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[The Wisdom of Patience: Lessons from 'The Skylark']-[Encore: 'The Skylark']

Circle Round · B1 · 2019-05-14

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The Wisdom of Patience: Lessons from 'The Skylark'

In the latest encore presentation of the Circle Round podcast, host Rebecca Shear shares a poignant folktale from Portugal titled "The Skylark." The story serves as a gentle meditation on the power of patience, the importance of perspective, and the universal instincts of motherhood. Through the experiences of a young landscaper named Daniel and his aunt, Cora, the narrative illustrates how sometimes the most effective way to solve a problem is to step back and allow nature to take its course.

The Conflict: A Landscape Frustration

When Cora decides to transform a field behind her new home into a vegetable garden, she enlists the help of her nephew, Daniel, a dedicated and hardworking business owner. However, the project hits an immediate, inexplicable roadblock. Daniel’s workers report being unable to clear the land, claiming they were "attacked" by a "fierce" and "savage" skylark.

Initially, Daniel is dismissive and frustrated. He views the bird as an obstacle to be overcome through sheer force and increased manpower, stating, "you don't solve problems by avoiding them." His approach is rooted in the urgency of his professional life, where efficiency is paramount and delays are seen as failures.

The Mother’s Perspective

In stark contrast to Daniel’s agitation, Cora maintains a calm, intuitive composure. Having raised her own children, she recognizes that the bird’s aggression is not malice, but protection. She notes, "a creature willing to fight so hard to keep others away must be protecting something."

Cora’s wisdom is demonstrated through her refusal to engage in the conflict. While Daniel is busy trying to send more men to the field, Cora is busy nurturing her own family, taking calls from her children and prioritizing their well-being. She understands that the "skylark" is merely a mother acting on instinct, and she trusts that "things will sort themselves out" once the threat to the bird's family has passed.

The Resolution: Lessons in Parenting and Patience

Ultimately, the situation resolves itself without any intervention. One morning, while enjoying breakfast on the porch, Cora and Daniel witness the skylark flying away, accompanied by her three baby birds. The "problem" vanishes because the natural cycle of life—the chicks growing old enough to "spread their wings and fly"—has reached its conclusion.

This outcome serves as a profound realization for Daniel. He acknowledges that while he may be an expert in the "landscaping business," his aunt possesses superior insight into the "parenting business." The story concludes by encouraging listeners to reflect on their own lives, asking them to consider times they have had to wait for circumstances to improve rather than forcing a resolution.

Conclusion

"The Skylark" is more than just a folktale; it is a reminder that not all problems require an active solution. Sometimes, progress is made not by moving forward at full speed, but by standing still, practicing empathy, and allowing the necessary time for growth and safety. As Cora wisely observes, some things simply need to be left alone for a little while to ensure that both the garden and the creatures within it can flourish.

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I hope you enjoy it too.
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I'm happy to help.
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Obviously he has no idea what he's doing.
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I really don't think it's his fault.
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Something tells me things will sort themselves out.
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📝Key Phrases

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near and dear to my heart
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try as you might
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take someone aback
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sort themselves out
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as you wish
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📖 Transcript

Hi, Rebecca Shear here. Before we get to our story, exciting news.
Circle Round is going back on tour. with live recordings across the united states our first stop Sunday, October 5th in Parker, Colorado at the Pace Center.
And Circle Round Club members are invited to a special post-show meet and greet with me and composer Eric Shimalonis.
Get your tickets at wbur.org slash circle around and click on events.
We're announcing more tour stops soon, so stay tuned.
We look forward to circling around with you live.

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