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My brother and sister-in-law planned their baby shower on the same day as my wedding.
So to start off guys, do you know what a baby shower is?
Do you know what a baby shower is?
If you know what it is, let me know in the comments right now.
So a baby shower is a celebratory party held for parents that are expecting a baby.
So it's kind of to celebrate the upcoming birth of your child, a baby shower.
So the child isn't born yet, but the woman is pregnant.
So they celebrate the upcoming birth of that child a baby shower.
And remember, guys, to read on the right hand side and shadow me.
I, 25 male, met my beautiful fiancee, 25 female, in September 2024.
I moved from my state to her state three months after we met so I could be closer to her.
We got engaged in July 2025, exactly 10 months after we met, and we set the wedding date for March 14th.
No offense, but you think the women would be the ones bringing all the drama to our wedding, right?
Not in this case.
My two older brothers, let's call them Dumb and Dumber have brought nothing but drama to my wedding.
So his brothers are a lot older than him.
He is 25 and his other siblings are 33 and 36.
So that's an eight and 11 year difference.
I asked both of my brothers to be groomsmen, since I was the best man in Pat's wedding and also in Jay's wedding.
They both said yes.
And that's where the drama begins.
A month later, Pat calls me and says he won't be able to make it to my wedding because his wife is pregnant and her due date is in late April.
Mind you, my wedding is five to six weeks before her due date.
And it's only about a four hour drive.
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I brushed it off, congratulated him on the pregnancy and moved on.
I then asked another friend of mine who's also out of state let's call him Steve if he would take Pat's place, and he said yes.
Come Black Friday, I decided to rent our suits since that's normally cheaper.
It was $175 on sale because of Black Friday for the suit, shoes, shirt, belt, and pants.
Steve and Jay complained that it was too much money, that it was Black Friday and that, since they have kids, they wouldn't be able to spend that much on renting a suit.
They then reached out to me separately and asked if we could buy instead, since that would be cheaper.
So I gave in and the suits, shoes, belts, shirts and pants came out to a total of $250.
So much for buying being cheaper.
Fast forward to January, my fiancé and I decided to have a joint bachelor-bachelorette trip in the mountains, since we figured it would be more fun with more people.
The girls would do their own thing during the day, the guys would do their own thing and we'd all do a group activity together in the evening.
We decided to do it in January, since Jay is an accountant and wouldn't have been able to do it sooner.
After my fiancé sent out all the details, Jay and Steve declined the invitation to the batch trip.
Batch is just short for bachelor.
A bachelor trip.
Without my knowledge, my fiance had also included a question in the questionnaire she sent out, asking whether the guys would want to save money and share a bed, or pay extra to have their own bed.
Jay and Steve saw this and started complaining behind my back and my brothers and my dad then proceeded to call me gay for asking if the guys wanted to share a bed.
The batch trip was absolutely incredible and so much fun.
A couple of weeks after the batch trip, my fiance gets a text from my sister-in-law, Pat's wife.
She sent us a save the date for her baby shower.
And wouldn't you know it?
The baby shower is on March 14th.
Yep.
The same day as my wedding wedding a week later, they had the absolute audacity to send my fiance an invitation to the baby shower with a message that said we know y'all are far away, but we'd love it if you could come.
And what?
Miss our wedding?
The reason they're having the baby shower on my wedding day, in my opinion, is because my sister-in-law can't stand my family.
So she chose our wedding day knowing none of my family would be able to attend.
Meaning only her family would be there.
If you've seen The Help, my sister-in-law is Hilly Walters.
Let me know if you guys have seen that movie.
I personally have not.
A lot of people keep asking about my family and whether Pat is making them choose sides.
No, my family can't stand Pat and Hilly.
So even if they tried to pull that card, my family would still choose to come to my wedding without a second thought.
My siblings and my dad will be there.
My mom will not be attending as she passed away. three years ago.
Now for the part that they probably prefer I leave out.
This is not Pat and Hilly's first child.
This is their third child.
They already have two daughters and another girl on the way.
Hilly has had zero complications with any of her pregnancies or deliveries.
This is not an emergency, not a crisis and not some tragic circumstance.
It is a conscious decision to hijack attention and yes, It's exactly as selfish as it sounds.
And just when you think it can't get any worse.
The person who contacted my fiance was Hilly's best friend.
For clarity, none of Hilly friends have any relationship with my fiance or me.
My fiance was intentionally included to make sure we knew that, instead of celebrating our wedding, they'd be celebrating themselves.
This was calculated, unnecessary, and dripping with main character syndrome.
So no, this isn't a misunderstanding.
This isn't bad timing.
This is two people repeatedly showing everyone exactly who they are.
Update two.
I was talking to my dad last night and shockingly the baby shower fiasco came up again.
