[The Art of Memoir: Kelly Corrigan on Finding the Extraordinary in the Ordinary]-[New year, new habits: How to start writing with author Kelly Corrigan]

TED Radio Hour · B2 · 2024-12-25

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The Craft of Memoir: Elevating the Mundane

In a recent discussion, bestselling author Kelly Corrigan shared insights into her approach to writing, emphasizing that the secret to capturing the human experience lies in the "mundane and ordinary aspects" of life. Rather than focusing on grand, heroic narratives, Corrigan argues that stories rooted in the everyday are deeply resonant. Her memoir, The Middle Place, became a commercial success not because it featured a "conquering hero," but because it was "just a story about an ordinary guy"—her father—who was exceptionally skilled at loving others. This perspective challenges the publishing industry's tendency to prioritize stories of "abject poverty" or "shocking" trauma, suggesting that there is a significant appetite for authentic, happy stories about connection.

The Power of Detail

Corrigan identifies "detail-oriented" writing as the bridge between a simple observation and an immersive experience. She advises aspiring writers to move past generalities, noting that "it's the detail that makes it come alive." By providing concrete examples—such as describing a "grape Fanta" and the tactile sensation of "condensation making my whole hand wet"—a writer transports the reader to a specific "place in space and time." This technique of chronicling and categorizing the world allows the reader to feel as though they are "eavesdropping" on the author’s life, transforming ordinary moments into extraordinary prose.

Strategies for Aspiring Chroniclers

For those looking to document their own lives, Corrigan suggests establishing a "daily habit" of writing. She highlights the necessity of support systems, such as finding a "writing group" or an "accountability partner," to maintain momentum. Perhaps most importantly, she advocates for having a "fantasy" about the intended recipient of the work. For her, the motivation to write was the desire to share her story with her father, George Corrigan. This personal mission provided a clear purpose, which she describes as "all I needed" to complete the work.

Writing as a Process of Making Sense

Interestingly, Corrigan admits that she does not identify as a writer in the traditional sense; she does not feel an inherent, physical compulsion to sit at a desk. Instead, she is "compelled to communicate" and "compare notes." She views writing as a tool for making sense of her experiences, particularly during times of grief. While she finds the solitary nature of writing less satisfying than conversational interaction, she acknowledges its value in processing emotions. As she notes, "I cry a lot when I'm writing," which serves as a vital way to "help move things along inside" during difficult periods. Ultimately, Corrigan’s approach demonstrates that memoir is less about the pursuit of literary perfection and more about the brave, honest act of documenting the "exquisite promise" of love and life.

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Isn't that so beautiful?

I think it's a daily habit.

I think there's a lot of value in reading while you're writing.

I was like, I'm done.

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So I did. For 14 days, I cleaned his reading glasses and showed him pictures on my phone, stretching them so he could see the detail hidden in the pixels, which often led us into the catalog of spectacular people he had known, the all -time greats as he dubbed them.

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