How to Become 37.78 Times Better at Anything: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Habits | The Mel Robbins Podcast

Hey, it's your friend Mel, and welcome to the Mel Robbins Podcast.

I just got out of the studio and I am so excited for you to hear today's conversation because ever since starting this podcast three years ago, I have wanted to sit down with the person who just left our Boston studios.

He's a world renowned researcher and the number one bestselling author, whose book on habits has sold 25 million copies.

And more than any other book, this is the book that has fundamentally changed my approach to behavior change and habits.

What book am I talking about?

Well, I'm talking about none other than Atomic Habits.

James Clear taught me, your friend Mel Robbins, that change isn't about willpower.

It's about systems.

James is going to tell you today, goals are about the results you want to achieve.

Systems are the processes that lead to those results.

And what you're about to learn is that there are very simple, specific systems that you need to have in order to break bad habits and create new ones.

Today, you're going to learn exactly what these systems are, how to set them up, why they work.

And even if you've read Atomic Habits, you need to hear the conversation today.

Because number one, you've probably forgotten the systems.

And number two, James is about to share things he has never said in any other interview, including the things he wishes he had put in Atomic Habits.

Because, after almost a decade of feedback from millions of readers around the world, James has so many additional insights and he's going to share them with you today for the first time here.

The framework See, the problem's never been you.

The problem is your lack of systems that support change.

Today, you will learn them so you can become the person you want to be.

Hey, it's your friend Mel, and welcome to the Mel Robbins Podcast.

I am thrilled that you're here.

It's always such an honor to be together and to spend this time with you.

And if you're a new listener or you're here because someone shared this with you, I just want to take a moment and personally welcome you to the Mel Robbins Podcast family.

I am so fired up for the conversation today.

I cannot wait for you to meet today's guest, James Clear.

James Clear is here to teach you an easy and proven way to build good habits and break bad ones.

And he's also going to teach you how to become 37.78 times better at anything.

James is the number one best-selling author speaker researcher, and he's widely regarded as one of the top experts in the world on habit formation and behavior change.

He is the number one New York Times best-selling author of Atomic Habits, which has become a phenomenon.

It has sold more.

Atomic Habits has appeared on the New York Times bestseller list for a record-breaking 164 consecutive weeks.

The frameworks and systems you are going to learn today have helped millions of people lose weight, stop smoking, stop drinking, build businesses, start new chapters, achieve goals and become the person they want to be.

And today James Clear is here in our Boston studios to teach you those very same systems, so you can change your life too.

Please help me welcome the extraordinary James Clear to the Mel Robbins Podcast.

Hello, Mel.

How are you?

I am fantastic.

I am so excited to be able to have this conversation with you, because your work has made such a big difference in my life.

I have bought Atomic Habits and pressed it into people's hands more times than I can count.

And to be able to unpack the simple but powerful insights today.

I've just been looking forward to this since I started the podcast.

No, thank you so much.

That's very nice of you to say.

Well, it's true.

And here's where I want to start.

What will I experience in my life that could be different James, if I take everything that you're about to share with us and teach us today to heart and I apply it to my life?

Well, I'll give you three things right off the bat.

So first is action relieves anxiety.

Action relieves anxiety.

So if you're feeling stressed about something, you fear something.

There's a problem that's kind of bothering you.

Taking action on it reduces the fear that you feel about the problem, because now you're influencing the outcome.

Second thing is it builds resilience.

So in a lot of ways, I feel like the secret to winning is knowing how to lose.

And what I mean is it's knowing how to bounce back from a loss.

And so many of the things that we'll talk about today are about getting started and about making it easier for yourself to get started, particularly after you fail, after you suffer something.

And so the secret to winning is knowing how to lose.

And these strategies will teach you how to be more resilient and bounce back from those losses.

And then the third thing is better results.

You know, in a way... procrastinating is choosing to delay a better future.

It's choosing to ignore the results that you could be having, the potential that you could be fulfilling.

And most of our outcomes in life are a lagging measure of the habits that precede them.

So...

Your bank account is a lagging measure of your financial habits.

Your physical fitness is a lagging measure of your training habits.

Your knowledge is a lagging measure of your reading habits.

It's the thing that is the result of the action.

You're basically saying the bank account I see today is a result of the habits that I had, like a year ago.

Almost all the things that we have now are a result of the daily life, the daily system that we've been following for the last say, six months, or a year or two years.

You know, it's the things that you do each day that lead you to the outcomes that you have right now.

Now, look, I'm not saying that habits are the only thing that matter in life, right?

You have luck and randomness.

You've got misfortune.

There are all sorts of things that can influence the final outcome of but, by definition, luck and randomness are not under your control, and your habits are.

And the only reasonable, rational approach in life is focus on the pieces of the situation that are within your control.

And so we also badly, this is interesting thing in life.

We also badly want better results.

You know, we also badly want to make more money or double productivity or be fit or reduce stress.

But the irony is the results are not actually the thing that needs to change.

It's like fix the inputs and the outputs will fix themselves.

Fix the daily habits and you'll be led to a different destination.

You know, in some ways I feel like the two timeframes that matter most in life are like 10 years and one hour.

So 10 years is shorthand for like, what are the big meaningful things you really care about in life?

I mean, you sit there and think about most of us, like, what do we really want to do?

You know, want to have a marriage that we're proud of, or raise kids that are successful, or to build a business that thrives, or to get in the best shape of your life.

Whatever it is, whatever that big thing is, it's almost always a multi-year, sometimes a multi-decade process.

So 10 years is shorthand for like, what's that big vision?

Yeah.

And then one hour is shorthand, for what can I do in the next hour that contributes to where I want to be in 10 years.

You know like never let a day pass without doing something that is going to benefit you in a decade.

And if you can live in those two mind frames, if you can have like both, this long-term vision and this bias for short-term action, you don't let a day pass without doing something that's going to benefit you 10 years from now.

You don't even need to wait 10 years, usually.

Usually it's like a year or two and you're shocked by how much progress you've made.

Well, already you are dropping very clear, very simple and very powerful truths.

I'm going to call them that action relieves anxiety, which we're going to dig into.

That the secret to winning is knowing how to lose.

And tell me the third one again about procrastination.

Procrastinating on something important is choosing to delay a better future.

Hmm.

So you know this is important to you.

You know this is important to your life, but not taking action on it.

Now you're just pushing, kicking the can down the road, right?

Pushing the results further and further out.

And so the question you asked me was if I take this seriously and I follow through on these things, how will life change?

And the answer is, you'll no longer be delaying a better future.

You'll be working toward it.

You'll be contributing to it.

Interview's over.

I mean, that right there was absolutely, I cannot wait to dig into this.

What I would love to talk about.

First though, in case the person who is listening right now or who's watching on YouTube doesn't know what a habit is, what is the simplest definition for how to think about a habit, and why are they so important?

Sure.

Okay, so good question.

I'm going to define a habit in a couple different ways.

So, first way, if you were to talk to an academic or researcher, they're going to tell you habits, are these automatic, mindless routines, things you do without even really thinking about it.

Okay.

So like how you pull your pants.

Brush your teeth, tie your shoes, put your pants on the same way each time.

Like, you know, it's just these automatic mindless behaviors.

And it is true that there are many habits that are like that throughout the day.

But there's, I think, a different type of way that we use the word habit to describe most things.

Like if I were to ask you, Mel, what are some habits you're going to work on?

You're not going to say stuff like that.

You're going to say I'm trying to get in the habit of meditating every morning, or I want to get in the habit of writing every day or going to the gym three days a week, or whatever.

Yes.

All of them.

All of them, James.

All of them.

That's more like a routine.

In a technical academic sense, it's not automatic the way that brushing your teeth might be.

But what you mean is I want to do it consistently and regularly.

And so most of Atomic Habits is about that stuff.

It's about how do we pick these big, important things in our lives and do them with greater consistency and frequency.

Yes, there are these simple systems and things and rules that you're going to teach us today that I love, because I think when you're somebody that's struggling to make changes stick in your life or to even get started, you see it as a deficit in your personality.

You beat yourself up and say, I have no willpower.

I'm the only loser on the planet who doesn't have a morning routine.

And what I love so much about your work is you're about to show us, no, no, no, no, no, no.

It's not a failure in you.

It's a failure in the things that you're going to teach us.

Well, you know, a lot of the conversation about habits kind of frames things that way.

You know, like if you hear people say oh, you know oh, I wish I just had the discipline to follow through on this.

Or, hey, maybe if you really wanted to do it, then you would follow through.

You know, maybe if you really wanted to do it, you would have more willpower or discipline or grit.

And you know I don't want to totally dismiss discipline and willpower and grit, like they're all very important qualities in life.

But I don't know that that answer is quite right.

You know, I think many people I bet you know most people genuinely do want to improve, genuinely do want to perform at a higher level, genuinely would like to have better results.

So what I would say is, look, if you're struggling to improve, the problem isn't you.

The problem is your system.

You know, we don't change not because we don't want to change, but because we have the wrong system for change.

And if you can have the right system, the right elements in place, then improving becomes much easier.

Well, I flagged that exact quote.

I'm going to read to you from Atomic Habits, page 27.

If you're having trouble changing your habits, the problem isn't you.

The problem is your system.

Bad habits repeat themselves again and again, not because you don't want to change, but because you have the wrong system for change.

You do not rise to the level of your goals.

You fall to the level of your systems.

