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Gabe Ortiz is a cop.
His brother Larry, a mystery Gabe didn't want to solve until it was too late.
He was the head of this gang.
You're going to push that line for the cause.
Took us under his wing and showed us the game, as they call it.
When Larry's killed, Gabe must untangle a dangerous past, one that could destroy everything he thought he knew.
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Hello everybody, I'm Gemma Spike and welcome back to The Psychology of Your 20s, the podcast where we talk through the biggest changes, moments and transitions of our 20s and what they mean for our psychology.
Hello everybody, welcome back to the show.
Welcome back to another december guest episode.
It is so great to have you here.
I am personally so excited for this episode and to have this specific guest on the podcast.
Being a creative person these days, having an online presence, putting yourself out there, can be tough, even if you don't have an audience.
People can be very critical of us when we are loud, proud and passionate about our dreams.
One of my favorite creators talks about this a lot.
How to manage comparison, how to let people misunderstand you, how to know when something is meant for you.
She is the author of two books about being in your 20s and a content creator who is honestly living her dream.
Carrie Bradshaw life now.
And today we got to have her on the podcast to really pick her brain about so many interesting things.
Without further ado, here she is.
Eli Rallo, welcome to the psychology of your 20s.
Thank you so much for having me.
I'm so excited.
Yeah, me too.
I feel like obviously we're in the middle of like our December guest month.
And I was like, who better to have on the show than another queen of the 20-somethings, another queen of the 20s?
If no one has heard about you, which I don't know how they haven't can you tell us a little bit about yourself and how you kind of began your career to now being almost a three-time author?
Yes, I am a content creator and writer.
I'm based in New York and also Texas.
I'm 27 and I started making content in 2020 and I've sort of been making content ever since.
And my new book, Does Anyone Else Feel This Way?
Out October 14th.
So I'm in kind of the process of dealing with everything that comes along with, like pre-publication for a book which has just been so exciting.
And It's so crazy.
Like I don't know when this is coming out, but when we're recording it.
It's going to be out in a week.
So it's been just a whirlwind.
Oh my gosh.
I can relate.
Like when my book came out at the start of the year, it's like this huge, huge buildup.
And then it kind of just like do it.
And then everything just, you know what I mean?
Like you reach this like pinnacle, and the day that you release the book is often like the least exciting day.
I don't know if you found that with your last book.
Yeah yeah, with my last book I definitely did.
With this book I definitely have a lot going on, more than the last one.
Um, the last one I was kind of like okay, it's just here now and I'm gonna go see my book in bookstores, which I did, and that was a really special moment, but then I didn't have any like huge.
I guess I did a book tour that night but I didn't have like huge plans.
This time I have like a fully packed schedule for the release week.
So it's kind of a crazier moment in time.
But I think, a lot of gratitude because I can compare it.
I can compare and contrast both of my sort of book release weeks and feel really grateful for growth and you know all the steps in the right direction.
So it's crazy, but it does really feel kind of anticlimactic emotionally because you're like here's this thing I've, I know.
And it's like.
This is the thing that I have given like everything to, and I've like poured my whole heart into.
I remember the day I released mine, I like went to find it in a bookstore and it wasn't there.
And I was like, just walking around being like, oh, and it took me like a couple of days to find it.
Yeah.
I was like, sometimes it takes a while for them to like, get it into rotation.
I didn't know this about bookstores.
Yeah.
The things you learn.
Okay.
This is a question that I've been really enjoying asking people recently, which is what did you want to be when you grew up?
Now that you are a content creator and an author,
What was that always the goal?
I wanted to be a writer and I wanted to be on Broadway.
So pretty similar.
I'm pretty much the person I've always been, which I guess is quite comforting.
Like I always knew I wanted to be a writer and I always knew I wanted to do like theater.
So when I was a kid, I really wanted to write fiction.
So I think it does feel like a childhood dream sort of thing, um discovered, and kind of a welcome home in a way, because that was always the dream and obviously went down a different path first and I feel really grateful for that path as well.
But fiction was definitely always like where my head was at when I was younger.
Did you feel like there was a point in your life where you were like, maybe this isn't gonna happen?
Um, like maybe this is just not for me.