It turns out, Pat and Hilly went over to my dad's house on Saturday my condolences and he confronted them about why the baby shower was scheduled on my literal wedding day.
Pat immediately played dumb and claimed he had no idea it was on my wedding day.
He then proceeded to claim that it was the only day they could host the shower, which is hilarious, considering he knew the date when I asked him to be a groomsman.
And when we got the save the date, Hilly openly admitted she knew it was the same day as our wedding.
So yeah, that was a lie. for some background because this behavior didn't come out of nowhere.
Back in August 2025, when I asked Pat and Jay to be my groomsmen, we were on a family vacation.
Normally, my dad buys the groceries for these trips and doesn't expect anyone to pay him back.
This time, before we even arrived, Pat and Hilly decided to go rogue, bought groceries for everyone without telling us and then informed us we owed them 70 per person, slash couple.
No discussion, no heads up, just a Venmo request.
At the time, my fiance and I had just gotten engaged.
I genuinely couldn't afford it, especially since I had already paid my dad 450 for our share of the Airbnb, which is normal in my family and something we had planned for months in advance.
What I did not plan for was a surprise 70 grocery bill for food I didn't ask for and didn't know existed.
However, I refused to pay it, considering I couldn't afford it, and their lack of communication was not about to cost me 70.
My refusal apparently caused too much drama, so my dad paid Pat the 70 on our behalf just to make it stop.
Fast forward to this weekend.
While visiting my dad, Pat mentioned that his wedding gift to me would be the 70.
I never paid him.
My dad snapped and told him he had already paid it.
Pat then denied ever receiving the money confidently until Haley finally corrected him and confirmed that yes, my dad did pay him.
And because, why not pile it on?
Pat also complained about how expensive our wedding registry is before purchasing the cheapest item on it.
This is from the same man who proudly put a 70 dollar yeti cooler on his registry a few years ago.
So to recap lies about the date, selective amnesia about money that was already paid and complaints about how expensive my wedding registry is.
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Next story.
Am I the a-hole for asking my grieving boyfriend to set boundaries with his mom after she wears my bathing suit?
I, 39 female, was dating Mark, 38 male, for almost five months when his dad sadly passed away from cancer.
It was awful, obviously.
His dad was awesome, and Mark and he were very close.
I try to be supportive, respectful, and give him space, all of it.
But here's the thing, his mom, before his dad passed, she was already a lot.
She FaceTimed my boyfriend two to three times a day, every single day.
She showed up unannounced three to four times a week.
She lives 45 minutes away.
She did his laundry.
She cleaned his house.
She cooked for him.
She rearranged his furniture.
She decorated his entire house.
This man is 38.
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Every weekend she would just appear at his house, where I also was, and sit there badmouthing his ex for hours in front of me, which felt less like bonding and more like an audition.
Look how much I hated the last one.
Meanwhile, she was syrupy sweet to my face in a way that made my skin itch.
Fast forward, his dad passes away.
I'm walking on eggshells because grief is brutal and I'm not a monster.
Then one day while I'm not there, she goes to his house and wears my bathing suit in the spa.
Not a random spare, my bathing suit.
I only found out because she took it home with her to wash it.
Let me repeat that.
She drove 45 minutes home with my used bathing suit to wash it, even though she usually does her son's laundry at her place.
After the bathing suit incident, I stayed quiet because she had just lost her husband.
I didn't want to be the villain over swimwear.
The next day my boyfriend casually told me he was turning his basement into an apartment for his mom so she could move in.
Not a discussion. a decision.
I took a few days to process everything then asked to talk, calmly.
I said I understood she was grieving but before she moved in he needed to set boundaries.
I mentioned how intense things already were and that her wearing my bathing suit without asking made me uncomfortable.
He got defensive immediately, took her side and told me to leave.
Then he gave me the silent treatment for two days.
After that, he dumped me by text.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
He dumped you by text because you didn't want his... crazy mom to move in with you guys.
I feel like he did you a favor.
I'm not gonna lie.
Let's continue.
It hurts but honestly, if asking for basic boundaries ends a relationship, it probably wasn't much of one to begin with facts.
So that's the end of that story and overall that is kind of insane.
So i definitely don't think you're in the wrong.
You are your own person and you're allowed to set boundaries with other people and if they don't respect those boundaries or they cross them, then you can step away or they can break up with you if they don't like that boundary.
Clearly your boyfriend did not like that boundary you were setting with him and his mom and he broke up with you.
I mean, I don't think he did anything wrong either.
It's his mom.
So obviously he's going to prioritize her naturally.
But you felt like she was really controlling and she crossed the boundary by wearing your bathing suit.
But you didn't want to bring it up because she just lost her husband.
And honestly, if the relationship is that fragile that, after setting this boundary, he wants to break up with you, then I think that's for the better, in all honesty.
What do you guys think?
Let me know in the comments.
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