And one of the core themes that you're going to teach us today is how to stop focusing on the goal or the change we want to make and really focus on the system that helps us create that goal.

Would you define what exactly is a system?

A system is just a collection of habits.

Oh, that's it?

It can be really small habits, but it's a collection of habits that are all oriented toward the same outcome.

Oh, I'm thinking about how to make the habit stick.

So you're first talking about okay, you've got this result that you want, you have this goal, but what is the system, the daily things that you're going to be doing in order to make this result happen in the future?

Now, before we get into goals versus system, for somebody who hasn't read the book, could you...

Talk about that concept in Atomic Habits, getting 1% better every day.

This is one of the key ideas in the book.

And it's just this idea that tiny changes add up to a surprising or remarkable degree.

So the math of this if you get 1 better each day for a year, so 101 to the 365th power, you get 3778 times better by the end of the year.

If you get 1% worse, so 0.99 to the 365th power, you drive yourself almost all the way down to zero.

I think it's 0.03.

And so you have these results that are shockingly large or shockingly small, based on little, tiny actions that you do each day.

And I think it's interesting because you know like, what is the difference between a choice that's 1 better, 1 worse?

I mean, on any given day, not a whole lot.

I mean, what is the difference between somebody who reads for 10 minutes today and somebody who doesn't read at all?

Hmm. basically nothing.

You know, like reading for 10 minutes does not make you a genius.

But if you're the type of person who always goes to bed a little bit smarter than they were when they woke up, the person who always finds a little bit of time to learn something new yeah, that can be a pretty meaningful difference in wisdom and insight, especially over a 10 20, 30-year period.

So we all have these habits that we're doing each day and it's easy to overlook them.

But time will magnify whatever you feed it.

So if you have good habits, time becomes your ally.

And every day that goes by, you put yourself in a stronger position.

If you have bad habits, time becomes your enemy.

And every day that goes by, you dig the hole a little bit deeper.

And that's really what getting 1% better is about.

It's this emphasis on trajectory rather than position.

If you had a 747 that was sitting on the runway in Los Angeles.

Yeah.

And it takes off and it's going to go to New York.

If you nudge the nose of the plane six feet at the start when it takes off, you land in Washington DC rather than New York City.

And it's just about this difference that a tiny change can make, the difference that a small improvement or being on a slightly different trajectory can result in.

Small changes, when they're compounded over a great distance or a long time, can lead you to a very different result.

It's hard to wrap your mind around the fact that if I just focus on getting 1 better every day for a year, that I end up 377 times better.

Can you give me like what, if I do like a pushup every day, then maybe at the end of the day, like no, I'm serious.

I want to visualize what this is because that's amazing.

I think, first of all, it's not really about getting caught up in the exact number.

It's more about the philosophy.

It's like an attitude, an approach of, can I try to find some small way to get better each day?

The math of it is just compound interest.

It's just a compounding curve.

And compound interest is almost always surprising what it turns into in the long run.

And the effects of your habits can also almost always be surprising what they can turn into.

Now, your habits are not exactly like a mathematical formula, right?

Like your life is not exactly like some equation that you're going to calculate.

But the principle of trying to find some small way to improve and trusting how that can accumulate and compound over time, that is very true.

And it also, I think, is...

Very much how it feels on a given day, which is the actions feel kind of insignificant on a daily basis.

They're very easy to overlook on a daily basis and very surprising what they turn into, good and bad, a year or two or three from now.

And so it's really about mastering those small daily actions and what that can lead us to in the long run.

What are the top two or three surprising ones?

That if you did 1 better every day, you'd be shocked at where you ended up in a year.

You'd be surprised.

If you work on almost anything consistently for say, two years, you're almost guaranteed to be in the top 1 to 5 of the population on it.

I mean, nobody else is spending that amount of time on it.

So that doesn't mean that you're going to play in the NBA if you practice basketball for two years, but it does mean you will be a much better basketball player.

You know, James, let's talk more about this.

There's a deeply personal story, something happened to you, that explains the 1% rule.

Yeah, so I grew up in a family that played lots of different sports, and I played baseball for a long time.

And when I was in high school, I suffered this really serious baseball injury where I was hit in the face with a baseball bat.

And it was an accident.

A classmate of mine took a swing and the bat came out of his hands and rotated through the air and struck me right between the eyes, broke my nose, shattered both eye sockets, broke the bone behind my nose kind of deeper inside your skull.

I was air-cared to the hospital, and I was in a medically-induced coma overnight.

And then the next day my vitals had kind of stabilized to the point where they could release me from the coma.

And it was a really long road back.

Couldn't drive a car for the next nine months.

When I went to my first physical therapy session, I was practicing basic motor patterns like walking in a straight line, had double vision for weeks.

So it took a while and all I wanted, you know, I was a teenager, I was 16, 17 years old.

All I wanted was to get back to being this normal young, healthy kid before you know, be able to drive a car and go to baseball and play and whatever.

But it was a time in my life when I was forced to start small.

I had to just focus on what can I do at this physical therapy session?

Am I making any progress from the last session to this one?

If I can't do anything physically couldn't play baseball for about a year then can I study and do well on this test or try to find some small win, some small improvement that I can make.

And all the things that we're about to talk about today, I would never have said it that way then.

I wouldn't have said, oh, I'm just trying to get 1% better.

I didn't have a language for it.

But it was an experience that forced me to realize how small actions can be, and still be, meaningful.

Yes.

And that progress can take a long arc.

I barely played baseball in high school.

After the injury, I basically missed the whole next year.

I went to college.

First year, I came off the bench.

Second season, I was a starter.

Third season, I was team captain.

Then fourth year, I was an academic All-American.

And that's like a five or six year arc from that stuff.

And I never played professionally.

But I look back on that and I feel like I was able to maximize my potential.

And, you know, we all have things in life that we don't ask for.

And this was one for me.

It was one of the first things I said when I woke up the next day was I never asked for this.

But you have to get out of that self-pity loop.

It just does not serve you.

A bad attitude and self-pity makes every problem harder.

And so you're just layering on another challenge to the already challenging situation.

And so instead, I tried to be as positive as I could about it, you know, and try to find things to improve each day.

And again it took five or six years, but I think that process taught me a lot about building small habits and bouncing back from challenges.

And so eventually, 10 years later, when it came time to write the book, I think the book is better because I struggled.

It was better because I had to go through that process.

And now I know, just like everybody else, how hard it is to build habits, how long it takes to make progress and how challenging it can be to see the improvement that you've been wishing for.

And so I think those struggles ended up resulting in better material.

Wow.

That story really struck me when I read the book and I'm so glad you shared it because it does illustrate the power of the 1 rule.

The human mind is a learning machine.

Almost every skill that you have today was previously unknown to you.

When you were born, you didn't know how to tie your shoes or cut a tomato or make spaghetti or whatever.

But you know all that stuff now because you practiced it and you can get better at anything that you practice.

I think it's interesting if you look at people.

What are people spending their time practicing each day?

A lot of people are practicing the art of getting mad on social media.

People are practicing the fine craft of being fearful and reading about all the ways that the world is falling apart.

They're practicing scrolling their phone.

What are you trying to get good at?

I think it's worth to ask, what am I practicing each day?

What am I training for?

And every moment is a repetition and your brain will automatically get better at the things that you repeat.

Whatever you repeat, you reinforce.

And so you want to make sure you're reinforcing the right things.

What I love about what you just said is that oftentimes, when you're thinking about habits, you're thinking about the new ones.

And we don't often have that moment of honest reflection with ourselves where we say wait a minute, I already have a lot of habits.

And if I don't like how my life looks and feels right now whether that's the balance of my bank account, or the way that I feel in my body, or the kind of relationship I'm in, or my drinking habits, or what I'm doing with my free time then changing my habits is the way I change the circumstances of my life.

Here's an interesting one for you.

Something like scrolling your phone or whatever.

Most people would be like, yeah, that's probably one I don't want to do as much.

But what I find interesting are the habits that used to serve me well but don't serve me as well now.

Those have been much harder for me to give up.

The way that I think about it is...

I like to ask myself this question of what season am I in right now?

You know, and life has a lot of different seasons.

Sometimes there can be all kinds of reasons that seasons shift.

You know, maybe it's you get married or you have a kid, or maybe you move to a city or start a new job.

I was just talking to a mom who she just became an empty nester.

And she's like, you know, for 25 years, I've been taking care of these kids.

Now, all of a sudden, nobody's here.

Like, what season am I in?

And what I've slowly learned I can be a slow learner in a lot of ways is that When your seasons change, your habits often need to change.

And I found, you know for me, a lot of the time I'll have a season shift and then I keep trying to force fit my old habits into this new season.

It takes me 18 months to realize, hey, something needs to change.

And I think this is an important conversation to have about habits, because people don't say this explicitly, but a lot of the time when people are focused on their habits and they start something new, they don't say it to themselves, but they're kind of thinking in the back of their mind.

What would it look like to be successful at this?

Oh, well, I would just do this habit forever.

And if I'd stopped doing it at some point, that must mean that I failed or I quit, or something like that.

I don't think it has to be like that at all.

You know, like take my writing habit, for example.

For the first three years, I wrote two articles a week.

Those were about 2,000 words each.

Then I signed the book deal for Atomic Habits, Season Changes.

Can't write those anymore, so that shifted.

Then I worked on the book for three years.

Now, for the last five years, I've been writing a newsletter once a week that's much shorter.

But At no point in there do I feel like my writing habit failed.