No, I honestly thought to myself, if I don't make it, it's going to be the love of my life forever either way.
If I don't make it, I'm always going to write and I'll self-publish.
If I don't make it with Broadway, I'll do what I can to make enough money that I could donate to Broadway shows or donate to children's theater.
I just knew I would always be involved in the arts, even if I didn't make it.
So no, I knew that no matter what, I would still do it.
No one can take writing away from you.
If You can't publish traditionally, which would be the dream, the dream, the dream.
You can publish yourself.
Anyone could do that.
When I was in college, I self-published a poetry book.
I think I just knew that, no matter what, if I didn't make it, no one could take doing it away from me.
It was habitual in my blood every day, something I did, and same with theater like no one can take being a fan of the arts away from you.
No one can take being an audience member away from you.
So there was really never a moment that I was like this might not happen, because I knew that, even if I didn't make it in the traditional sense of the term, like it would still be part of my life and that was enough for me.
I think everything else is just like a cherry on top.
No, so I totally agree with you and I feel this is someone else who is like very much living out a dream they had for a long time, and people always are like how do I know what, like my dream job is?
Like how do I know what I'm meant to be doing, how do I know what my purpose is?
And I'm like, if you would be doing it even if there was no one paying attention, what is the thing you do that you just love to do?
Because you love to do it, that you wouldn't actually ever need to be paid for and you would still have the love for, like that's the biggest thing.
And, and some people like can't make money off of those things.
Right.
That doesn't mean it's not still like your purpose.
Yeah.
And not still important.
Um, what do you think about being delusional about your dreams?
What are your thoughts on like this, this method for going after what you want?
I think there has to be like a bit of delusion.
Like.
I don't think anybody like truly like confidently believes that they can like go out and snatch everything.
I mean, maybe people do.
I think there has to be a healthy mix of like realism and delusion.
So the realism is like just that realistic voice being like these are.
You know, this is reality and this is where we're at right now.
And then you have to sort of also take it the extra level that you just believe in yourself in tandem.
So I think you have to have a little delusion and a little realism.
That's always where I've like rested my head.
I'm not like totally delusional, but I'm also like a little delusional.
You know, like i'll keep it.
I'll keep it a little delusional, but i try to be realistic with myself.
Like i think it just helped me be grounded.
I always talk about like how my parents raised us.
Like we were never raised to like get applause unless we earned it.
Like my parents were not the type of people oh, they're just jealous of you.
My parents were not like you're perfect.
My parents loved us.
But like if we weren't good at something, we were not being told we were good at it.
You know what I mean?
Like we were getting, we had to earn applause from things.
And I think that it taught me like to understand my strengths and learn how to work on my weaknesses in a really good way.
Like I'm good at being real.
And then I think the delusion comes in with, like you just have to be a little wacky when you're going to dream really big and you have to believe that you can.
And sometimes that takes like kind of kidding yourself in a way.
But I try to be as realistic as possible and then also a little delusional.
See, I have this other problem where I feel like sometimes I'm a little bit too realistic because I feel like being delusional jinxes things.
I don't know if you have this, this similar feeling, where sometimes I'm like if I've thought about something happening and if I really want it to happen, sometimes I get worried that it's gonna like jinx it and going to mean that in some universe it's already happened, so like it's never going to be allowed to emerge again.
What are your thoughts on that?
I feel that.
Yeah, I think that in going through processes for things I didn't get but that I'm still qualified to get again, like awards or nominations or bestseller this or that, I've just realized that placing all this pressure on a thing is just not worth it, because then you'll feel like how you feel?
Like oh, I manifested this not happening.
So I try to just do my best and like, forget the rest.
Like I try not to think about the lists and the accolades and all the things that I know are like around the bend that I'm being considered for that I have been considered for.
Like I try to just forget it all.
Like it doesn't exist to me.
And so that way, like I'm only focusing on the work and I don't focus on, like you know, numbers and data and this and that
And then, of course, like those things do matter and they're the things that I focus on, but I try to keep myself like pretty grounded in just like the creative, the act of creating, and then the the, the art itself, and not so much on the external.
Cause I think when I did that, I would get really disappointed.
