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[How to Express Your True Feelings in English Like a Native Speaker]-[How to Truly Express Your Feelings like a Native English Speaker]

Go Natural English Podcast | Listening & Speaking Lessons · B1 · 2022-06-20

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📋 Summary

Expressing Emotions Authentically in English

Many language learners find that speaking a foreign language can feel restrictive, often leading to robotic or textbook-like responses such as "I'm fine, thank you." To move beyond this and express your true feelings from the "bottom of your soul," it is essential to move away from simplistic vocabulary and embrace more nuanced, native-like expressions. As suggested in the podcast, the key is to "start thinking in English" to facilitate effortless expression.

Simple Sentence Structures

Expressing your emotions does not require complex grammar. You can effectively communicate your state of mind using basic structures:

  • State of being: "I am + [adjective]" or "I feel + [adjective]."
  • Progression: "I'm a little + [adjective]" or "I've been feeling..."
  • Causality: To explain the source of an emotion, use "I get [adjective] when..." or "[Person/Situation] makes me feel [adjective]."

Expanding Your Emotional Vocabulary

To sound more like a native speaker, you should replace basic adjectives with more descriptive synonyms that reflect the intensity of your feelings.

Happiness

Instead of "happy," consider the context. If you are mildly content, you might say "I'm glad." If you are experiencing intense joy, use words like "ecstatic," "elated," "overjoyed," or "thrilled." For example, being "elated" about a new life event conveys a much deeper level of satisfaction than saying "I'm very happy."

Sadness

Sadness also varies in intensity. If you are deeply sorrowful, you might describe yourself as "miserable" or "depressed." If you are only slightly sad, you are just "down." If you are disappointed by a specific event, like missing a concert, you might feel "bummed out." Interestingly, the word "upset" is versatile, as it can be used to describe someone who is either very sad or very angry.

Anger

While "annoyed" suggests minor irritation, extreme anger can be described as being "enraged," "furious," "outraged," "indignant," or "infuriated." These terms carry a much stronger emotional weight than simply saying you are "very angry."

Fatigue

To express being tired, you can use "sleepy" or "drowsy" for mild fatigue. However, if you are exhausted from repetitive tasks or long work hours, native speakers often use "overworked," "burned out," "drained," or "worn out."

Native Idioms and Expressions

Incorporating idioms into your speech makes your English sound more natural and vivid. The podcast highlights several common phrases:

  • "On cloud nine": Used to describe an state of extreme happiness, often in a romantic context.
  • "I can't complain": A common, neutral way to respond to "How are you?" when things are going well enough.
  • "Riled up": Used when someone becomes suddenly angry or upset, often due to external news or events.
  • "Foaming at the mouth": A metaphorical way to describe someone who is so furious that they are shouting or acting uncontrollably.
  • "Bored to death": An idiomatic way to emphasize extreme boredom.
  • "Pooped": A colloquial term meaning physically or mentally exhausted.

By practicing these structures and vocabulary sets, you can stop feeling like a robot and start communicating your genuine emotions with confidence and fluency.

🎯Key Sentences

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I was a little anxious, but now I feel ecstatic.
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It doesn't have to be so complicated.
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It's just I am, I feel.
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It doesn't have to be that complicated.
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I am really upset.
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📝Key Phrases

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from the bottom of my soul
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sound native-like
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make a switch in your brain
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bummed out
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bored to death
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📖 Transcript

Hey there! It's me, Gabby, your American English coach from gonaturalenglish .com.
Why is it that when you're speaking a foreign language, it feels more difficult to express your true feelings?
Like, you can say, I'm fine, I'm okay, but it just doesn't feel the same as the way you can express yourself in your native language.
And that's what we're here to talk about today, to learn how to communicate and express your true feelings from the bottom of your soul.
So, no longer will you simply say, I'm fine, thank you, and you.
Oh, it's so boring!

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