In the fast-paced nature of modern life, we often fall into the trap of "all-or-nothing" thinking. We assume that if we cannot dedicate hours to a project, a workout, or a hobby, it is not worth doing at all. However, as Laura Vanderkam discusses in this episode of Before Breakfast, this mindset is a major barrier to progress. The core philosophy is simple yet transformative: 10 minutes still counts.
Drawing inspiration from coach Leo Babauta, the podcast emphasizes that the key to forming a new habit is to "make it so easy you can't say no." We often fail because we set overly ambitious goals, such as promising to drink "64 ounces of water every day" or committing to a rigorous gym schedule immediately.
Instead, Babauta suggests starting with a version of the habit that is "so doable that it would be ridiculous to say no." For instance, if you want to exercise, don't worry about the workout itself; just focus on "going to the gym in athletic attire" and doing "one stretch." By lowering the barrier to entry, you remove the friction that leads to procrastination. Once you start, "anything that happens after that is up to you," but the habit is already in motion.
This strategy is not limited to physical habits; it is a powerful tool for tackling overwhelming projects or life transitions. When facing a daunting task, the advice is to "take a tiny first step" rather than trying to overhaul your life overnight:
The overarching message is that "you don't have to aim high and you don't have to start strong." You simply need to "take one step ahead in the direction you want to go."
We often concede that we have "no time" for leisure because we are busy with work, family, or chores. However, Vanderkam argues that even when your schedule is packed, small bits of time remain valuable. If you enjoy reading, drawing, or knitting, you don't need a whole afternoon to justify the activity. Even if you only have 10 minutes, "you'll enjoy the little bit of time you do have."
Furthermore, this incremental approach often creates a momentum effect. The 10 minutes you "commit to" today might lead to another 10 minutes tomorrow, eventually expanding into 20 minutes or more. As the host notes, you may "find a little more time for it" once you start valuing those small windows of opportunity.
Ultimately, the podcast encourages listeners to stop waiting for the "perfect" conditions to pursue their goals. Whether it is reading a single chapter of a book or starting a new professional project, recognizing that "10 minutes still counts" allows you to start making progress "a little bit at a time." By choosing to say yes to the small version of an experience, you avoid the stagnation that comes from doing nothing at all. As the host concludes, "Why not get started?"