Just because I'm not writing two articles a week anymore doesn't mean that I don't know I screwed up or something.

The habit just needed to change shape based on the season that I was in.

And I think we should all give ourselves permission for our habits to shift based on the season that we're facing.

That's so relatable and helpful because, as you were talking about writing, I was thinking well, that's just happened for me.

Around exercise and around nutrition.

The more that I learn about the difference between men and women physiologically, the more I learn about hormone changes in women, the more I'm like oh wait, a minute running yoga, that's not going to help me the way that it used to.

I got to focus on protein and I got to focus on resistance training.

Different season, different habits.

Makes a lot of sense.

Yeah, I think knowing which season you're in right now is a really helpful thing.

There's a certain, there are like some questions I like to ask just for self-awareness.

They help bubble up some insights about yourself that then lead to some discoveries about maybe how I should shift my habits or whatever.

So some of the questions I like, one is, what am I optimizing for?

Different people optimize for different things.

You will probably optimize for different things at different points in your life.

Sometimes you optimize for making money.

Sometimes you optimize for free time or creative freedom.

Sometimes you optimize for family.

But whatever it is, the answer is probably very personal to you and the season that you're in.

So what am I optimizing for?

Second question is, what season am I in right now?

So we already talked about that.

The third one can be a little bit cutting, but it's, if I call it like that, it's kind of like the alien test or something.

Imagine that an alien comes down from outer space, right?

It's going to follow you around throughout your day.

Can't speak your language, can't communicate to you.

If it could only see your actions and not hear your words, what would it say your priorities are?

The interesting thing, I think, especially about smart people, is you can come up with a good excuse for most things.

You have very good reason for why things aren't happening.

And so it's very easy for you to talk your way out of why things didn't occur.

But the alien can't hear you.

It doesn't care.

It's only looking at what you're spending your time on.

And it's just a nice way to kind of level set.

And you know see, okay I say things are a priority, but how am I actually spending my time?

Tell me why these tiny changes create such massive transformation and why it's frankly the only way.

First of all, it matters because it's doable.

You know, you really only have a certain amount of time each day that you can work with.

Everybody says, oh, you have the same 24 hours in a day, but it's even less than that.

I think a more useful way to frame it is how many hours per day are under your control.

Ooh, I love that.

How many hours?

There's very few, you know?

There's very few.

Thank you for telling the truth.

And so really, it's about what do you do with those one or two hours?

You know, maybe three, I don't know.

But there's, you know, how many are really under your control?

And so that amount of time is what you have to work with.

And so for that reason, starting small makes sense.

But the bigger thing and I think that this is something I've learned over time, and especially through that injury is how fun it can be to make a small amount of progress.

Even if you aren't where you wanted to be yet, you feel good.

You have something to look back on and be like, I got a little bit better today.

So much of life is lived in this gray zone.

Am I a better spouse today than I was yesterday?

Am I a better friend?

Did I improve my career?

I don't know.

It's hard to know on any given day.

And so anytime that you can make a little bit of progress and be able to look back on that and be like you know what.

That was better than yesterday.

That feels really nice.

And so I think that's another reason.

And then the third thing, and this is really what getting 1% better is actually about, Okay.

It's about an emphasis on trajectory rather than position.

Tell me what that means.

Well, there's a lot of discussion about position in life.

You know, what's the number on the scale?

How much money is in the bank account?

What's the current stock price?

What are the quarterly earnings?

We have all these measurements, all these metrics for determining our current position.

And then if the position isn't what we wanted it to be, if the number isn't what we like, then we get frustrated or we feel guilty, or we start to judge ourselves.

I'm not there yet.

Why isn't this working?

I haven't made it.

I don't have the money.

I'm never going to get out of debt.

And you hear people say things like this all the time.

I've been running for a month.

Why can't I see a change in my body?

Our team has been meeting every Friday for the last six months.

We still haven't shipped this feature.

And that's when the frustration starts to build.

And so it is not actually about your current position.

What instead it is about is your current trajectory.

Am I getting 1% better or 1% worse?

How do you know?

Like one of the things, and I love that your last name's clear.

You have the best on-brand name for the way that your brain thinks.

But one of the biggest things that I see from the folks that listen around the world is not being clear about what you want.

And not knowing what you want.

And so is there any way that you think about how to even understand this concept of trajectory, right?

So I don't think there's one answer.

I think there are many.

Great.

But first thing is, yes, you're right.

Many people think what they lack is motivation, but what they really lack is clarity.

You know, you feel like, oh, I just need to get more motivated.

But what you really need to know is what is the most important thing?

What am I working on?

The motivation is actually quite easy if you're very clear about what the most important thing is.

But usually people have seven things that they say are important to them.

And then it's not easy because you're being pulled in all these different directions.

The second thing is some of the best advice that I got early on in my business career was try things until something comes easily.

And I think you can apply that advice to almost anything.

Try things until something comes easily.

And the point is...

There's this common refrain of try, try, try again.

You know, if things don't work, try, try, try again.

I think instead it would be better if it was phrased if things don't work try try, try differently.

You need to keep trying.

You need to keep showing up, but you need to try different lines of attack.

Different things work better than others.

And so by trying a range of options, especially early in a process, you put yourself in a much better position to succeed.

So here, I'm going to try to tie all this together.

So if I could add one thing to Atomic Habits that wasn't in the book, it would be this question of what would this look like if it was fun?

What would this look like if it was fun?

What would it look like if meditating was fun?

What would it look like if going to the gym was fun?

What would it look like if making a sales call each morning was fun?

And that doesn't mean that your habits are going to feel like the most fun thing in your life.

It's not like, oh, this will feel like going to a concert or something.

But let's take just a common one like exercise.

A lot of people go to the gym in January and I feel like they kind of are going because they feel like they should go, or society wants them to go, or something.

But if we just take 10 minutes and write out what are ways that we can live a healthy, active lifestyle, there's dozens, you know.

Go to the gym kayak, rock climb, do yoga.

You can come up with a lot of things, right?

And I think you should just write that list out, for whatever the habit is that you're working on and then look at the 10 or 20 or 50 things that you have and then say which one of these sounds like the most fun to me.

You know, which one of these sounds most engaging?

And you're much more likely to follow through on that than you are on something else.

Okay, can I give you an example?

Because this is such an important nuance that could truly change your ability to make something meaningful stick.

Because when you started talking about the fact that you know as you're trying exercise, let's say I have the hardest time motivating myself.

I'm very clear that I want to exercise four or five days a week because I want to live a healthy, vibrant life.

I want to be hiking into my 90s and 100s.

I want to be able to dance at all my kids' and grandkids' weddings.

That's the why, and I know that that means today I got to do this annoying thing called exercise.

And it's always befuddled me that my husband, with zero resistance, zero friction, can just walk right into a gym motivate himself.

My daughter's like that too.

Not me.

I wander around like an idiot.

I get bored.

I can't stay motivated.

I don't know.

What I've discovered is that if I go to a class, it's fun.

And so that question, how could I make this fun?

What if this were fun?

What would that look like?

That changes everything.

The first key, the first hurdle to clear is to find things that are genuinely interesting to you, that are genuinely fun to you.

You know the person who felt like it was a hassle at the start or it kind of feels like it's a chore and they're sort of making themselves do it.

As soon as it gets hard, they're going to stop.

They didn't want to do it to begin with.

But the person who is having fun, the person who's engaged and interested, the person who's curious and excited about it, they're way more likely to stick with it when it gets hard.

James, I am so excited you're here.

We are just getting started, but I just want you to hold on a second and tap the brakes, because what you're saying is so powerful.

So, while you take a listen to our sponsors, I want you to share this conversation with people in your life who are trying to change, but they keep falling back on those old patterns and they need some new systems.

But don't go anywhere because when we come back, James is breaking down the four laws of behavior change and showing you exactly how to apply them.

We'll be waiting for you after this short break.

Welcome back.

It's your buddy, Mel Robbins.

Today, you and I are getting to learn from the incredible James Clear.

He is the author of the number one global phenomenon, bestselling book, Atomic Habits.

And he is sharing insights on how you can become 3778 times better at anything, using his easy and proven way to build good habits and break bad ones.

So James, you know, one of the things that I'd love to have you unpack for us is, you know, when someone's sitting around waiting for motivation and they're struggling to either get started or struggling as they're waking up today to do the thing they say that they want to do, could you unpack for the person listening why you have to take the action first and how motivation shows up after the action, not before.

So, A habit is a behavior that you want to do consistently.

That you want to do consistently.

Okay.

Motivation, we all know, sometimes you're motivated, sometimes you're not.

Motivation rises and falls throughout the day.

So why would you want a behavior that you want to do consistently to rely on something that fluctuates?

It doesn't make sense.

And so this is a good reason why you want to scale habits down to a level where they're so easy to do.

Getting into it is so simple that you'll do it even when motivation is low.

And so this is another reason for the phrase atomic habits, right?

It's about making it tiny and small so that you stick to it even when motivation isn't there.

What does that mean?

To scale down if I'm trying to meditate or I'm trying to exercise or I'm trying to make that sales call?

I'll give you two examples.

So there's this concept in chemistry called activation energy.

It's how much energy is required to activate a reaction.

So you can think about like striking a match.

There's a certain amount of effort that you have to put in to strike the match and for the flame to start okay.

Your habits are kind of like that.

Some habits have really big activation energy.