And I would also like feel like you did where it would be like, Oh, I manifested this not happening.
Yeah, no, very, very true.
I feel like this is advice that I wish I could.
I still think I need to hear myself, which is like just do it for the joy of doing something.
Like just do it for the joy and then no one can ever really take that away from you, which is, I guess, like the through line that we've just been coming back to like time and time again, as people who are like working in creative spaces and working in like in entertainment.
I'm kind of going to shift gears here and let's talk a bit about our twenties, because I feel like that's what people are tuning in from.
Yeah.
You obviously have a lot of things that you really care about and that you really want to do.
And I think a big dilemma that people have in this decade is there is literally so much that I want to try and I want to achieve and I want to see how do I do it all at once.
So this may be like a strange question, but like what are your time management strategies, time management advice or like, maybe deeper thoughts on like yeah, I guess, trying to do it all at once?
I think when I hear people have that sort of complaint of like there's so many lives they want to live and so many things that I want to try,
I'm like, God, what a privilege.
Like you need to reframe it.
Like what a privilege to be so excited to live that there are so many things you want to try.
What a privilege to be so excited, like enamored with life, that there are so many things you want to do.
Like to me, the reality is and it's completely something we can't change you're never going to be able to try everything, you're never going to be able to probably visit every place or read every book, but like what a gift that you could try to see as many places as possible or like read as many books as possible or try as many things as possible, like There are so many people that just don't have that luxury.
There are so many people that are born into circumstances where they don't have that luxury, or are born in or not able body.
Like I just try to be so grounded in the reality of the privilege it is to be excited to try things and to get to try things.
And then I have so often talked with my friends about the fact that I think, like in your 20s, you kind of have to pick something to be like the center, focus point of your world.
And that thing can change from chapter to chapter, year to year, even month to month.
And like, I've sort of picked my job.
Like it's at the center of my world.
I sacrifice everything else I sacrifice.
I make so many sacrifices for my work.
For some people, they want to choose their friendships.
For some people, they want to choose a community that they're a part of.
For some people, they choose family or a romantic relationship.
I also think that that thing at the center can change.
It could change at any given week or any given month.
What I mean by this is I know that by putting my job and my career right now as the center focal point, I am sacrificing things.
I can't always make it to social outings.
I don't really go out because I have to rest because I'm extending myself so much with my work.
But that's something I have to be okay with.
So I think you have to figure out what your priorities are, figure out what the center point is going to be of any month or any week, and then be okay with the boundaries you have to set and the sacrifices you have to make in order to focus on that.
And then I think kind of simultaneously, just like realize it's a privilege to be overwhelmed with choice and to be excited about life.
Like, yes, there are so many paths that you could take.
And yes, there is such thing as decision fatigue.
Like I so often feel that way, but it's like what a gift it is to be so exhausted by the opportunity to choose something so many people cannot say that they have.
I love that way of thinking about it.
And I also love that.
If you go even further with that thought, that means that you can always choose again.
If you have so many choices that feel equally good, it means that you're actually probably never going to be stuck in one choice.
Yeah.
Like you'll never feel oh, I took the wrong path, because like there's always going to be something else waiting for you if you really do feel like there are so many options.
You know what I mean?
Yeah.
And people change their lives like every single day.
I feel like the reason that people get so like fixated on, like what life do I want to live, is because they think that it's like some kind of contract that they're signing with like the world or with other people that like, if I say I'm going to do this and this is who I'm going to be, I have to be ready to give 10 years of my life to that.
No one's asking you to do that.
Like you are allowed to change your mind like at any given time.
In terms of choosing one thing just to start.
Were there any like?
Are there any questions that you were able to ask yourself or that you would ask a friend to help them determine?
Like, which is the first thing I should do?
I guess it's just like, what do you want to do?
Like, I think that people don't, I think that people way overcomplicate things.
Like, what do you want to do?
Like if social media didn't exist and nobody else's opinion mattered, what do you want to do?
Like, okay, then do that.
Like that, I think people way overcomplicate things.
Like at the end of the day.
In adulthood I've realized like there's going to be such a proliferation of choice and you need to get super in touch with yourself to be able to ask yourself what do I want to do?
What do I want to wear?
Who do I want to spend my time around?
