A16Z.
Yeah.
So every time I have to like go to the meeting, you know like I have to think about that, because I've got to be on time.
I got to fucking plan my day.
So like there's not, I'm not back to back on that one.
I got to be on time.
Otherwise, you know, I'm going to be embarrassed and all that kind of thing.
And so, well, why and why am I doing that?
And then that OK, if you do that, that's a habit that makes you go.
OK like no.
I'm going to respect what this is.
I know how hard it is to build a company.
I may not even know how hard it is, but I know that, like somebody here thinks it's hard enough that I have to show up on time.
So can you keep?
Can you tell us some more of those interesting, like you know, the The tardiness paying thing, that's pretty cool.
What are some other?
Well, the second one is if you talk smack about an entrepreneur on X, you're fired.
It doesn't matter if they're in the portfolio or not.
You're just, that's it.
And why is that?
Well, culturally, first of all, we're dream builders.
We're not dream killers.
If you want to do something bigger than yourself and make the world a better place, I don't care what it is.
I don't care if I think it's stupid.
I'm for that.
I'm not against that.
I am for that.
And I don't care if Sequoia funded you or Benchmark funded you.
I'm for that.
Go get it.
We're a pro entrepreneur.
And then kind of related to that, I don't want to give anybody credit for making themselves look smart by making somebody else look stupid.
Like I don't want to give anybody like a gold star for saying that guy's you know making selling dollars for 85 cents.
Oh, I'm so clever.
You know, like, fuck you.
Like, nah, we're not doing that here.
And so it's that kind of thing where it's like oh, that seems like a harsh punishment, but I get it.
I get it because I've heard it and I understand it.
And so then that's like a way to kind of show up behaviorally daily as opposed to um, you know like look, here's the problem with integrity.
What does that mean?
Right like, integrity only matters when it's tested.
Everybody has integrity, everybody's honest until it's tested.
And then, when it's tested, very few people are right, like when it costs you money, when it costs you a deal, Would it cost you your marriage?
Are you honest then?
Because that's the actual thing.
And so you can't just have it in the abstract.
You have to say like, what behaviors do you have to have to work here?
You know, how responsive do you have to be?
These things end up making the culture much more so than like a value or Or like.
One thing I really like is the samurai called them virtues.
They didn't call them values.
It's like these are the virtues.
Like this is your way of being.
This isn't like some fucking, it's not a set of ideas.
It's a set of actions.
A culture is a set of actions.
Listen to this, Sean.
So if you go to a16z.com slash about, you'll see their values.
And I just want to read like I've never seen this before, so I'm just going to read a couple of them.
But the six out of seven, it's, we play to win.
Our culture only matters if we're important.
And in order to be important, we must win.
We are the best firm in the world, so we expect to win.
It's just like, that's fantastic.
I love that.
And that's, I don't know if controversial is the right word, but it's polarizing, right?
Not a lot of people are into that.
But that's badass.
And then you say, you have another one that I really like.
We only do...
We only do first-class business and only in a first-class way.
I think that's a really— I actually stole that phrasing from J.P.
Morgan.
He said it in court.
They were accusing him of some kind of crazy market manipulation.
You're talking about the J.P.?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Part J.P.
Morgan, yeah.
Yeah, I think I read about that line in the—
Andrew Sorkin's got that like 1928 or 29 book.
And I think he says that, but that's great.
So, but okay.
So but like, when I go to this site and I see these, I'm like okay, this is kind of like, these are like the high level principles, but you, what you were saying just now is a little bit different.
You were like, Hey, look.
Well, there's got to be behaviors that support the principles.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So you you, you basically were like what are the daily situations and actions where we have a choice?
We either show up this way or we show up this way.
And we're going to show up this way, and sometimes with a penalty, a punishment or a praise based on the extreme version of that behavior, with the no tolerance policy right.
And I think there's this great military quote that you have in your book.
Oh, yeah.
Well, if you see something below standard and you don't correct it, you set a new standard.
And that's very true.
And that's why they have to be specific, because if they're not specific, you can't enforce it.
How do you enforce it?
Like you don't have integrity, that just gets weaponized.
It's like that guy doesn't have until he's not following the cultural value.
You know he doesn't.
Why does he have integrity?
Well, he lied to me.
Well, let's go talk to him.
Oh no, i didn't lie to you, did it like so it's not that whereas oh, you just put out that tweet like that's clearly against the cultural value, like uh-uh, there's no backing off that.
So, like you know, facebook famously had move fast and break things, which i think that was really good.
By the way, hall of fame, That's a Hall of Famer, but that's kind of one of the few that I know.
I thought about that for months.
I'm like, move fast and break... Because it's so counterintuitive.
It's like, well, you want me to break things?
I'm an engineer.
I make things.
I don't break things.
But it was just his way of saying, there is no excuse for not fucking shipping.
