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Grip or grasp?
Tips for this tricky English vocabulary.
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What is the difference between grip and grasp?
And what does it have to do with Aubrey's rock climbing career?
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Hey there, Aubrey.
How are you today?
I'm great, Lindsay.
How are you?
Good.
Aubrey, do you have a strong grip, would you say, with your hands when you grip something?
Not bad, but for a while I was trying to be able to do like pull-ups and you would have to dead hang in order to prepare for that.
And I had to use gloves.
That would give me a better grip, because my hands would just slide right off the bar.
So I guess I don't have the strongest grip.
Okay.
You have to like work up to it.
Right.
Grip strength is a real thing.
The other day I was in Orange Theory and I'm trying to lift heavier because I know, you know, women need to lift heavy.
Yeah.
Right.
And so we're doing deadlifts and I was feeling good.
I was really feeling good at my 30 pounds deadlift.
And then I look around and all these women my same size are doing 60.
And I'm thinking, oh, I can't even pick the 60 off the thing.
And bring it over to my station.
I don't even have the grip strength to carry a 60-pound weight.
I don't know how they do it.
Back when I was younger, I rock climbed a lot.
I was a rock climber.
And my grip strength was really impressive.
I could grip these tiny little holds.
Not anymore.
Interesting.
I didn't know that you were a rock climber before.
I did.
I did it a lot.
In fact, when I met my partner, he was working at a rock climbing gym.
Really?
So, yeah, we both were climbing a lot.
But now it's crazy that if you don't keep it up, if you're not climbing a lot, that grip strength just goes away.
Yeah, that's probably the one sport where you need it the most.
The dexterity and also with toes, too, because you kind of grab on with your feet.
Very interesting.
Well, you have to share more of your rock climbing past with us here on the show then.
I need to go.
I should get back into it.
Rock climbing is huge here in Colorado.
There are so many people that are into it.
And I guess Arizona too, right?
Yes, absolutely.
This is really interesting.
We got a question about the difference between grip and grasp.
And it's interesting because these are so similar.
They're related.
And both of these are used both literally and figuratively, idiomatically.
So we're going to dive into both today.
Yeah.
And this question comes from Mateos.
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We've seen many questions from this listener and we appreciate the nuance of the question because it's going to make a great episode.
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Hey there, hope you're all good.
I have a question.
Is there a difference between grip and grasp?
And could you give me some examples on how to use lose grip?
Thanks in advance.
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So let's answer this question.
What's our approach today in this episode?
Yes.
We're first going to share the literal meaning for each of these, right?
So first grip.
And what's tricky is grip is used as both a noun and a verb.
So it has a similar meaning to hold firmly.
As a verb, you might say the teen driver gripped the steering wheel tightly.
Often this is used as a verb to say that you're grabbing it tightly.
Another way to say that is grip it tightly.
Yeah.
And a bonus, I guess, idiom or expression is kind of white knuckling something.
I think that's where this comes from, right?
Are you white knuckling?
Whether it's driving, I guess your first time driving you've probably experienced this with your kids.
Maybe they're white knuckling this because the blood rushes out of your knuckles, right?
I'm white knuckling my phone while they're driving because I'm so panicked.
I'm sure you are.
I can imagine.
Oh my gosh.
Or you could be white knuckling a lot of things, just like an experience, right?
That's kind of unpleasant and you're not sure if you'll get through it.
Exactly.
It just means you're nervous.
You're stressed out.
We literally, like our knuckles, turn white when we're gripping something really difficult or really hard.
And then it also just means that, that you're really nervous about something.
Yeah.
Love that.
So that just comes from there.
It's a bonus for today.
Let's keep going, Aubrey.
Yeah.
This is also used as a noun.
You might say she has a strong grip.
Like Lindsay was saying, I don't have a strong enough grip for that 60 pound weight.
And so here it's a noun to just mean the thing, the grip that you have.
Yes.
And what about grasp?
How is that different literally speaking?
Yeah.
So with its literal meaning, grasp is only used as a verb with the meaning of to grab and hold.
So for example, I tried to grasp the bar but fell.
If you're trying to do a dead hang, you're trying to grasp the bar and you can't get it and you fall.
I feel like grab is another, this episode could have been about grip, grab and grasp, right?
Because grab is in there too, is right in there.
Yeah, grab is very interchangeable with grasp.
All of these times we say, I tried to grab the bar.
You know, she grasped his hand as they entered the room.
You could say grab, she grabbed his hand as they entered the room.
Sure, you can.
Yeah, but today we're just focusing on these two.