If you want to do 100 push-ups a day, that requires a certain amount of motivation.

You got to keep doing sets of 5 and 10 throughout the day or whatever.

And if it gets to 9 o'clock one day and it's time to go to bed and you haven't done your 100 push-ups yet, I got to kind of motivate yourself quite a bit to get that in before you go to sleep.

I need gasoline for the bonfire in that case.

So if your objective instead is to do 10 push-ups a day, well then it's nine o'clock and you still haven't got them in yet, but you're like, I can probably do 10 before I go to sleep.

That's probably doable.

And so you can see these two habits have very different activation energies.

They have very different amount of effort that they're requiring from you.

So scaling it down is choosing the thing that's easy to do that has small activation energy.

So that'd be 10 pushups a day.

Do 10 instead of 100.

Instead of reading 30 books a year, it's read one page, right?

It's like stuff like that.

Scale it down.

Okay.

There is something that can be tied to this or is related to this, which is a phrase that I feel like I remind myself of a lot, which is reduce the scope but stick to the schedule.

So there's so many times where the day kind of gets away from you.

You know, like things get busy.

Let's say you wanted to work out today and then you look up the clock and you know you were planning on doing an hour workout, or 45 minutes, and you only have 15 or 20 minutes.

In that moment, the conversation I used to have with myself was well, I guess I don't have time to work out today.

And then you move on.

But instead, what I'm trying is to say, reduce the scope, but stick to the schedule.

And so I'll go down, I'll change in my workout clothes and go down to my basement and go down to this little home gym area that I have.

And maybe I only have 15 minutes and I can only do one set of squats, but that's what I do.

And in some ways, I feel like the bad days matter more than the good days.

You know, it's showing up on the days when it's not ideal.

It's showing up on the days when you don't have energy or time or capacity.

That keeps the habit alive.

And if you keep the habit alive, all you need is time.

But if you throw up a zero now, the streak is broken and you're sometimes one day, can turn into five days and can turn into three months, and then you find yourself wanting to get back on track.

And I think rather than asking yourself, what can I do on my best day?

You should start by asking, what can I stick to even on the bad days?

Oh, I love that.

And that becomes your baseline.

Okay, so you've already given us two incredible things, which is, what if this were fun?

What would it look like if it were fun?

And as you're thinking about the beginning of a habit, Defining it, by what could I actually stick to, even on my worst day?

Right.

How is it that motivation shows up after the action?

Because you have this feeling of progress.

Now you have something that you, oh, look, I've made some movement forward.

You know, you have something to look at.

It's the difference between hope and evidence.

Now you have some evidence.

And so you have a reason to believe it.

Say, oh, look, you know, look at myself moving forward.

And that starts to feel really good once you stack a couple days together.

You know it doesn't.

I think this is one of the lessons of my work, which is it doesn't take much to feel good again.

You'd be surprised what you can do with five good minutes.

You know, five good minutes of conversation can restore a relationship.

Five good minutes of exercise will leave you winded and like reset your energy and mood for the day.

Five good minutes of writing will make you feel like the manuscript is moving forward again.

It doesn't take much to feel good.

And so you just need a little bit to get yourself back on the path.

That's the entire premise of this podcast, that it takes so little to make you feel good again.

And once you do, the progress and the momentum kicks in.

If you're the kind of person who's listening and you're like God.

I've just failed so too many times.

And so you feel discouraged about starting in, whether it's putting yourself back out there on the dating scene or it's dusting off your resume after getting laid off and feeling like what value do I have to offer?

Or you tried yet again to lose the weight or to stick to the meditation and you failed again.

So what is the failure premortem?

Okay, so first you want optimism.

My little shorthand is I don't want to be my own bottleneck.

Okay, so I try to work backwards from magic at the start.

What would the magical outcome be?

What would the thing that I really want to achieve look like?

What's the optimal outcome look like?

Then the next phase, this is where the failure premortem comes in.

So you switch from optimism to pessimism.

All right, I know where I want to go.

So now let's be my own critic for a minute.

The failure premortem.

It's just a simple question of if we look back six months from now and this has failed, where does it fail?

So it's just you're pre-analyzing where the potential points of failure are.

Oh, so this is before you even get started.

You haven't done anything.

You haven't done anything yet, but you're trying to be the one to figure out.

What are the flaws in what I'm about to do.

Okay.

And so the failure premortem just says, if this fails, where does it fail?

And you can come up with all kinds of things like that.

Let me give you an example for habits.

So like, let's say that you want to start going to the gym.

Yes.

And you're like, well, if this plan fails, where does it fail?

And it might fail because you don't know which gym you're going to use.

So you're like, all right, I'll pick one that's on the route of my commute each day.

So then you say, okay, it might fail because I don't have my gym clothes ready.

So you're like, all right, I need to set my clothes out the night before or have my gym bag ready early.

I had one person who they were like.

I am going to the gym and I wish I could stick to it more, but this gym doesn't have a water fountain.

And so when I go there, I'm like, oh, I always forget to bring my water bottle.

And that's enough to make me be like I'm not going to go because they don't have water fountain there.

And little points of friction like that sound kind of silly when you say it.

But you're like, yeah, that's a potential point of failure.

And you need to have a plan for getting a water bottle full and make sure that you bring that each day.

Yes.

And so you start to check off these boxes of what are the things that could hold you back from this plan working.

And then you switch back to optimism.

Because what you don't want is to go into this process feeling like you're doubting yourself to begin with.

Right, I'm screwed.

Why am I even doing this?

That attitude is just going to make it harder.

So you start with optimism.

You switch to pessimism.

Try to poke the holes in your argument.

And then we're back to optimism again.

We want everybody on board and feel like we've got the right attitude going into it.

Okay.

I love this because one of the things that I immediately thought, as you were using the gym example, is I immediately could pop into the pessimism mindset.

And I think I'm a good problem solver, but I was like, okay, well, I don't know what to do at a gym.

And so I walk around and then feel overwhelmed and intimidated because I'm not quite sure what the routine should be.

And then I leave.

The other one is I would immediately see that I would have shot the goal too high and would have started with an hour every day for the next six months.

And so now I'm like, oh, wait a minute.

I got to reduce the time and stick to the schedule.

And what could I get done on my worst day?

So what could the goal be?

So now I'm using your tools.

And then I finally am now saying, well, I would about a weekend ago, this isn't fun anymore.

And so I can see how you can anticipate ways in which you would break your own ability to make it happen.

So two things here.

The first is some of this depends on how you're measuring things.

It can really be helpful to pick a different form of measurement.

So if you take like going to the gym, what's the common measurement?

Everybody's like, what's the scale say?

And how do you look in the mirror?

That's what everybody's measuring.

But let's forget about that.

Measure it in a totally different way.

So this reader, his name's Mitch, and I mentioned him in Atomic Habits.

When he first started going to the gym, so he lost over 100 pounds.

He's kept it off for more than a decade now.

And when he first started going, he had this strange little rule for himself where he wasn't allowed to stay for longer than five minutes.

So he'd get in the car, drive to the gym, get out, do half an exercise, get back in the car, drive home.

And it sounds silly.

You're like, this is not going to get him the results that you want.

But If you take a step back, what you realize is he was mastering the art of showing up.

He was becoming the type of person that went to the gym four days a week, even if it was only for five minutes.

And that's the different form of measurement there.

He's not measuring the results.

He's measuring, did I show up or not?

And that gives him something else to win on in the early days.

I think this is a pretty deep truth about habits, something that people like often overlook, which is a habit must be established before it can be improved.

Hold on a second.

Habit must be established before it can be improved.

A habit must be established before it can be improved.

You have to standardize before you optimize.

I mean, how often in our lives do we try to optimize things before we get started?

You know you're so busy finding the perfect sales strategy, the best workout plan, the ideal diet to follow.

Best journal.

You're right.

You want to optimize everything from the start.

Because it makes me think I'm doing it, James.

Right.

That's exactly it.

It's a form of procrastination for me.

I call it the difference between motion and action.

So motion are things that make you feel like you're making progress.

So I'm gonna look up a trainer that maybe can help me at the gym.

Doesn't matter how many times you look up trainers in your area, it's not gonna do anything to get you fit.

Doesn't mean you don't need a trainer, doesn't mean you shouldn't use one.

I'm not saying that.

I'm just saying that action is never gonna result in the outcome that you want.

Doing a set of squats or doing five pushups.

Now, that's something that could get the results that you want.

And so researching business names.

I want to launch a business.

Or designing a logo.

Doesn't matter how many times you design your business logo, it's never going to result in a paying customer.

It doesn't mean a business doesn't need a logo, but it's just one is motion, one is action.

So action is a behavior that can get the result that you want.

Motion is a behavior that makes you feel like you're making progress.

One of the things that I love about the way that you think about habits and behavior change is you talk about the connection between identity and behavior.

And You write.

You know, who do I want to become is a way better question to ask yourself than what do I want to achieve?

Why?

I think it's very natural to start with results and outcomes, but the results are not the thing that you really need to change.

You know, what you need is to be consistent, to stick with it.

You need to show up consistently.

You need to follow through on, you know, the actions that are going to lead to that outcome.

So I kind of think of it almost like the layers of an onion.

So the outermost layer of the onion are the results that you want the outcome.

So let's say lose 40 pounds.

The next layer in is the action, the plan that you have, the actions that you take.

Most of the time when people want to make a change, they're like yeah yeah, I want this result, so I need to follow through on this plan.