And you have to figure out how to know yourself well enough to answer those questions.
I feel like sometimes we're just not asking ourselves that question because we're so caught up in everybody else.
And it's like, no, but what do you want?
Like, that's what I would ask.
What do you actually want?
And I feel like people aren't asking themselves that.
And they're often not asked that either. yeah, it's always like, how are you going to make money?
Like, how are you going to fulfill this dream that I have for you?
Like, how are you going to be happy?
That's the other question I feel like people always get fixated on is like how do I know I'll be happy?
It's like, no one, there is no promise.
Something I actually I was talking to my sister about this the other day and tell me if you agree with this line of questioning.
And sometimes people like, I think I'll, I'll tell you what I always ask her.
I say like, the easiest way to determine what kind of life you want is to see who you're jealous of.
See who has lived out their dreams in such an amazing way that the only way that you can comprehend that you might want it is through envy, because you want it so badly.
And a lot of people are like, when I tell them that, I'm like, wow, you're promoting being jealous.
And I'm like no, because jealousy is actually like two emotions.
Right, it's actually.
It's a two-layered thing.
There's the initial feeling and then there's how you react to it.
You don't have to react in like a backstabbing, terrible self, like self-effacing way.
You can react in a way that like makes it quite motivating and actually like switches to inspiration and celebration.
What do you, what are your thoughts on that?
Because I know some people like hear that and like have a completely different take.
I really like that.
I think that's like super true point.
I'm definitely someone who thinks that jealousy is like not really a bad thing.
Like I just think like we've villainized it ourselves.
But like I always say, it's a signal that somebody else has something that you want.
And instead of being like, oh, why them and not me?
You could just as easily be like, why not us both?
Or like, why can't I have that thing too?
So I think jealousy is, yeah, I think it's a super... normal human emotion that we have to be like more comfortable kind of confronting and facing and it's also yeah quite a helpful one as well okay we're going to take a short break but when we return we're going to talk about comparison how to manage when people have the wrong idea of you and how to deal with friendship in our 20s so stay with us Have you ever listened to those true crime shows and found yourself with more questions than answers?
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Dad had the strong belief that the devil was attacking us.
Two brothers, one devout household, two radically different paths.
Gabe Ortiz became one of the highest-ranking law enforcement officers in Texas.
32 years total law enforcement experience.
But his brother Larry, he stayed behind and built an entirely different legacy.
He was the head of this gang, and nobody was going to tell him what to do.
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When Larry is murdered, Gabe is forced to confront the past he tried to leave behind and uncover secrets he never saw coming.
My dad had a whole other life that we never knew about.
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I'm the director of the men's clinic at UCLA Health.
And I want to tell you about my new podcast called The Mailroom.
And I'm Jordan, the show's producer.
And like a lot of guys, I haven't been to the doctor in many years.
I'll be asking the questions we probably should be asking, but aren't.
Because guys usually don't go to the doctor unless a piece of their face is hanging off or they've broken a bone.
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What up, y'all?
It's your boy, Kev, on stage.
I want to tell you about my new podcast called Not My Best Moment, where I talk to artists athletes entertainers creators friends, people I admire who had massive success, about their massive failures.
What did they mess up on?
What is their heartbreak?
And what did they learn from it?
I got judged horribly.
The judges were like, you're trash.
I don't know how you got on the show.
Boo.
Somebody had tomatoes.
I'm kidding.
But if they had tomatoes, they would have thrown the tomatoes.
Let's be honest.
We've all had those moments we'd rather forget.
We bumped our head.
We made a mistake.
The deal fell through.
We're embarrassed.
We failed.
But this podcast is about that and how we made it through.
So when they sat me down they were kind of like we got into the small talk and they were just like, so what do you got?
What ideas?
And I was like, oh, no.
What?
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Let's talk about comparison, specifically like comparison in the arts.
First question I actually have for you, which is completely unrelated, but what do you think about the term when people call you an influencer?
Would you prefer like someone call you an author, a content creator, an influencer?
What do you like kind of think about that word?
I don't dislike it necessarily.
I think it's so sad that it's become sort of like this derogatory term that men specifically utilize to weaponize it against women.