But it just belongs in this mix, I think that word.
Yeah, so she grasped, she grabbed his hand.
Love it.
What about figurative meanings of these? words.
This is what really makes these words interesting and more difficult to understand, because they both have figurative meanings.
And, you know, grip is used to talk about the control something has over someone or something.
And then grasp is all about understanding.
If you grasp something, you understand it.
Oh, okay.
This is where we get, it becomes interesting, right?
Our listeners can use these metaphorically.
Exactly.
So for example, grip, you might say her fear of failure has a strong grip on her.
It means it has a strong control over her.
Yep.
You could also say that a memory has a grip on you, right?
Something you can't get out of your head and it influences things you do in the future.
Exactly.
Yes.
Anything that you feel like it's controlling.
Oh, yeah.
Relationships.
Sometimes we'll say that person has a strong grip on this other person.
We feel like they're controlling them a little bit.
Interesting.
And then grasp.
Again, like you said, Aubrey, understanding or comprehension.
Totally different.
Right.
Completely different.
So she has a good grasp of physics.
She has a grasp of the basics of X, Y, Z, whatever it is.
Yeah, you might say someone has a really good grasp of the soft skills, right?
All of these skills we need at work, that we might not have learned in college, that are more part of our personality.
Yeah, they definitely don't teach the soft skills in college, that's for sure.
They probably should.
They didn't when I went.
I don't know.
They probably should.
But what's interesting here is you see here, grasp is used as a noun.
She has a good grasp of physics.
It means she has a good understanding of physics.
So the good news is, whenever you see grasp used as a noun, you know it's the idiomatic, the figurative meaning, because the literal meaning is only a verb meaning to grab.
Right, exactly.
Then there are kind of some sayings that we probably should know. if we're functioning in English.
So for example, you might lose your grip on your sanity when Or your state of mind.
Yeah.
So Mateus asked specifically, like, how do I use the lose grip?
And this is a chunk that we use with specific things.
But what's interesting is these all have slightly different meanings.
Right.
So and whether you're literally losing grip on sanity or we will use this idiomatically as well.
If you're just like my kids are driving me crazy, I'm losing my grip.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Losing my grip on sanity.
But often we'll just say that shortened version.
I'm losing my grip.
And we know that's what it means.
It's like I'm going crazy.
And that really ties in.
I think we should skip ahead to number four and then we'll come back to two and three.
Okay, let's do that.
Because I was going to say it and then I saw it on our list here, right?
To losing your grip on reality.
You start to become mentally unstable, delusional or kind of disconnected from what's real, for whatever reason.
Maybe you're on drugs.
Maybe you haven't slept like you're catatonic.
You haven't slept.
Maybe you've been working too much.
Right.
Or you're in like isolation.
You're alone.
Right.
Exactly.
And we have seen studies about this with the younger generation how much time they're spending not socializing maybe online education, playing video games.
They can you can lose your grip on reality.
There are certainly things that have happened where crimes, where it turns out someone had totally lost grip on reality.
Yes.
I mean most of the time.
That's what ends up like being in the research that they find when the dust settles right.
So those two kind of go together, lose grip on reality and lose your grip on your sanity.
I tend to hear lose my grip on reality more often.
That's what I tend to hear.
Yeah.
Yes.
Same.
What about emotions?
Can we lose that too?
Yeah, you can lose grip on emotions.
This would mean you're losing your composure, right?
You're less composed.
So you're becoming emotionally overwhelmed, maybe unable to stay calm.
So you could say she lost her grip on her emotions and started crying in the meeting.
This can certainly happen.
And it's interesting for all of these, we'll often just shorten it to she lost her grip or I lost my grip.
Yes.
We also have the phrase get a grip, which we used to say a lot in the 80s, I think.
Right.
I do still hear this sometimes.
This kind of means like regain composure.
Get it together.
Get a grip.
Get a grip.
Right.
I feel like I don't hear it as much anymore.
But you would say that to someone you're close to if they're kind of losing it in any of these ways.
Right.
Get a grip, mom.
Right.
Right.
Or we might say it to be funny.
Like, OK, get a grip.
Right.
We're like light, light starting to be light about a situation.
Yeah.
And then what one more?
What's the other one?
Yeah.
Lastly, to lose grip on a situation.
So this is like to lose the ability to manage or control events.
We use this more at work.
You might say the manager lost her grip on the project after key staff quit.
Hmm.
Yes.
You kind of the foundation kind of gets disturbed.
Right.
So these are all really good ones.
