Understanding the Idiom: 'Full of Himself'

In this episode of Easy English Expressions, Coach Shane breaks down the idiom "full of himself" (or herself/themselves). This expression is used to describe someone who possesses an inflated sense of self-importance. As Shane explains, when a person is "full of himself," they truly believe they are "really, really excellent" or "perfect." In more colloquial terms, such an individual acts as if they are "a gift from God to everybody."

The Bono Example: When Talent Meets Arrogance

Shane illustrates this concept by discussing the band U2 and their lead singer, Bono. While acknowledging that U2 produced "fantastic" music in the 80s, such as the album Joshua Tree, Shane expresses his growing disillusionment with the frontman. The core of his frustration stems from the idea that as Bono became more famous, he began to voice his political opinions incessantly.

Shane argues that Bono should "stick to music" rather than acting as a political authority. By constantly telling people what to believe and how to act, Bono crossed the line from being a talented musician to appearing as someone who is "too full of himself." This behavior led Shane to stop listening to the band’s music, noting that "the more you talk about politics, the less I like you." This serves as a cautionary tale: sometimes, it is best not to learn too much about your favorite public figures, as their personal attitudes might lead to disappointment.

The Pitfalls of Self-Importance

This behavior is not limited to musicians; it can apply to actors, actresses, or even sports teams. Shane points out that even highly professional and talented teams can become "full of themselves" when they believe they are perfect. There is a certain irony in human nature where, when such an arrogant person or team finally loses, observers often find it satisfying. Shane poses the rhetorical question, "Who are you?" to highlight the arrogance of public figures who assume their status grants them the right to dictate the beliefs of others.

A Moment of Self-Reflection and the Virtue of Humility

Interestingly, Coach Shane concludes the episode with a moment of introspection. He admits that he is "also guilty" of this behavior. As an English teacher, he acknowledges that his own political opinions occasionally slip into his lessons, which he recognizes is "not fair." He admits that when he talks too much about politics, he sounds "full of himself"—as if he knows everything.

Shane emphasizes that he is "nobody" and just like his students. His concluding advice is a call for self-awareness and the practice of being "humble." He stresses that "nothing is better than being humble," reminding listeners that while everyone may fall into the trap of being "full of themselves" occasionally, the goal is to remain grounded and keep learning.

In summary, the expression serves as a reminder to balance one's expertise with modesty, ensuring that we do not let our achievements or opinions blind us to our own humanity.