I need to go to the gym four days a week and eat on this diet or whatever.

And the implicit assumption is if I do those things and get that result, then I'll be who I want to be.

I'll be happy with who I am.

I'll be more like the person that I hope to be.

But the innermost layer of the ending, the core, is who you are, your identity, who you become.

And so it's like what, how, and who.

And instead of starting with what you want and figuring out how to do it and assuming that I will then be the person I want to be, I think it is better to invert that process and start by saying who do I wish to become?

Or in this example, who is the type of person that could lose 40 pounds?

Well, maybe it's the type of person who doesn't miss workouts.

And then you're focused on that, not on the weight.

And so what it does is, by focusing on the identity, it kind of inverts how you think about the habit.

Rather than it being about hitting a certain number on the scale, it becomes about becoming a certain type of person, being the type of person who doesn't miss workouts, in this example.

Your habits are how you embody a particular identity.

So every day that you make your bed, you embody the identity of someone who's clean and organized.

If you study biology for 20 minutes on Tuesday night, you embody the identity of someone who is studious.

Your habits provide evidence of who you are.

This is the real reason, the deeper reason that habits matter.

We often talk about habits as mattering because of the external results that they get you.

Hey, habits will help you be more productive or make more money or reduce stress.

And like, look, habits can do all that stuff and that's great.

But the real reason, the true reason that habits matter, is that every action you take is like a vote for the type of person you wish to become.

So no, doing one push-up does not transform your body, but it does cast a vote, for I'm the type of person that doesn't miss workouts.

And no, giving one bit of positive feedback to somebody on your team does not make you the world's best leader, but it does cast a vote, for I'm the type of team member who cares about the people around them.

And I think this is a little bit different than what you often hear.

You often hear something like fake it till you make it.

And I don't necessarily have anything wrong with fake it till you make it.

It's asking you to believe something positive about yourself.

However, it's asking you to believe something positive without having evidence for it.

And we have a word for beliefs that don't have evidence called a delusion, right?

Like we have this mismatch between what you say you are and what you're actually doing.

And so my encouragement is to let the behavior lead the way to let sending one email, or writing one sentence, or meditating for five minutes, to let that small action be evidence that in that moment you were that kind of person.

And then, as you start to cast votes for that identity, you have every reason in the world to believe it.

And so I think this is what really gets habits to stick.

It is the reinforcement of your story.

It's the reinforcement of how you see yourself and the identity that you're trying to build.

And that's why I say I think we should often start by asking, not what do I wish to achieve, but who do I wish to become and how are my actions reinforcing that?

And if you can get those two things aligned now you have a really deep through line from your daily actions to this bigger, larger identity that you want to build.

And if you can connect the things that you do each day, those small choices, with the person that you want to be, in the long run, you can see how important they are, even when they're little.

I want to make sure that as you're listening or watching, you really got that question.

Who do I want to become?

If you start there and you start with... a vision for the kind of person you want to become.

And then we invert that onion that you were talking about.

So you know who you want to become.

Then you ask yourself, well, how do I become that kind of person?

And what do I need to do?

Now we have a roadmap that leads you to the small daily habits that cast the vote to get you there.

I think what we're ultimately trying to get to is a place where you take pride in being that kind of person.

Well, this brings us to one of my absolute favorite parts of Atomic Habits in your research.

This changed my entire mindset. and honestly changed the type of person I am.

And it's the difference between setting goals versus focusing on systems.

And so I want to read to you from this section titled Forget About Goals, Focus on Systems Instead.

And you're right, for many years, this was how I approached my habits.

Each one was a goal to be reached.

I set goals for the grades I wanted to get in school, for the weights I wanted to lift in the gym, for the profits I wanted to earn in business.

I succeeded at a few, but I failed at a lot of them.

The results had very little to do with the goals I set and nearly everything to do with the systems I followed.

What's the difference between systems and goals?

It's a distinction I first learned from Scott Adams, a cartoonist behind the Dilbert comic.

Goals are about the results you want to achieve.

Systems are about the processes that lead to those results.

And you write about this, just one example that made so much sense.

If you're a coach, your goal might be to win a championship, but your system is the way you recruit players, manage your assistant coaches and conduct practice.

And you pose this interesting question.

What if you completely ignored your goals and you focused on your system?

And I'd love to unpack this because I do think that this is where I got things wrong for so long.

I was very focused on defining goals and I spent little to no time really looking at the systems that create progress toward those goals.

Can you unpack this for us?

I was like that too.

I think of my nature is I'm naturally very goal-oriented and outcome-oriented.

We all want better results, right?

So I don't think goals are ever going to be like a zero in your life and you're never going to think about them.

It's just so natural to focus on them.

What I'm trying to encourage here is to focus on the other side of the equation, which is the daily habits that you are following.

If I was going to put a little finer point on the language there, what do I mean by goal and system?

Yes, your goal is your desired outcome, the target, the thing you're shooting for.

What is your system?

It's the collection of daily habits that you follow, And if there's ever a gap between your goal and your system, if there's ever a gap between your desired outcome and your daily habits, your daily habits will always win.

I mean almost by definition.

Your current habits are perfectly designed to deliver your current results.

Whatever habits you've been following for the last six months or year, or two years, it's carried you almost inevitably to the outcomes that you have right now.

So where I've kind of come down on this after thinking about it for a little while is I

Goals are good for clarity.

They're good for setting a sense of direction, get everybody rowing the boat in the same direction.

They can be good for filtering.

So if somebody comes to you with an opportunity and they say, hey, do you want to do this?

You can run it through your list of goals and say well, does this get me closer to what I want or not?

Maybe it makes it easier to say yes or no to that.

But the vast majority of your time should be spent focused on building a better system.

Goals are good for people who care about winning once.

Systems are best for people who care about winning repeatedly.

If you really want to make progress and make it again and again, if you want to get high performance and keep the performance high, you need some set of systems, some collection of daily habits to keep you up there.

The other interesting thing that I realized is that the winners and the losers often have the same goals.

You know, if you have a job opening and 100 people apply, presumably every candidate has the goal of getting the job.

The goal is not the thing that determines the outcome.

It's presentation skills in the interview, who they know at the company, education experience like all sorts of things right.

Or, you know, at the Olympics, presumably every athlete who's competing has the goal of winning the gold medal.

You know, the goal is not the thing that determines the outcome.

Again, it's Genetic ability, talent coaching strategy, how much sleep they got the night before, like all sorts of factors.

And so if the winners and the losers have the same goals, the goal cannot be the thing that makes the difference in their performance.

It has to be something else.

And that something else is the system.

It's their daily habits.

So you've talked a lot about this word systems.

I would love to have you just break down some for some of the habits that people tend to take on a lot.

What about for saving money?

What might be a system just to jog the person who's listening?

So here's an interesting one that one of my readers uses.

Saving money is an interesting, and there's an interesting category of habits which are things that you basically don't do.

And then you need to feel good about it.

Like saving money is basically when I don't spend is when I'm achieving this goal.

And, you know, it's like not playing video games or don't drink wine.

Like things like that are tricky to feel good about because you're just resisting doing something.

So I thought this was a clever solution.

I have this one reader.

He and his wife wanted to eat out less, spend less money eating out at restaurants and cook at home more.

But again, if you just well, we're not going to go out to eat tonight, that doesn't really feel great.

So what they came up with was they opened a separate savings account and they labeled it trip to Europe.

And then, anytime that they stayed home, they would move 20 or 50 bucks or whatever over that they were going to spend that night.

They move that over to the account.

And what they get in the moment is the feeling of oh, we're building toward this vacation that we want to go on.

And then at the end of the year, they took the money and put it toward the trip.

And so they found a way to take something that usually doesn't have much of a benefit and give it a positive association, a positive feeling, and so that was part of their system for saving money or for not eating out was well, first we're going to move the money over, and then we're going to choose what recipe recipe are we making tonight, and then we go into the kitchen and prep it whatever, and so it's just a simple couple steps, but it makes it a lot more enjoyable.

What about a system for eating healthier?

Eating healthier is interesting and it's a tricky one.

Um, I think it provides a good example of people will say something that they think is simple, but it's actually not that simple.

They think they're making it easy and simple, but they need to scale it down even more.

So let's say somebody says, all right, I'm just going to focus on one habit.

I'm just going to try to eat healthy.

Well, you know, what is involved in that, right?

Like if you're currently eating a lot of meals out or ordering a lot of meals.

Well, first you need to decide what you're going to make.

You need a grocery shopping habit.

So you got to get the stuff.

You need some meal prep habits.

Maybe you even need new skills.

Like do you need knife skills?

Or like learn how to do some stuff that maybe you didn't know how to do before?

After you make the meal, you have a bunch of dishes that need to be cleaned.

So now you need to develop like a cleaning habit of washing those.

So there's actually like six or seven things that are all separate habits.

So I would say you can try to scale this down and start easy on yourself.

And maybe you know for like, let's take doing the dishes, for example, maybe for the first week you just eat off of paper plates and no, it's not super sustainable.

It's not the thing that you want to do forever, but you're trying to take one element out of the equation, and So you make it easier for yourself to do it.

Another example that I thought was interesting.

I talked to one woman who she took this idea of we talked about earlier.

What would this look like if it was fun?

So she wanted to start eating healthier and bring her lunch into work each day.

But she realized that making a salad didn't sound that fun to her.

And so she came up with this phrase that she called a party in a bowl.

Yeah.

