In episode 459 of the Everybody ESL podcast, host Ben explores a common linguistic dilemma faced by learners and native speakers alike: the usage of the word "different" in comparison. While many might assume that the words following "different" imply distinct meanings, Ben clarifies that these phrases are functionally interchangeable, despite carrying different regional and grammatical connotations.
Ben highlights three primary constructions that English speakers use when comparing two objects or ideas:
Despite these three distinct prepositions, Ben emphasizes that they all "mean exactly the same thing." There is no semantic difference between saying "this is different from that" and "this is different to that"; the variation lies entirely in regional preference and stylistic convention.
One of the most interesting points of discussion is why many American English speakers naturally gravitate toward the phrase "different than," even though traditionalists might flag it as less standard. Ben proposes a compelling theory based on the structure of the word itself.
He notes that English speakers frequently utilize "comparative adjectives"—words that describe a greater degree of something—which typically end in "-er." Examples include "bigger," "shorter," or "older." When using these adjectives, the standard grammatical structure is to follow them with the word "than" (e.g., "a horse is bigger than a goat" or "my father is older than my mother").
Ben argues that because the word "different" ends in "-er," speakers subconsciously categorize it as a comparative adjective. Consequently, they apply the same rule they use for "bigger than" or "older than" to "different," resulting in the usage of "different than." He explains, "I think because it has that ER in it... they use it as though it is a comparative adjective."
While Ben admits that "different than" still sounds "a little bit strange" to his own ears, he emphasizes the importance of recognizing all three forms. For language learners, the goal is not necessarily to pick one and declare it the only correct option, but to be able to identify these constructions when they appear in natural speech.
Ultimately, whether a speaker chooses "different from," "different than," or "different to," the underlying message remains identical. Understanding these subtle variations is a key part of mastering the fluidity of English, allowing learners to navigate different dialects and speech patterns with greater confidence. As Ben concludes, being aware of these linguistic details helps learners better interpret the diverse ways in which English is spoken across the globe.