Welcome to English as a Second Language podcast number 225, Feeling Homesick.
This is English as a Second Language podcast episode 225.
I'm your host, Dr Jeff McQuillan, coming to you from the Center for Educational Development in beautiful Los Angeles, California.
Remember to visit our website at eslpod.com and download the learning guide for this podcast.
Today's podcast is called Feeling Homesick.
Let's get started.
Why the long face?
I don't know.
I guess I'm feeling a little homesick.
I thought you got over that.
I know the adjustment was hard when you first got here, but I thought you were coping pretty well.
I was.
It's just that the holidays are coming up and I won't be able to go home because I can't afford the airfare.
I'm just longing for some of the comforts of home, like my mom's cooking and being around my family.
Yeah, it can get pretty lonely over the holidays.
When I first got here, I'd get depressed and nostalgic for anything that reminded me of home.
But, you know, I think I was just seeing things through rose-colored glasses.
What do you mean?
Well, things back home weren't really that idyllic, but from this distance all I could think of was the good stuff and none of the bad.
I see what you mean, but I'm still bummed out.
I have an idea.
Why don't we put on our own little holiday celebrations?
We can have it at my place and we can invite all of our friends who are on their own this time of year.
We'll each do something that'll remind us of home.
What do you say?
Misery loves company, as they say.
You know, I could really go for that.
You don't mind all the trouble?
What trouble?
As long as I don't have to cook, I'm up for it.
Cool.
I'll ask around to see who else wants to come.
Okay.
I'll do the same.
Thanks.
I'm feeling better already.
This episode is called Feeling Homesick.
H-O-M-E-S-I-C-K.
One word.
To feel or to be homesick means to miss your place where you normally live.
If you move to another place or you are traveling, You may still want to go back to your old house and your old friends and your family.
This is to be homesick when someone misses their home, either because they have moved or because they are taking a vacation or a trip somewhere.
Annie says to Luis, Why the long face?
This is short for, why do you have a long face?
When we say someone has a long, L-O-N-G, face, we mean that they're sad, that they're not happy.
Louise says, I don't know, I guess I'm feeling a little homesick.
Annie says I thought you got over that, meaning I thought that this was no longer a problem for you.
So she's saying, I thought that...
Although you had a difficult adjustment, it took you some time to get used to this new place, that you were over that, that you no longer had a problem with that.
She says, To cope, C-O-P-E, means to manage or to deal with a difficult situation.
I can't cope.
That would be something you would say when you feel as though the situation is too difficult.
When my 24 nieces and nephews come and visit me, I can't cope.
There's too much noise, too many of them.
Yes, I actually do have 24 nieces and nephews.
Annie says that Luis is not coping very well.
Louis says that he was coping well.
It's just that the holidays are coming up, and I won't be able to go home, he says.
It's just.
That means the only reason that he is feeling this way is because the holidays Christmas or Hanukkah or some other holiday is coming up and he won't be able to go home.
When we say something is coming up, We mean it is coming close in time.
If today is Monday, Wednesday is coming up, It's close in time.
Louis says that he cannot afford the airfare, meaning he doesn't have money for the airfare.
To afford, A-F-F-O-R-D, means to have enough money to do something.
Louis says that he's longing for some of the comforts of home.
To long for something, as a verb, means to want something very badly, to strongly want something.
The comforts of home is an expression that refers to the things that you like, that are in your house or that are in your home.
In general comforts, usually plural, means the good things in life, the things that make your life pleasant.
Annie says that, yes, it can be pretty lonely over the holidays.
Lonely means L-O-N-E-L-Y means to not be with other people, to be sad because you are by yourself.
You do not have other friends or family near you.
Notice that she uses the expression over the holidays.
We use that to mean during the time of the holidays.
Annie says that when she first got to the city where they live, she would get depressed and nostalgic for anything that reminded her of home.
To be depressed means to be very sad.
Sometimes you don't even know why you're sad.
Sometimes you do.
If you come home and there's no food in your refrigerator and you're hungry, you could get very sad, very depressed.