So, like knowing that it makes me kind of like it more, because I'm like, how are you going to, how are you going to use this term as an insult?
And this term literally describes an economy of mostly women who are like pulling themselves out of student debt, buying themselves homes, creating generational wealth for themselves that they never had before, like how are you going to use that?
Like as though it's an insult, like kind of screwed up.
So i don't mind it, i'm happy with however, anybody wants to credit me.
Like of course i would love the books to be referenced, but like i'm not bothered by the influencer of it all because i recognize it as like an actual viable career.
And i feel like when people say like Oh, do you not want me to call you an influencer?
How do you feel about that?
It comes from this place of like, people don't recognize it as a real career.
And that kind of makes me so sad, because I'm like wow, it's like this female dominated industry full of women like completely rewriting their own lives and becoming independently wealthy which like, should be celebrated.
But for some reason it's not.
See, this is the conversation that is happening in Australia right now, where a bunch of what we would call influencers were obviously doing political coverage for our recent election.
And it was used as such this term to just completely undercut their opinions and to be like what are they doing in these environments?
But something about that industry and it is a multi-billion dollar industry is that it can be like quite competitive as well.
And there is a lot of like comparison and yeah, like we said, jealousy.
How do you, how do you manage that?
Or do you just like not experience it or utilize it in a different way?
Yeah.
I think it's like anything else.
Like I'm sure people at their own nine to five jobs have the experience of like I even talk with my friends like you're competing against a coworker for a promotion.
Like there's a lot of competition within those spaces.
So I think it's like anything else, that like you're going to compare yourself to people and you're going to see somebody on this brand trip getting this deal, shooting this thing.
And you're going to say, why didn't I get that?
But I think if you want to be successful, you can't.
You can't view other content creators as competition, only as community.
And I genuinely feel that way.
Like sometimes those creeping senses of comparison will creep up, but like I know that like rising tides, rise all boats.
When one of us wins, we all win.
And like, I believe that the opportunities meant for me won't pass me by.
And so because I believe that I try not to sit with any sort of comparison at all.
And instead I'm like that's my community, like look at how well people in my community are doing, like when i see another influencer write a book, when i see an influencer launch a podcast, a book club, a show, anything that is similar to stuff, i do like i'm just celebrating that because it's like when one person in our community wins, we all win and the more that we view it like that, just like the better it is for everybody Yeah.
And I feel like we're talking about this like in a singular like business space.
But that's like advice that you can take in any area that you're in in your 20s.
Like especially academics as well.
Like I feel like a lot of people who listen to this are like still obviously still in university.
Some of them are even like in high school.
And the thing is, is that like comparison will continue to repeat itself forever.
Oh, it'll always exist.
Yeah.
It will always exist.
And like, you think that like, oh, I'm going to leave this like hyper academic environment.
It's going to be gone.
No, because it's like a human quality, right?
So it's going to be with you.
You have to like, just change how you approach it.
Totally.
And I also think that, like you're just going to continue to raise the standards that you have set for yourself.
So it's like not going anywhere.
You just have to learn how to maintain and manage it.
Okay.
So this is another kind of element of this that I think you probably deal with, like in your career more than others, but which everyone is going to come across at some point in their lives, which is managing people having the wrong impression or opinion of you.
And I actually saw you make like an Instagram story about this the other day, which was like, that's the worst part of this job. is having the bravery to like be like this is my life now comment on it however you would would like and not being able to kind of talk back to those like you know false impressions how do you manage that I think you have to realize there are people that are hell-bent on misunderstanding you.
Whatever you say, they will be like, you're wrong.
There are people that have a story about you in their mind.
They mine for details to confirm that story is true.
The story is riddled with confirmation bias.
And it's like...
I don't want to focus on that 1% of people.
If I could focus on the 99% of people who know my heart and my person and who I am.
So I just ignore it.
I think it takes a lot of strength to get to that place.
And I don't think it's for everyone.
Like I have a lot of friends who are like I would love to post, but like I could never deal with the perception aspect.
And I get that.
Like it's not for everyone.
And that's not to say I'm like stronger than anyone else.
It's just a matter of, do you want to deal with it?
Yes or no.