I mean, they're not super common, but they are out there and we use them.
So we need to know them.
Yeah.
And it's really interesting how, for most of these, when you hear them, regardless of what the context is and what someone actually means, they're probably just going to say lose grip, without the on emotions, on a situation.
She'd be like, I'm losing my grip.
She's losing her grip.
And the rest sort of is implied.
Yes.
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Okay, Aubrey, we're back with a roleplay.
We know that our listeners love our signature roleplays.
So here, there you go.
We're rock climbing, either in Arizona or Colorado.
So this would be flipped, though.
You would be more experienced.
I've really never.
I've done it once.
So this is fiction.
We're having Lindsay be the experienced rock climber and I'm the beginner.
Yeah, I've only done it, I think, once at a climbing gym and I couldn't even go very high.
I was kind of You have to really train and climb a lot before you can.
It's one of those things that you just can't expect to be good at right away.
So if we don't stick to it, then it's impossible, right?
It takes a long time.
Yeah, it's a tough, tough sport.
It is tough.
Yeah, for sure.
Okay, your grip is everything here.
Try to keep your hands relaxed but firm.
Easy for you to say, I cannot grasp how you're hanging sideways like that.
Don't overthink it.
Grasp that blue hold and get a solid grip.
Then just trust your legs.
This is so hard.
I feel like I'm losing my grip, both literally and figuratively.
Yeah, rock climbing must be a real mental trip.
I mean, I thought tennis was a mental game.
Rock climbing must be a real mental game.
It is, especially when you're climbing outside.
So in a gym, you have padded floors.
Then when you transition to climbing outside, especially if you're lead climbing where you're not locked in anywhere you're just climbing until you get to that first hold.
And you know, if you fall, you could be seriously injured.
That really is a mental, you can't let yourself panic.
You just have to stay calm.
And that is kind of mind over matter, but also very exhilarating.
I think it is probably really exhilarating for sure.
A lot of adrenaline for sure.
It's for adrenaline junkies, especially when you get really high.
But of course, by then you're clipped in.
There are like clips where you're clipping a lot so that if you fall, you would only fall so far.
Right, right.
If you're climbing like Devil's Tower or something, you're going to be clipped in.
You're clipped in.
Absolutely.
There are people who free climb.
It's crazy, like higher than they should.
But then sometimes, I mean, that can be fatal.
It's very dangerous.
Yeah.
There's that guy, Alex Honnold.
I remember we talked about his documentary a few times on the show where he free climbs.
What do you call it?
Free solo or something?
Free solos.
That's so scary.
I could never.
Really scary.
All right, a glimpse into another sport, right?
Here we go.
So let's just go through this.
So I said, okay, your grip is everything here.
That means how well you are grasping the item that you need to grab onto.
Jeez, there you go.
It's interesting.
I think the main difference between grasp and grab grasp means to like grab and hold, whereas grab is just like grab it.
Yeah.
I could definitely could have said I cannot.
No, that's the other one.
Grass.
You say grasp that blue hold and get a solid grip.
You could say grab.
You could say like grab that blue hold.
But where you're meaning to say like grab it and then hold on.
It does make sense to say grasp it.
Yes, I agree for sure.
And then I said, I cannot grasp how you're hanging sideways.
So am I talking about the physical meaning here?
No, right?
This is the idiomatic one.
I can't understand how you're doing it.
I can't comprehend it.
Yes.
All right.
What else, Aubrey?
And then you said, grasp that blue hold and get a solid grip.
So here it's the noun, right?
It's as tricky because it can be a verb.
Grip that or a solid grip as a noun.
And then I said, this is so hard.
You said, I feel like I'm losing my grip, both literally and figuratively.
So now we're using it in every way, every sense of the word.
And we will do this sometimes.
Sometimes we'll say something and then we'll realize oh, that also has a literal meaning or figurative right.
I'm like saying I'm losing control.
I'm kind of freaking out.
I'm losing my grip.
And then I say literally, because I'm like, I'm actually literally physically losing my grip as well.
Yeah, we might.
Yeah.
So we might remark and just say we mean that in both ways.
Or we might say in every sense of the word.
Yeah, we say that too, right?
In every sense of the way or of the word.
Good episode today.
I learned a lot about rock climbing, so that's good.
Any other takeaway for our listeners?
Yeah, words like grip and grasp can be really tricky because they are similar but they're used slightly differently, especially when they have both literal and idiomatic meanings.
So today's hip tips, I think, will help you be able to use both meanings literal and figurative meanings confidently.
Awesome.
Love it.
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