This happens to me almost every day.
To be nostalgic N-O-S-T-A-L-G-I-C means to think about something in the past and to be a little sad remembering someone or some place in the past.
That is part of a happy memory.
So it was happy back then and you're thinking back on that particular time or place or person and you feel a little sad because you miss that person.
You would like to have those happy times again.
Annie goes on to say that she thinks she was just seeing things through rose-colored glasses.
To see something through rose R-O-S-E hyphen colored glasses means to think something is better or to see something as being better than it really is.
So you're being too optimistic.
You're thinking things are better, but the reality is in real life.
They're not as good as you think they are.
Louise asks Annie what she means and she says that things back home, meaning in the place where she grew up, where her family is, things were not really that idyllic.
I-D-Y-L-L-I-C.
To be idyllic means to be perfect, without any problems.
To be peaceful, that would be idyllic.
A vacation in Hawaii on the beach.
For me, that it would be idyllic.
The perfect thing.
In fact, I think I need a vacation.
Don't you?
Let's all meet in Honolulu, Hawaii over the holidays.
I'll see you there.
Luis says, I see what you mean, meaning I understand you, but I'm still bummed out.
To be bummed B-U-M-M-E-D or to be bummed out either one is possible means to be disappointed, to be depressed, to be sad.
Someone could say, I'm really bummed about...
I'm really sad about what happened.
Annie then has an idea.
She suggests that they have their own holiday celebration.
They can all go over to her house, she and her friends, and Luis and anyone else who is on their own this time of year.
To be on your own means to be alone or by yourself.
She says, This is an old expression.
Misery, M-I-S-E-R-Y. means something that is sad, something that causes you to be sad.
So misery loves company.
Here, company means other people.
It doesn't mean a business.
The word company can also mean other people.
You may say, I can't talk to you right now on the phone.
I have company. meaning I have people visiting me, other people who are here.
So misery loves company means that people who are sad, like other people who are sad, want to be with them.
Louise says that he could really go for Annie's idea, meaning he really likes it.
She says that it would not be a lot of trouble, Because she is up for it.
To be up for something means to be willing to do something.
Someone may say to you hey, let's go to Honolulu with Jeff McQuillan and everyone who listens to the ESL podcast for the holidays.
And you say, sure, I'm up for it.
Meaning, yes, I am willing to do that.
Well, back to the real world here.
Luis and Annie say that they're going to get together.
And that's the happy end to our story.
Now let's listen to the dialogue again, this time read at a normal speed.
I don't know.
I guess I'm feeling a little homesick.
I was.
It's just that the holidays are coming up and I won't be able to go home because I can't afford the airfare.
I'm just longing for some of the comforts of home like my mom's cooking and being around my family.
Yeah, I can get pretty lonely over the holidays.
When I first got here, I get depressed and nostalgic for anything that reminded me of home.
But you know, I think I was just seeing things through rose-colored glasses.
What do you mean?
Well, things back home weren't really that idyllic, but from this distance all I could think of was the good stuff and none of the bad.
I see what you mean, but I'm still bummed out.
I have an idea.
Why don't we put on our own little holiday celebration?
We can have it at my place and we can invite all of our friends who are on their own this time of year.
We'll each do something that'll remind us of home.
What do you say?
Misery loves company, as they say.
You know, I could really go for that.
You don't mind all the trouble?
What trouble?
As long as I don't have to cook, I'm up for it.
Cool.
I'll ask around to see who else wants to come.
Okay, I'll do the same.
Thanks.
I'm feeling better already.
The script for today's podcast was by Dr. Lucy Say.
And, of course, I'll ask Dr. Say if she wants to come with us all to Hawaii.
Remember to visit our website at eslpodcom and, of course, to return again and listen to us here on ESL Podcast.
From Los Angeles, California, I'm Jeff McQuillan.
We'll see you next time on ESL Podcast.
English as a Second Language Podcast is written and produced by Dr Lucy Say, hosted by Dr Jeff McQuillan.
This podcast is copyright 2006.
