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Are you slammed with work?
How to talk about it.
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Hey, Michelle, how's it going?
Hey, good, Lindsay.
Lindsay, how was this past winter for you?
Oh my gosh, are you kidding me?
It's been easy.
It's been summer.
It's been a California winter over here.
Nothing like what you've been dealing with.
Yeah, for some reason, we never got any snow.
We never got any cold weather.
I mean, right now, this is coming out in the summer.
So we're talking about this way in the past tense, but we had an easy winter over here in Colorado, but you over there on the East Coast got slammed, right?
We got slammed with snow this year.
It was crazy.
And then one of the snowstorms, there was a lot of snow, but the good thing was it was getting slightly warmer.
So the snow melted fairly quickly.
But one of the other ones, it was so hot.
Cold that it just wasn't melting and it was just i mean for like a couple weeks it was just like still just ice oh yeah yeah it was crazy so we got slammed for sure you got slammed yeah yeah
But today we're going to share three verbs that you can use to talk about things that impacted you in a big way.
And they can be sometimes sudden.
Okay.
So this is going to be a really interesting one.
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All right.
Love it.
So let's go through it.
So slammed, right?
That's the one we already use.
So Lindsay, what does it mean to be slammed?
Yeah, I like saying this.
It means something hits you in a forceful, hard way and it's kind of diverse the situations we could use here.
At the top of the show, we talked about a blizzard, a snowstorm.
Maybe a hurricane comes through and you get slammed by a hurricane.
It reminds me of where my parents' beach house is.
We sold it, but they live on the harbor south of Boston.
And it's this little cove which is super exposed to the open ocean.
And so every time there's a storm in New England...
That's where the reporter goes and they stand at the very end of the lighthouse that's just jetting out into the ocean
And they're there and they're like swaying in the wind and i'm in situate massachusetts and oh my god there goes my hat and like oh my god this house is going to get carried into the ocean
It is so my gosh oh my
It's like we're the target.
And there's always massive flooding.
So that house always got slammed with hurricanes, snowstorms in the winter.
They're really bad.
Yeah, it was crazy.
That's
Why we sold it sounds like
It sounds like it
Um so but yeah you can get slammed with anything like other things too right like an expensive ticket
Right maybe you get a speeding ticket
Yeah any kind of fine or fee right getting getting slammed
It's like
An expense comes to you.
So you wouldn't say that if you just went and chose to buy an expensive car because you chose it.
So you're kind of, it's a bit of a victim thing, right?
Right.
Yes, exactly.
You're on the receiving end.
Yes, exactly.
Of whatever it is.
Right.
So it could also be like your workload or emails.
Like I got slammed
With 50 emails and I'm getting working through all of them right
See it's always Monday morning
I'm always slammed when I try to get into my inbox
I just slammed with emails but then for some reason like they all come at the same time it's either nothing through the week or it's tons at the same time
Everything comes through right at the same in the same couple of hours
It's weird
Yeah, that works.
Yeah.
Yeah, for sure.
And what about criticism?
I mean, a politician could get slammed with criticism.
Maybe there's some kind of story that comes out, right?
Yeah.
Or maybe I mean, if you've had some sort of I mean, or maybe you gave a presentation and you got slammed with questions and critiques.
Yeah.
You know, by the audience.
So but let's do a few more examples of each of these.
So the first one is, we were slammed by a huge blizzard last weekend.
So that's the weather.
I'm slammed with work this afternoon, right?
Maybe someone calls to invite you out for an early happy hour or something.
You say, I'm sorry, I'm slammed with work this afternoon.
Right?
Or I was slammed with a ton of negative reviews after my head waitress quit.
Yes.
All right.
Yeah.
But you'll notice sometimes we say we were slammed with, and sometimes we say we were slammed by.
You know...
Basically, I would say slammed with and this is, you know, very general, we can kind of follow up on this one day.
But for with I would say, like, it's often with I was slammed with work.
I was slammed with like the quantity of something.
I was slammed with emails.