And so she would make a salad, but she would do like all kinds of wild things at the start.

Like she would chop up Snickers bars and throw them in, or she would like crumble potato chips on top, or whatever.

She just wanted it to feel like a party in a bowl.

And she did that for the first like two weeks or month.

And then, after a month of bringing her lunch in, she was like OK, now I'm actually making it every morning.

Then she was like, how can I make this healthier?

How can I improve the quality of this?

I love, by the way, the potato chips on the salad.

That sounds great.

That sounds fantastic.

What a great idea.

A little crunch.

Right.

A little salt.

Texture.

Yes.

Seems good.

But, you know, how do you make it fun?

How do you increase the odds that you master the art of showing up?

That's the first hurdle to clear.

Yeah, and what I also love is that you're identifying for us The fact that we trip over ourselves because we make the results that we want either too big or too vague, that we underestimate the complexity of the amount of change we're asking ourselves to make.

If you start with perfection as the bar, it becomes really hard to get started.

James, what you're sharing is so important.

I am so grateful that you're here.

And I know as you're listening, you are grateful that James is here.

I bet you're feeling that relief that, wow, the problem isn't you.

The problem is the systems.

And now you're starting to realize this and you're starting to feel empowered.

And here's what I want to do.

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So stay with me.

So, James...

How do you think, or what have some of your readers said, about the systems and habits related to cutting back on something like drinking or vaping or one of those things?

Yes.

Let's talk a little bit about breaking bad habits.

If you want to break a bad habit, there are three different things you could do.

So first thing is you could eliminate it entirely.

So cut it out cold turkey.

Second way to break a bad habit is you could reduce it.

So you don't necessarily stop it.

You just reduce it to your desired degree.

I would say a lot of people probably feel this way about their phones.

It's not that I never want to use my phone.

I just want to use it a little bit less or scroll a little bit less or whatever.

Yes.

And then the third category is you could replace it.

So you can eliminate, you can reduce, or you can replace.

Those are really your three options if you want to break a bad habit.

And if you replace it, then you're substituting a new habit in its place, hopefully one that's more healthy or more productive.

Let me kind of answer these in reverse order, right?

So habits, we talked a little bit early on about some ways to define a habit.

Here's another way to define it.

A habit is a solution to a recurring problem in your environment, right?

So it's a solution to a recurring problem that you face.

Let's say, for example, you come home from work and it's 530 and you're feeling exhausted and tired from a long day.

That is a recurring problem that is going to happen throughout the weeks and months that your brain has to figure out how to solve.

And for one person, maybe they solve it by scrolling on Instagram for 30 minutes.

For another person, the way they solve it is maybe they smoke a cigarette.

For a third person, maybe the way they solve it is they go for a run.

And you can see that some of these solutions are healthier than others, but they're all solving the same root problem, which is, I feel, stressed and exhausted and tired after a long day, and I want to find a way to reset and kind of change my energy.

And Early in your life I think particularly in your 20s you may have this realization where the solutions that you have to the problems that you face are kind of things that you inherited or you picked up from your parents.

What are the odds that the first way that you learn to solve this problem is the best way?

Mathematically speaking, it's very unlikely that the way that your current solutions to the problems that you face are the best solutions.

So let me just give you an example.

So if you grew up in a household where you saw mom or dad come home from a long day at work and they poured themselves a glass of wine as a way to unwind, turn off their brain, step into the evening, if you inherited that habit as the way you solve the problem of I've had a long day at work, I'm totally stressed.

I want a quick way to de-stress and the habit is pour a glass of wine or pour a drink.

That's an example of the type of thing you're talking about.

Yeah, and I think the first step is not to judge yourself for it or to feel guilty about it.

You don't need to feel bad about it.

It's almost like sometimes I try to look at my habits almost like I'm going to the zoo.

You know how you go and look at an animal and you're like oh, how interesting that they would do that.

Oh, isn't that silly that they behave in that way?

You kind of look at yourself with that lens.

You're like, oh, okay, interesting that I'm doing this.

And you just want to see things clearly.

And then, once you see how you're actually behaving well, then there are adjustments that you can make.

And I think at that point you realize all right, it's not my fault necessarily that I'm doing these things or that I learned this way to do it.

But now it is my responsibility to make the change.

The next level is you say, all right, I'm going to try to reduce the amount of time that I do this.

One way that I try to practice this.

So I have a home office and I have this little rule where I try to keep my phone in another room until lunch each day.

Usually it ends up being like 9 to 11, 9 to noon, something like that.

And I can't do it all the time, but I can do it maybe 70% of the time.

And whenever I do it, I think it's interesting because it's like the phone is just down the hallway.

It's only 30 seconds away, but I never go get it.

And so I'm like, did I want it or not?

On the one hand, I wanted it so bad that, when it was next to me, I would check it every three minutes.

And, on the other hand, I never wanted it badly enough that I would be willing to work 30 seconds and go down the hall and get it.

And a lot of your habits are like that.

They will curtail themselves to the desired degree if you just introduce a little bit of distance or a little bit of friction.

The more that you increase friction between you and the behavior, the more likely it is to reduce itself.

So there are a lot of environmental changes that could potentially work there.

So talk to us about the environment and the role that environment plays in terms of sticking to habits.

There's a chapter in Atomic Habits that's called The Secret to Self-Control.

And there's a story that many of us tell ourselves, which is oh, you know, if I was just more disciplined, if I just had more self-control, then I would be able to do these things.

But the big takeaway from the research in that chapter?

The surprising insight, is that When you look at people who exhibit high levels of self-control, the common pattern across them is not that they have higher discipline than the average person.

The common pattern is that they are in situations where they're attempted less frequently.

Tempted less frequently.

Fewer temptations is the single biggest driver of exhibiting high self-control.

And so the lesson is you don't need to try to be more disciplined.

You don't need to wish that you were a person with more willpower.

You need to take a little bit of time to design an environment where you're not tempted as frequently.

So that could mean simple things like not having chips in the house or not having cigarettes in the house or things like that.

It could mean more complicated things, like looking at your relationships and saying who are the people that have the behaviors that I want to have.

What are the common habits of my friend group or my peer group?

And that's not necessarily saying I never see these people again, but maybe I only see them in pockets or in certain situations.

And then other people I'm trying to expose myself to more and hang out with more.

And so those are all ways that you can start to think about where are the temptations in my life, or where do I need to go against the grain of the situation to have the habits that I want to have, and where am I working with the gradient of the situation?

And working with, because it's actually taking me in the direction of the kind of person I want to become.

And working against is you recognize you're in an environment that is taking you away from the kind of person you want to become.

Let's stay for a second on...

What are the systems or changes or ways that that you think about?

Being surrounded by people that are supporting who you want to become?

It's a huge driver of our habits.

There's a chapter in Atomic Habits about the influence of friends and family on our behaviors.

And I think, if I could write it again, I would even expand it, because it's even bigger than I think I realized.

So humans are very social creatures.

We all have a deep desire to bond and connect, to be part of something.

And if people have to choose between.

You know I have habits that I don't really love, but I fit in, I belong, I'm part of something, I'm supported.

Or I have the habits that I want to have, but I'm cast out, I'm ostracized, I'm criticized.

A lot of the time, the desire to belong will overpower the desire to improve.

And so as best as possible, you need to get those two things aligned.

And I think the way to do it is you want to join groups where your desired behavior is the normal behavior.

Because if your desired behavior is normal, as you make friendships and build relationships in that group, you're going to soak up so many big and little habits from the people that are part of that group.

We all belong to multiple groups or multiple tribes.

Some of them are large, like what it means to be American or what it means to be French.

Some of them are small, like what it means to be a neighbor on your street or a member of the local CrossFit gym or a volunteer at the elementary school.

But all of those groups, large and small, have a set of expectations for how you act.

You know, like take the neighbor on the street example.

If I walk outside and look at my neighbor's house and they're mowing the lawn, I might think oh, I need to cut the grass too.

And you might stick to that habit for five years or 10 years, however long you live in the house.

Like we wish we had that level of consistency with our other habits.

And why do you do it?

Partially you do it because it feels good to have a clean lawn, but mostly you do it because you don't want to be the sloppy one who's like ruining how the neighborhood looks.

So you want to join groups where your desired habits align with the expectations of the group, so that you don't have to run against that friction.

One of the best things that I ever did in my entrepreneurial career.

So I have no authors in my family, no entrepreneurs in my family.

But I looked around and I said who are some other people that are doing the thing that I want to do?

You know, they're like two or three years ahead of me.

This is like maybe 10 years ago.

And I started hosting these retreats where I would get other authors together. six or eight people.

And I say let's just split the cost of an Airbnb.

Get together for like two days and we'll talk about how to build an audience and how to write a book and how to launch a book.

So the point being, that requires a little bit of courage.

I reached out to people.

I was always worried that I was going to look like a dummy and be like you.

Want to go hang out for two days?

And everybody's like, no.

But everybody says yes because they're waiting for the same thing, which is people want like-minded people to get together.

They're waiting for somebody to gather people together.

So sometimes the spaces are ready for you.

Sometimes it requires a little bit of courage to create it, but the outcome is the same, which is you're trying to put yourself in a room with people who have your desired behaviors.

James, what are the four stages of building habits?

Well, all habits go through this kind of four-step loop.

I can draw it out.

Great.

So he's grabbing a quick whiteboard if you're listening.

So you have these four stages.

It's almost like a quadrant.

