The word of the day is 'affable', an adjective spelled A-F-F-A-B-L-E. At its core, the term describes someone who is 'friendly and easy to talk to'. Beyond just characterizing individuals, the word can also be applied to a person's 'personality' when that personality is fundamentally 'characterized by ease and friendliness'. To illustrate its practical application, the podcast references Michael Shaik's The Last Sweet Bite, describing chef Ray Naranjo as a 'big, affable man with a wide, warm smile'. This usage highlights the word's primary function in identifying warmth and approachability in social interactions.
While the definition remains consistent, the usage of 'affable' has undergone a significant shift over the centuries. Merriam-Webster points out that historically, specifically between the '16th through the 19th centuries', it was 'not uncommon to see the word describing women'. However, contemporary usage patterns suggest this has changed substantially.
In a statistical survey conducted by the dictionary team over a '12-month period' across a single newspaper, the word appeared in '102 articles'. The breakdown of these instances is telling: in 'four occurrences it described women', whereas in '85 occurrences it described men'. This data suggests a modern linguistic drift where the term has become heavily skewed toward describing male subjects in written media.
Despite the clear statistical bias toward men, the podcast emphasizes that the word's utility is not restricted to human personality. The survey revealed that 'affable' was also employed to describe a diverse range of subjects, including a 'conga line', an 'e-mail', 'musical compositions by Robert Ward', 'cats in general', and even 'one male dog'.
These findings serve as a broader lesson on the nature of language. The speaker, Peter Sokolowski, encourages listeners to 'feel free to apply it in whatever way seems suitable', regardless of these observed trends. The takeaway is that the 'currents of our language are deep and occasionally mysterious', often steering our word choices in ways we do not immediately perceive. Ultimately, 'affable' remains a versatile tool for describing anything that radiates ease and friendliness, provided the speaker feels the descriptor fits the context.