We were slammed with negative reviews.
And I would say slammed by would be more like.
The snowstorm, right?
Yeah, I would say so.
That makes sense.
Like slammed by a gust of wind or slammed by a huge snowstorm this winter and you got a ton of them as we said before.
So yeah, you have two preposition options to use.
I would say I hear with more often.
Personally, but that just depends.
Let's just go through the rest of the episode and see what comes up the most, right?
So, but we can always talk more about that another day.
So there's hit is the second verb.
So hit is also forceful, but it could be emotions as well.
So that's really interesting.
So what might we be hit with or hit by?
In the simplest way, you could also be hit by a blizzard, right?
A snowstorm, a thunderstorm, any kind of the element, the elements.
By a gust of wind, wind is the worst.
Out here it gets really windy in certain parts of Colorado, like scary windy.
Um you know and it's just like sometimes wind can feel scary um just feels very out of control you know yeah yeah oh for sure um or with some sort of emotion or you know more like a
Like something that's not tangible, right?
Like hit with the truth.
A realization.
Hit with the reality.
Hit with sadness, right?
Hit with a wave of sadness, right?
And again, the key theme here is something's happening to you.
Something has happened to you.
You are not creating this.
You're not seeking it out.
You're not purchasing this, right?
It's coming to you.
You're hit with an issue or a problem, maybe a fine or a setback.
We were hit with a few setbacks this year, but we're going to keep pushing through.
Right.
Yep.
Exactly.
So here are some more examples.
So we were hit by a terrible thunderstorm or she hit me with the truth.
Right.
So we don't mean physically punched you.
Right.
We mean she told you the truth.
It's just a creative way to say she told me the truth.
It hurt, but I needed to hear it.
Right.
So when you say like, I she told me the truth sounds so much different than she hit me with the truth.
It really sounds more sudden.
I really like that.
Yeah, intense.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Or the basketball players were hit with huge fines after the fight in the third quarter.
Hmm.
And there are other fancier ways we could say this, like they were assessed a huge fine, but we're not looking for a formal way to say this today.
We're looking for a way to emphasize that that came to them.
Right?
Yes.
Yes, exactly.
And again, guys, we have different prepositions.
We have with, we have by.
I mean, notice we used by with the thunderstorm.
I'm more likely to say, oh, we were hit by a thunderstorm than we were hit with a thunderstorm.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Maybe that's just me.
Yeah, I think you're probably right.
I think I probably do the same thing.
All right, so we're going to take a quick break and come back to a few more ways to say this because this is important to emphasize the direction from which something is coming, right?
Yes, exactly.
It's not originating with you.
It's coming to you.
Okay.
Yes.
Okay, Michelle, so struck is another forceful, dramatic way of saying that something happened to you, right?
Yeah.
When it comes to weather.
We could be struck by lightning.
We could be, I guess, struck by, do we say struck by an earthquake?
Yeah.
I mean, you could say Los Angeles was struck by an earthquake today, I suppose.
Yeah.
But struck by lightning is certainly the most common.
Yeah.
Struck by lightning is super common.
Yeah yeah
I mean do we say struck by a snowstorm
I don't really very much
No i really don't think we do
Yeah i would stay with hit or um or which is the other way
I feel like we say just land new england like we got a snowstorm we got a big snowstorm slammed or we had a snowstorm
Right.
But there's also an emotion, which is this is really common.
Struck with anger, struck with sadness, or you could say struck by sadness.
Right.
So that's a that's a very common one.
Yeah.
And that means, again, that just kind of arose within you.
Right.
Yeah.
And again, that's why you're not necessarily creating it.
You're not saying I'm going to be sad now.
It just came up inside you spontaneously.
Right.
Exactly.
The family was struck by tragedy.
You know, we could say that something like that sort of issue.
Yeah.
Yep.
So here's a few more examples.
So be careful out there.
You don't want to get struck by lightning.
Or I was struck with sadness when he broke up with me.