But you start, and the beginning of it is there's some kind of cue.

So I'll just put a C there for cue.

So you have the cue and that leads to a craving, which then drives a response, and then ultimately, you get a reward.

And so you kind of go around the loop like this.

Cue, craving, response, reward.

And it's true for little things like...

Let's say that you walk into a room, the room is dark and the cue is oh, the room's dark.

I want to be able to see.

The craving is, I want to be able to see.

The response is I flip the light switch and then the reward is oh, now the lights are on.

I can see.

But it's true for other stuff too.

Like the cue might be.

You're driving down the road and you hear an ambulance come up from behind you.

The siren is an auditory cue.

Or your phone buzzes in your pocket.

That's a physical cue that starts the habit of checking your phone.

Or you see a plate of cookies on the counter in the kitchen.

That's a visual cue that starts the habit of eating a cookie.

So you have the cue that leads to the craving.

You hear the siren from the ambulance.

Oh, now I need to pull to the side of the road.

Oh, and the craving is just the impulse to do something.

The desire, the desire to do something.

So cue, craving, response, reward.

And you know what's interesting is now.

I'm understanding, as you're explaining, a habit is that you're not even really thinking about those things.

They're just all kind of sandwiched together in that loop you just drew.

It can happen almost instantaneously, like all, inside of a whole second.

You know like it's, but it it's very rapid and it's um.

Once a habit is established, it's almost entirely non-conscious.

How does that connect to the four laws that you created around behavior change?

So we have this scientific backbone, these four stages, cue, craving, response, reward.

And we know that our behaviors are going through that cycle each day.

And what I care about is how do I operationalize that?

How do I translate this into something actionable for daily life and work?

And so that's why I came up with what I call the four laws of behavior change.

All right, well, let's go into the four laws.

So the first law is to make it obvious.

You want the cues of your habits to be obvious, available, visible, easy to see.

The easier it is for a habit to be noticed and for it to get your attention, the more likely you are to act on it.

The second law is to make it attractive.

So this comes back to that question we asked earlier about what would this look like if it was fun?

The more fun, the more engaging.

The more motivating or enticing a habit is, the more likely we are to fall through on it.

So make it attractive.

The third law is to make it easy.

The easier, more convenient, frictionless, simple a habit is, the more likely it is to be performed.

And the fourth and final law is to make it satisfying.

So the more satisfying or enjoyable a habit is, the more rewarding or pleasurable it is, the more likely you are to feel compelled to do it.

The first three laws make it obvious, make it attractive, make it easy.

Those three are about priming you to get started.

They're about making it easy to get into the habit this time.

The fourth law, make it satisfying, that like closes the feedback loop.

The behavior has already happened at that point, but the reward is important because it helps you feel good.

And that gets you to show up again the next time.

Make it obvious, make it attractive, make it easy, make it satisfying.

If you're trying to build a new habit, if you're sitting there and you're thinking, you know I have this habit that I want to do, but I keep procrastinating on it.

Let's take exercising since that's the number one thing people want to do.

I wish I could get to the gym, but I just haven't been doing that.

You can just go through these four laws and ask yourself, how can I make the habit more obvious?

How can I make it more attractive?

How can I make it easier?

How can I make it more satisfying?

And the answers to those four questions will reveal different steps that you can take.

They're naturally going to generate answers for things that you could do.

They're kind of like levers.

And when the levers are in the right positions, building habits is easier.

And when they're in the wrong positions, building habits is harder.

I want to see if this example maps to those four steps and it's related to making exercise stick.

So making it obvious.

One of the things that I did that made a difference is laying my clothes out the night before, so that when I wake up in the morning I see the clothes and that's the cue.

Yep.

Uh-oh, I said I would exercise today.

I make it attractive by saying I'm going to go somewhere outside my house, like to a yoga studio or something.

I think that's what you did earlier.

Didn't you say you didn't like working out on your own, but you do like a class?

Yes.

So it's choosing a version of that habit that is fun and attractive to you.

A class is more attractive.

The third one is I picked it the night before.

So now it's easy to know.

I don't have to stop and think.

I don't have to look at a schedule.

I don't have to fit it in because I made it easy because I picked it the night before.

And satisfying, there's a coffee shop next door that makes a great iced latte.

And I have it when I'm done.

That's your reward for when you get done.

Yes.

So, yeah, I think it definitely maps.

And you can imagine lots of versions of this.

I do think the obvious piece is often about knowing exactly when you're going to go, or setting your clothes out the night before, or having you know there's some kind of obvious element in your environment there.

The attractive piece is usually choosing a version of exercise that you're really excited about.

The easy piece, I think, can often be about scaling it down.

Oh, so make it 10 push-ups is Instead of the other one.

Exactly.

Rather than an hour, it can be for 10 minutes or whatever.

It's, you know, scaling down the scope of it.

And if you can do more, great.

Go ahead and do more.

But what you consider a success is the smaller version.

And then the reward in the beginning.

A lot of the time I think it looks like what you just described, which is it's the latte or it's the, you know, whatever the thing is.

I actually crave it as I'm driving to the yoga studio.

I'm not thinking about getting on the mat.

I'm like, oh, I get a latte after.

Sure, which is great.

In the long run sometimes it takes a decade or more it can become the reinforcement of the identity that you want to have.

So for me, I work out now because, yeah, I like the results everybody else wants, right?

You want to look good and stay fit and be able to move when you're 70 and all that stuff.

But I also do it because I like who I am when I'm doing it.

Steven Pressfield has this concept where he says, he's talking about writing.

But he says in the beginning, you start creating and you feel kind of like an imposter.

You sit down to write.

It's kind of hard.

It's difficult.

You don't really feel like you fit.

But a wolf has its territory.

And the way that it becomes its territory is by walking it, by showing up every day, by being there.

And it's not its territory the first day, but eventually, after it's been there for a while, it starts to feel like home.

And all of your habits are kind of like that too.

You know, the first day you go to the gym, you feel kind of stupid and foolish.

You're like are people you know looking at me?

Am i doing this the wrong way?

You feel out of place.

Go for six months or a year.

You start to get a little bit more comfortable.

Maybe it still doesn't feel like home yet.

Turn around two or three or five years later and you're like, this is just part of what I do.

This is my territory now.

And the only way you develop that level of comfort is by being willing to go through a little bit of discomfort early on.

You know, like sometimes I try to remind myself, am I willing to look foolish for five minutes?

Or am I willing to be uncomfortable for five minutes?

That's really all you're talking about.

So I've been working with a trainer recently.

He told me this story.

He was teaching a class in the morning and it was a bad weather day.

It was just rainy and really gross.

It was kind of cold and just gray.

It was just kind of nasty.

And he was supposed to have eight people in his class.

And he showed up and only two were there.

And...

We were talking about.

I think that's kind of interesting, you know, because the workout's indoors right.

The workout, once you get to the gym, the workout's the same as it always is.

It's no different as when it's sunny and the sky is blue.

It's so true.

But what you really notice there is is just how little bit of an edge you need to gain advantage or to have a different outcome than most people.

Six of those eight people didn't show up, not because of the workout.

The workout's the same as always.

It's because they didn't want to be uncomfortable for like five or 10 minutes getting ready, getting through the rain, getting in the car.

It was just kind of gross enough that it let them ignore it.

And so in a lot of ways... what this all boils down to is getting started.

It's being, are you willing to get started?

Are you willing to be uncomfortable for three minutes?

And if you can get over that hump, then the rest of it kind of cascades naturally.

You write about the two minute rule.

What is that?

It's a really easy way to force yourself to get started.

I hope that you find all the ideas interesting and useful that we talk about today.

But if you can only remember one thing, the two-minute rule is a good thing to remember.

And I say that because it can be applied to pretty much any habit.

So you take whatever habit you're trying to build and you scale it down to something that takes two minutes or less to do.

Meditation.

Yeah.

Meditate for 20 minutes becomes meditate for one minute.

Read 30 books a year becomes read one page.

Do yoga four days a week becomes take out my yoga mat.

And sometimes when I tell people this, they resist it a little bit.

They're like, okay, buddy, you know, I know the real goal isn't just to take my yoga mat out.

I know I'm actually trying to do the workout, you know?

So you're like, okay, if I know it's a trick and why would I fall for it basically?

But There's this great quote from Ed Latimer where he says the heaviest weight at the gym is the front door.

And man, there are a lot of things in life that are like that.

The hardest action is the first movement.

The most difficult step is the first one.

And when you're in the work, once you've already started, it's often easier to keep going.

It's starting the work that is the hard part.

All the friction is at the beginning.

There's this concept in physics, coefficient of friction.

The friction is highest when you're not moving.

It's once you're moving that things start to go a little bit easier.

Momentum works in both ways.

You know, like...

If you sit on the couch and you ruminate on, you know how things aren't going well in your life.

You feel kind of lethargic, like that's easy to be low energy and for things to not go well.

Right then.

But you start moving a little bit, even it's just stretch on the floor for five minutes.

Now you start to move forward and things go, you know, go a little bit faster.

You know, speaking of friction, there's a concept that is floating around called habit stacking.

What is that?

Habit stacking, I think habit stacking is a great approach for building habits.

It's a concept that comes from B.J.

Fogg.

He's a professor at Stanford.

And he had a great insight, which is habits tend to be easier to build or stick to if they're tied to a behavior that you're already doing.

So we all have habits that we already do, okay?

Like maybe you already make a cup of coffee every morning.