We're going fast.
But they don't have that anymore, do they?
Is that still a thing?
Well, they got bigger, and then...
I think speed wasn't their main thing that they were trying to achieve.
I think they literally changed it to move fast with stability and stable infrastructure and reliability.
It somehow lost its edge.
Have you seen anything like that move fast and break things, or just a behavior when you walked into the Airbnb office and you noticed something?
Amazon had this thing where they used to make the desks out of doors and buy for us um, and so i tried doing that.
By the way, it's it's way cheaper to get a desk.
It's way cheaper to get a desk.
But like, i think the idea back in whatever the late 90s, when they did that, was like like we're not wasting any money.
Yeah, you know, and that kind of thing which is, you know, those markers are, are very, very powerful, like one of my favorite ones was actually from the haitian revolution when uh, tucson lovature basically made a rule.
He's like you can't cheat on your wife.
Which was like so absurd.
Because here they are.
They're in a colony, you know, a French colony.
They're, you know, the British, the Spanish, the French.
They're all raping and pillaging and doing all this stuff, all these armies.
And these guys like can't cheat on their woks.
But that little cultural idea that said, look, this is about trust.
I got to be able to trust you.
And like the people have to be able to trust you ended up basically really influencing the war.
So one of the things that um, it was like very surprising, I think, to people who read about the Haitian revolution was you know, here's the slave army taking on these European colonies, and the white women in the colony supported Toussaint against, like the French.
Um, and you go like, well, why'd they do that?
Because they didn't rape.
They even pillaged, like Toussaint, like these guys were like half-naked soldiers or slaves and they weren't doing any of that.
They were super polite.
They behaved in a certain way.
And the legend is, so he was Toussaint Louverture, but slaves didn't have last names.
So where did Louverture come from?
And so the story is Napoleon, who really was pissed at him, brought his generals together and it's like how in the fuck can you not get this slave?
Like How can you not defeat this slave?
And they're like, well, we get them backed up.
We get them surrounded.
And then all of a sudden, there's an opening.
And he became Toussaint Louverture, Toussaint the Opening.
And the opening a lot of people say was created by these townspeople, these women, who were just like, oh fuck, we're for him.
We're for that army.
I don't give a fuck about your army.
We're for that army.
So culture can be super influential.
That's a great story.
That's really cool.
You mentioned Amazon.
Did you see Jeff Bezos got a new startup?
Oh, yeah.
Did Jeff got a new startup?
Yeah.
You didn't see this announcement?
Project Prometheus, they raised an initial seed round of $6 billion.
Is that true?
They called it a seed round?
Yeah, it's the first round of funding.
So 6 billion raised and they got 100 people and they're building AI for like, the physical world.
So it's not just robots, but basically like the manufacturing of airplanes and ships and things like that.
So they're basically saying how do we use AI in like sort of advanced manufacturing?
I think is the idea, but obviously there are little title details, but that's pretty cool.
He's like back in a operational role for the first time, which is cool.
Yeah no, I think that, by the way, like how great is it that the logistics genius of our time is back at it and gonna help us, like get back in the manufacturing game, like that yeah yeah, those things are just incredible to me, and i think all of us were a little sad when jeff was just living his best life, just because he's is so talented.
Um, so this is very great news.
I loved it.
I was like hey, this guy's having fun, he's getting jacked, he's showing a different uh, You know a new North Star also which, like has kind of also taken over the tech industry.
And, by the way, like whatever, like you know, people always make you into a cartoon when you get to that level.
He is, you know, for sure, like a top two or three best CEO in the last 40 years.
You're a bit surprising to me because I've read all your books.
I know about your background.
Basically, you have guided the people who have shaped destiny.
You have also shaped destiny yourself.
But you've done all these amazing things.
And you're a shockingly fun hang.
Normally, I think... And you know about hip-hop and all this stuff.
Normally, the people who have outsized results typically have very strange personalities.
And they're a little quirky.
And I'm sure you have your quirks.
But you just seem shockingly well-balanced for how not... normal your successes.
Is there anything in your day-to-day life that you think that is um would would surprise?
Probably like the average person, or are there any tendencies that you have that you recognize probably aren't at all normal?
Well, you know, I would say probably the thing, the thing that my daughter always says.
That is unusual about me.
Um, and I think it came from like the beginning of my.
You know, like I had um.
I am different than the modern people.
Like I was married when I was 22.
I had three kids by the time I was 25.
Like I kind of had to grow up fast.
And, you know, and then I had the company.
I was trying to raise the kids and the company.
And, you know, I didn't have money for nannies or anything.
So like it was a lot of that.
But what she says to me, she's like, Dad, like you're like at the top of Maslow's hierarchy.
Like you're very Zen with all this.
And like I take things for what they are.
I don't.
I'm pretty good at not being unemotional, but not letting my emotional reaction control my behavior.