Struck with sadness.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah or their family was struck by tragedy but they overcame well they overcame it yeah and again here um by seems to be the most common and with comes up more often with emotions
Right.
Yeah.
But this is all kind of fluid.
And, you know, again, like I said, we can do a more strict follow up explaining all of the prepositions and seeing, but we're giving you some just basic ideas today.
So yeah, so we did, today we've covered struck, hit and slammed.
So should we do a role play?
I would love to do a role play, Michelle.
Let's do it.
So here we are friends catching up after a long winter.
We haven't seen each other all winter, I guess.
We're coming out of hibernation here or something.
Oh my gosh, that's how it feels.
So how have you been?
Oh, I'm fine, but I'm so ready for spring.
We were slammed by snowstorms all winter.
Oh, I heard.
We were hit by a pretty bad thunderstorm last month, but we were okay.
That's good.
So how are you?
I'm good, but I was hit with a nasty fine because I forgot to pay a parking ticket.
Oh, no.
Yeah, no good, and I've been slammed by work this week, so I'm so exhausted.
I hope you can relax this weekend.
I was really struck by sadness when I heard Tom is moving.
Struck by sadness or struck with sadness?
Struck with sadness.
You're right.
I was struck with sadness.
Yes, I know.
I said it and it sounded weird.
I was struck with sadness.
Thank you.
When I heard that Tom was moving.
Yeah, exactly.
Struck with, because we talked about struck with, more common with emotions.
Yeah, I was struck with yes.
Yeah, exactly.
So we were slammed by snowstorms all winter.
That's how we started the show.
And that actually is true for you, right?
Yes.
And then you said I was hit with a nasty fine.
Yes, exactly.
And then also I said, we were hit by a pretty bad thunderstorm.
And we said by for a preposition is more common with these natural nature events, right?
These natural disasters.
And then you said, sorry, now we're on the work one.
I said, no good.
I've been slammed by work this week.
Yes, that's what I thought.
And then I said I was struck with sadness.
This sounded a little bit
To like i don't know that i would say that uh yeah yeah this is pretty formal so to be just like oh i was struck you know by sadness i might not say that but we wanted to give you an example
Yeah.
And I think we might have to revisit this term struck with, struck by.
Because we also say I was struck by the fact that something seemed obvious.
So there is a place for struck by.
Absolutely.
Right.
So it's like for like kind of like if you're struck by a...
Situation almost like i was struck by how wonderful um the movie's music was
Yeah so maybe we'll do another episode on like emotions spontaneous emotions arising or something something like that or or also insights
So sometimes it's about emotions sometimes it's about insights
Right.
What struck me was.
We'll come back to that, guys, another day.
We'll come back to it.
And also I want to emphasize that sometimes you can just say, you know, I'm really slammed this week.
You don't have to say you're slammed.
What is causing you to be slammed?
Yeah.
You're just slammed.
Yep.
Right.
Yes, I'm slammed.
Right.
Totally.
Yeah.
So, guys, head on over.
We did All Ears English episode 26, 24.
That was how to talk about housing costs.
Without sounding rude.
Exactly.
Good stuff.
So the connection moment here, guys, is well, I think we're talking about overwhelm in a way.
Some of these are useful for overwhelm or things we can't control.
Like things that are just out of our control.
And it's important that you emphasize this.
It's a kind of a nuance here of the words you choose show where the thing is originating.
Is it originating with you?
Are you creating it?
Or is it coming to you?
That changes the whole meaning, right?
Really interesting.
Yeah and guys again don't don't if you're stressed out by the prepositions yeah don't be um you know like we can talk more about them give you some more um
Overall rules.
But today we really wanted to focus on just the meaning and how it's used and how it can help you connect.
So you guys definitely hit follow.
We can do a follow up.
If you have any questions, let us know.
Yeah.
And send those questions to support at allersenglish.com.
We will create a follow-up episode based on your question, if it's a good specific question.
All right.
All right.
Very good.
Michelle, you have a good day.
Talk to you soon.
All right.
Bye, Lindsay.
Bye.
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