Leadership is often defined by the ability to influence others, yet many managers struggle when it comes to the specific task of shaping employee habits. As Tim Simmons notes in the Skills 360 podcast, while you cannot force individuals to change, you can strategically "create the conditions that foster good habits and disincentivize bad habits."
A critical distinction for any leader is understanding the difference between "simple compliance" and genuine habits. Compliance often relies on the boss watching, which is unsustainable and superficial. True habits, however, become "automatic." When behaviors become part of the company's culture, they are no longer tasks performed under duress but are "widespread, normalized, and easy" actions that define how things work within an organization.
To cultivate a specific culture—such as one focused on innovation—leaders must build the necessary environment and support systems. If you want employees to adopt healthy habits like reflection or constructive dissent, you must provide the structure to support them:
By focusing on these structural conditions, leaders can spend less energy "trying to motivate people" and more time facilitating the environment where these behaviors naturally flourish.
Leadership requires integrity; you cannot expect your team to follow rules you break yourself. Simmons emphasizes that a leader's role includes "modeling those habits and behaviors you want to see in others." If a manager mandates that no emails be sent after 6 pm but continues to do so themselves, they undermine the very culture they aim to build.
When individual coaching is necessary, it is vital to focus on "behaviors, not personalities." Attacking a person’s character—such as calling someone "too talkative"—is counterproductive because it asks them to "be a different person." Instead, provide actionable, observable instructions. For example, instead of criticizing personality, ask an employee to "summarize your activities very briefly" or "take a deep breath and count to five before responding" when they feel defensive.
Leaders must be mindful of the psychological framework of habits: "cues, actions, and rewards." To effectively shape behavior, one must observe what triggers a bad habit and identify the consequences that follow. Leaders should ask themselves: "Are people being rewarded for doing things the way you want them to?" By aligning rewards with desired outcomes, the transition to better habits becomes more seamless.
Finally, change is a slow process. Because "habits are very deeply ingrained," leaders should avoid the common mistake of pushing for too many changes at once. Expecting employees to "transform their ways of working overnight" is unrealistic.
Ultimately, the role of a leader is to act as a "habit leader"—someone who focuses on "systems, processes, and supports" rather than superficial mandates. By embracing the "quiet power of shaping how things get done," leaders can foster a sustainable environment where good habits are not just encouraged, but ingrained.