Were you always that way, or did you become that?
No, no, no, no, no.
Definitely not.
I think it was just all the trauma that forced me to learn that.
What made you calm down?
Was it age?
Was it kids?
Was it success?
Was it like, look, I've made it.
Everything else is just icing on the cake.
I don't care.
Well, I think it was combination of the kids and the company.
The first company I founded LoveCloud, which then became Opsware, was so difficult that I never like in life since then we've had difficulties building the firm whatever, but they never got a rise out of me that could compare to.
You know what I'd already been through.
So it's almost like I feel like it's almost like I know guys, my friend Oliver Stone was in Vietnam.
And like you could tell everything about him was, I'm not in Vietnam anymore.
So much of his life is defined by not being in Nam.
And like I do feel like I don't want to compare it to war, because people always criticize me for my war metaphors
But it's kind of like that feeling where it's like, Okay, I've been through that.
I'm just looking at the world differently now.
And I bet it.
And I'm sure you had some sense of like, all right, I've accomplished something.
I feel good.
Maybe I'm playing with house money a little bit with everything else.
Yeah, it's a little house money.
And then it's a little like, all you can do is deal with the thing that it is.
You can't stop it from having happened.
It happens.
And now you have to deal with it.
Were there any other... sort of wisdom accelerator.
So you have these formative experiences, right?
You got three kids and three years or whatever, and by the time you're 25 and then you're trying to build a startup and everything you face kind of like the back against the wall moments.
Were there any other formative things?
Like, you know, for example, in my life, I went to like a Tony Robbins seminars.
Like, you know, I sort of got, five years of wisdom in a weekend type of deal.
Yeah, he's very good at like dealing with your own psychology.
Yeah, or you spend the summer doing something, or you read a book at the right time, or you get the right message at the right time, and you have a moment where you just decide like from now on, X.
I guess I'm just curious, was there any?
If I just think about like formative moments besides the kids and besides Loud Cloud, what else would there have been?
Okay, so when I was a kid, I was in this relay race And it was a very big deal for me.
It was whatever the track meet.
And we came in second in the relay race.
My father wasn't at the race.
But we came in second because And the team that came in first dropped the baton and didn't pick it up
The guy just ran without the baton.
And they gave him first place.
And they didn't penalize him.
And so I was... my father said, how'd you do in the race?
And I was like, well, we came in second, but it wasn't fair.
And I was going to explain to him why.
And he said, stop right there.
He said, life isn't fair.
And that shocked me so much at the time, but it really stuck with me.
And it's the single best lesson that I ever got in my life was life isn't fair.
And I see young people wreck themselves so much because they have an expectation that something about life is going to be fair.
Like nothing about life is fair.
It's not fair where you're born.
It's not fair what race you are.
It's not fair like what your parents did.
It's not fair like the job interviews aren't fair, like nothing.
The tests aren't fair.
Nothing is fair in life, and so the way you succeed is you don't have that expectation, you just deal with it as it is, and i think that everybody who tries to or who like thinks well, like i wasn't treated fairly or this isn't like, that is devastating.
You know, like for sure.
I mean the whole time uh, you know, when a lot of cloud and the dot-com crashed and half our customers went out of business, I never crossed my mind to go.
This isn't fair.
It was just like, okay, I have to deal with it.
And that is, I would say, the single best piece of advice and way of looking at life that you can have is just.
It is what it is.
And no, do what you can do with it being as it is.
It was very important.
You've referenced a lot of really cool stuff.
The Haiti story, I've heard you talk about history a lot.
Outside of work, work-related stuff, what interests you right now?
You know, Sean and I, we like to talk about just fun stuff that you're into.
I'm constantly reading about World War II, I like that.
What about you?
Is there anything that you're kind of being obsessed about?
Yeah, so I do have this, I'll give a plug for it.
So I have this charity that I created with my wife called the paid and full foundation um, which basically, you know, it was kind of this idea on a whim, but we give pensions to the old hip hop guys.
So you know, I got a hundred thousand dollars a year, and and then we have this award show for them.
You know where we named them grandmasters and so forth.
And, you know, that's, so the first winners were Rakim and Scarface.
And then you know, we had grandmaster Kaz and Shantae and Um cool Modi and so forth, and then uh, grant Puba and and uh, cold G wrap.
And this year, you know, we added this thing, the uh Quincy Jones award, um to the guys who got sampled the most, and we gave it to George Clinton and the event was so.
I'm still thinking about it.
It was so amazing because so George Clinton knows all the words to follow the leader.
And so he's on stage and Quincy John says, can you rap?
And he's rapped Follow the Leader.
And Rakim came out and rapped it with him.
So we've got George Clinton and Rakim.
And then Dr. Dre bought a table to the event.
And he couldn't help himself.