Yep.

And your new habit that you want to build is you want to start meditating.

So you can stack that new habit on top of the old one.

So your habit stack could be something like after I make my morning cup of coffee.

I will meditate for 60 seconds.

And then you can start to chain this together.

You could create multiples.

So you could say, after I make my cup of coffee, I will meditate for 60 seconds.

After I meditate for 60 seconds, I will write my to-do list for the day.

After I write my to-do list for the day, I will prioritize them and start working on the first one, or whatever.

And now you've got a little stack, A little package of behaviors that happens the same way every time and you do it each morning.

And from talking with a lot of readers.

People like to use these at certain moments throughout their day.

People like habit stacks in the morning.

I have a lot of readers who they'll come up with one for what they do when they get into the office.

They'll be like.

I go into the office, I hang up my jacket, I set my purse on the desk, I take my water bottle and I fill it up, and then I sit down and I answer the first email.

And I always do it in the same order and that helps me get into the day and I just know exactly what I'm going to do when I get there.

Sometimes you'll see people have one like a power down routine at the end of the day to kind of help them wrap the day up and get ready for bed and whatever.

So you can use it anywhere.

I have some readers who have come up with very creative ones.

I had one guy who was such a bro and really liked going to the gym And he was not managing his finances well.

And so his new habit stack was whenever I drink a protein shake, I will check my finances.

And it just happened frequently enough that it would force him to check in on his budget and stay more on top of it.

So you can do strange ones like that.

You have to be willing to experiment.

Atomic Habits, I've tried to lay everything out that I can.

I don't know whether I reached or not, but my objective when I was writing was I want to write the single best book that's ever been written about habits.

But even so, even if in some magical world I achieve that outcome, you as an individual still have to be willing to experiment.

Because what matters is, does it work for your life?

And so maybe you need to rearrange the habit stack.

Maybe you need to change when you're inserting things.

For one person, putting the meditating right after a cup of coffee makes a lot of sense.

If you have three toddlers and you're trying to get pants on your four-year-old, that's not a good time to meditate.

So you need to find the right time of day to insert your habits and behaviors.

And that requires a little bit of experimentation.

So for somebody who has a goal that's really big whether it's I want to write a novel, I want to start a business, I want to take on a big project, and they're clear about that what would you recommend is the one habit to build first, since that's such a big thing goal out there?

Interestingly, I would say there's probably two things to focus on first.

The first is you probably need a habit of reflection and review.

What does that mean?

Well, What are the odds that, if you keep your head down and you work really hard, that you're going to be working on the highest and best thing?

It's just so unlikely that, out of all the things that you could be doing, that you're working on the best thing right now.

And so it's this interesting tension because, on the one hand, having a great work ethic and working hard is really valuable in life.

And it does pay off in some sense, like you can't get results without working on things.

But It can also become a crutch where, if you like for myself, a lot of the time I know for many years, like if I had a problem, my solution was I'll just work my way out of it.

And that works for a little while, but at some point it breaks.

You know like you break yourself down and then also you can only work so much.

Like maybe if you really grinded you could work 10 harder than you are right now, but you can't work a hundred percent harder or like a hundred X harder.

Yeah.

It's not possible.

Yeah.

Um, but you could work on something else that gets you a hundred, X the result if you're working on the right thing.

Um and so for any project, you know.

This hypothetical question that you asked is what if I have this big goal?

I have a business I want to launch.

I have, you know, an initiative I want to start.

I have, you know, whatever.

Um, There's gonna be many ways to do it.

And you need to have at least some time to sit and think each week and come back to saying are we doing this the right way?

I think if you have two things in life, if you have a bias toward action and you really move fast And you continually revisit this question of what are we really trying to do here,

And is this the best way to do it?

If you can do those two things and you just keep doing them on repeat, you can really get a lot done in life.

But you need both.

And so that's the second thing I was going to mention is this bias toward actions, getting started.

It's finding some small way to move now.

My little saying that I try to remind myself of is don't rush, but don't wait.

I find that if I am in the mix, if I'm taking action, if I'm working on things, then that's great.

I need to be patient.

I need to let the results accumulate.

But if I'm not actually taking action, I'm not being patient.

I'm just waiting.

And nothing's going to happen in that case.

So both thinking big picture, what are we really trying to do here?

And is this the best way to accomplish it?

And then having a bias toward action and moving fast.

Those two things work really well together.

Amazing advice.

You know, one of the things you said at the very beginning is that the secret to winning is knowing how to lose.

What do you do and how do you pick yourself back up if you've had a little bit of a good streak and then you don't go to the gym or you don't write, or you start to drink again?

How do you start the engine up again and what's the mistake you see people making?

So I try to keep this little mantra in mind, which is never miss twice.

And so, you know, maybe I show up and I, you know, do the right thing.

I've been writing for six days in a row.

And then the seventh day I miss, well, you know, I wish I hadn't missed, but that's okay.

Let me pour all my energy into getting back on track the next day.

And what you realize is that at the end of the year those mistakes are just like a little blip on the radar.

But that's only true if you never miss twice.

It's only true if you get back on track quickly.

And I think you see this in many domains right, which is, the top performers have this interesting quality.

They're all human.

They all make mistakes like everybody else.

But the thing that they share is they tend to get back on track quickly.

And if the reclaiming of a habit is fast, the breaking of it doesn't matter that much.

But it's all about getting back on track that matters.

So again, it's this concept of bouncing back from a loss that is really critical.

James Clear, what are your parting words?

No matter what the habit is that you're trying to build, it's easy to talk yourself out of it because you know that the results aren't going to be good right away.

But like your favorite athlete's first workout was just as bad as yours.

You know, your favorite chef's first meal was just as bad as yours.

Your favorite writer's first sentence was just as bad as yours.

You need to keep going.

You need to do the early low stakes stuff to prepare for the high stakes stuff, to build the capacity and the ability to do the other things.

And so don't overlook the small moments that you have each day.

Every day has an opportunity built into it.

Whatever age you are right now, your future self would love to be it.

When you're 70.

You would give anything to go back and be 60 again and have the opportunity of those next 10 years.

And you should use that as best as you can.

And whether that's a small moment, like a little dance recital or some stupid little speech that you're going to give to your friends, or whatever it is, try to do it well.

Whatever thing that you have in front of you, try to do it well.

If you do it well, if you take advantage of the moment that you have, you earn the right to do more things.

You proved to yourself that you have high standards and that you take advantage of the opportunities that are in front of you.

And you put yourself in a better position to gain more opportunities.

We all have varying degrees of luck or circumstances or misfortune or whatever that come to us in life.

A lot of things that we ask for and a lot of things that we don't ask for.

But all you can do is try to use the moments that you have to the best of your ability.

And the better you do that, the better position you are to not only build good habits but have a good life.

And James Clear, I don't even have words.

I am so proud of you.

I am so grateful for the work that you do.

Thank you so much, Mel.

I appreciate it.

It's great to have you as a fan and as a supporter of the work.

And yeah, I hope the audience loves it too.

I'm sure they will.

And I also want to thank you for finding time and making time to listen to this episode in particular and to share it with people that you care about.

The amount of takeaways, the amount of just advice and tools that James just gave you.

I want you to ask that question.

Who do I want to become?

And then I want you to follow every single thing he told you because it will work.

I'm going to keep listening to this.

I'm going to share this with all three of my adult kids and our entire team.

This is one of the best episodes we've ever done.

So I'm absolutely thrilled that you're here.

And in case no one else tells you, I wanted to be sure to tell you, as your friend, that I love you and I believe in you and I believe in your ability to create a better life.

Because James Clear just gave you the roadmap for how you do it.

So go do it.

And I'll be waiting to welcome you in to the very next episode the moment you hit play.

I'll see you there.

We've noticed it's been a little dry in the studio.

So if you just keep throwing back the water.

Yeah.

You guys are going to clean everything up.

Of course.

Make me look as beautiful as possible.

We will.

As smart, as impactful, as fucking funny.

Like a completely different person.

Shut up.

That is not true.

Of course, now comes the protein.

I'm sorry, guys.

James fucking clear.

That was funny.

We're doing a photo shoot.

Can I run to the bathroom?

Is that okay?

James fucking clear.

Dropped the bomb.

Great.

All right, we're done.

Oh, and one more thing.

And no, this is not a blooper.

This is the legal language.

You know what the lawyers write and what I need to read to you.

This podcast is presented solely for educational and entertainment purposes.

I'm just your friend.

I am not a licensed therapist.

And this podcast is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist or other qualified professional.

Got it?

Good.

I'll see you in the next episode.

[Atomic Habits: How to Build Systems for Lasting Change]-[How to Become 37.78 Times Better at Anything: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Habits]

📋 Summary

The Systems Approach to Personal Transformation

The Philosophy of 1% Better

Goals vs. Systems: A Critical Distinction

The Four Laws of Behavior Change

Identity-Based Habits

Resilience and the "Never Miss Twice" Rule

Environment and Social Influence

Conclusion: The Bias for Action

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[Atomic Habits: How to Build Systems for Lasting Change]-[How to Become 37.78 Times Better at Anything: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Habits]

📋 Summary

The Systems Approach to Personal Transformation

The Philosophy of 1% Better

Goals vs. Systems: A Critical Distinction

The Four Laws of Behavior Change

Identity-Based Habits

Resilience and the "Never Miss Twice" Rule

Environment and Social Influence

Conclusion: The Bias for Action

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