He goes up on stage just to say, look, I have no career without George Clinton.
And it was just so amazing to have all these guys that were so important, that influenced so many people.
Just being that appreciative of each other was.
I was like, you know, and it's kind of and you know, hip hop of course is so competitive and and you know they're always going at each other and so forth.
But for them to be at that point where they could just go, man, you guys meant so much to me.
And and that kind of thing was it was just very special.
That's so cool.
Yeah, that idea of pensions for the OGs is so great.
Did that just come on a whim?
Or you're just at lunch one day and you're like why don't they?
You know how does that?
Because that one liner gives you the clarity, right.
It gives you the clarity of where to go.
So I was listening to the H to the Izzo Jay-Z song where he says I'm overcharging for what they did to the cold crush.
And it got me thinking, it's like, who was the cold crush?
And it turns out, right, it's Grandmaster Kaz.
And Grandmaster Kaz wrote Rappers Delight, basically.
And they stole it from him.
And they stole it from him so nasty that they didn't change the word.
So Big Bang Handcraft, I'm the G-R-A-N-D, Right, right.
N-D-E-M-A-S-T-E-R.
That's Grandmaster Kaz.
That's his.
He's rapping about his name, not Big Bang Hank.
Big Bang Hank is not named Grandmaster.
Why is he calling himself Grandmaster?
Because he stole his fucking rhyme.
And he never got paid and he never got credit for it.
And everybody in hip hop knows this.
And Grandmaster Kaz, by the way, like if you meet him, he's a star.
Like he's the coolest guy in the room.
He dresses amazing.
He's like super articulate.
He can still rap like crazy today, 66 years old or 65, something like that.
And I was like, well, like we ought to go back and fix that.
And then, you know, Rakim was like on tour at these little clubs and so forth.
I was like, that's Rakim.
Like, how are people treating him like that?
So that was the idea.
I was like, we ought to just do it.
I'm getting it set up with the IRS and all that stuff is extremely complicated.
But yeah, it's been really, really, I would say, amazing.
And just an unbelievable epilogue.
So Kaz, at the last one, tells me, he's like, Ben, I bought a house.
I was like, oh, that's amazing, Kaz.
You've got a house.
He's like, no, Ben, it's the first time in my life I haven't lived in the projects.
Grandmaster Kaz, the guy who wrote the first great hip-hop song, has never not lived in the projects.
How crazy is that?
Now here he is with the house in Pennsylvania.
He's got berries in his backyard and the whole thing.
He's got berries in his backyard is pretty nuts.
The people who are like invent the, don't get it.
Like, for example, sean and i love ufc and like we see, like the early ufc events yeah yeah, they make anything yeah, and they're getting two thousand dollars to show up yeah, and they still come to like the legends awards and they still are talking and you're like, damn dude, this guy probably is selling insurance or something like that.
Like he, like you know, he probably got made fifteen thousand dollars that year, no doubt, no doubt.
Yeah, this happens in the nba too.
This is why like, the culture gets kind of messed up, because the old heads keep criticizing all the new players.
Yeah.
And it's like, oh, why are you doing that?
Because they made too much more money.
Yeah, they're making $70 million a year, and that guy didn't make seven in his whole career.
And he's like, I'm better than that guy.
And that guy, you know, so there's resentment.
And then they get on, and then they're the guys doing the halftime shows.
And it's bad for the product, right?
It's bad for the lineage, right?
Because everything is a creative lineage, like on top of what was before, right?
So it's really cool to kind of almost like economically fix the you know, or try to improve that ecosystem, because it's kind of like you know it's funny, it's um, it's also kind of this thought i have about capitalism, which is capitalism is is definitely the system that lifted the world out of poverty and like kind of created the modern world we live in.
Yet, you know, it's incredibly powerful, but right over time it does get um, corrupted and so forth.
And even if it wasn't corrupted, it's not perfect and like certain things happen like oh, you create a musical art form and are the guys who actually made it happen, and it becomes the biggest musical art form in the world and you never got paid.
Like capitalism shouldn't work like that, but it's just kind of the way it works right, like and it's nobody's fault and so like, if you can go back and say well, we'll just correct those things, I think that I think you are so cool.
Like you're on one hand, you're like a pretty like hard hitting capitalist, where you're getting after it.
And you're talking about making really tough decisions of having to fire people, whatever.
But then you're also like, but also we can we can do good by doing all this other stuff.
And I think that, like particularly in tech, I don't think that people's interests are particularly that wide.
Yeah.
Well, I think people get very into tech.
Yeah.
Like tech is so deep and vast that like people can get stuck in it for sure.
Yeah.
Well, Ben, we thank you for coming on, man.
I know you got a lot of things going on, but this was a lot of fun.
I appreciate it.
Yeah, no, it was a good time.
Thanks, guys.
Definitely.
All right.
Appreciate you.
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