I do believe anyone could get to a place where they're dealing with it in a healthy way, but not everybody wants to, which is totally valid.
And I get, and I wouldn't recommend it.
Like.
I wouldn't recommend it because it takes a lot of mental strength to get to a place where you can just read like nasty lies about yourself and you have to, you can't do anything about it.
Like you, there's zero you could do.
If you try to, if you, if someone said, she had a nose job and you never had a nose job.
So you went on a lie detector test and said, I never had a nose job.
And it said you were telling the truth.
They would be like, she paid off the lie detector.
Like, if they believe that you had a nose job, even if you never did, they're never not going to believe that.
So like, there's nothing that you can do.
And once you just free yourself from the idea that, like People, are just going to be hellbent on having the wrong idea of you.
Why would you focus on anyone who has the wrong idea about you?
Like, you know the truth.
Like, it really brings me peace to know I've never had a nose job.
You know what I mean?
I mean, that's just an example.
No one's ever said that about me.
But like, that's my example.
Like, I've never had a nose job.
And if you know that about yourself, why should it matter that people are spinning a falsified story about the fact that you had one?
You know what I mean?
Yeah.
Yeah, I do.
And I feel like it's this whole.
Everything we've been talking about here, like relies on the fact that we get so much of our identity and validation and sense of self-worth from like our social ties.
And so when we are misunderstood, when we feel jealous, when we feel comparison, it kind of fractures that like foundation for our beliefs.
This is just like another battle for this.
What's like the worst misunderstanding that you've heard about yourself?
Like I have one, but like of my own.
And I feel like each of us has this thing that, like we have been misunderstood about that, we wish we could like clarify.
What's yours?
People always have said that my parents paid for my book deals, which I don't understand how people can't wrap their head around this.
You cannot pay a traditional publisher to publish your book.
You cannot pay Simon & Schuster, Hachette, HarperCollins, Penguin.
You cannot pay them.
That's not a thing.
It doesn't exist.
There's no amount of money in the world that they will take to publish your book.
Like you can't do that.
So that frustrates me because I feel like it just undermines like what I was able to do for myself.
People say my parents connected me to them.
My parents work in restaurants.
They own small family run businesses.
One time my dad self-published a coffee table book about food.
Like that was a self-publication.
You can go and do it on Amazon.
You can pay someone to self-publish a book.
My parents don't have connections in publishing.
If they did, I never would have went into student debt to go to grad school.
I would have said, mom and dad hook me up with your connections.
Like they don't have them.
And if they did, like, I'm so honest about so many things that happened in my life.
I would share my connections.
Like I would say I had them, but I didn't have them.
So it frustrates and upsets me that that allegation comes my way a lot.
Cause I'm like, damn.
And then, yeah, of course the, her parents pay for everything, which is just simply untrue.
And I think that, like a lot of people like I, grew up very privileged and the truth of the matter is my parents themselves did not grow up privileged.
Like, the life that they've given to myself and my brothers was very different from the lives that they had themselves.
And so it brings me a lot of sadness to like see people that work so hard get sort of that tossed in their face because it's like they've worked so hard for my brothers and I.
But also I was cut off the day I graduated college.
I am so transparent about how privileged that I have been in my life that I did not have student debt from my undergrad, which is like an unbelievable, massive privilege that sets me up to be like miles ahead of other people.
And I understand that truly and deeply.
But I think it upsets me to see oh, her parents pay for her whole life because, like I'm so proud of myself.
And also like my parents didn't come from what they were able to provide for us.
So I think it also like, I don't know.
It just makes me feel upset.
Like they didn't instill a work ethic in me, or that like they're just paying for me, which they're not.
And I don't know.
I think that that can be frustrating.
And it's something that's levied at a lot of women who don't come from privilege as well, which I'm just like.
That's just plain sexist.
I guess I could see how people are arriving at the point that my parents like bankroll my life, but like i haven't taken a dime from them since i graduated college.
I would go on a lie detector test.
I wished i, i wish i could.
Those are some of them.
Like that i get that it's just frustrating.
And like i don't really need to prove people wrong because i don't really care.
You couldn't believe my parents pay for my life and that they bought my book deals and that they connected me with everybody.
But like that was true i would be.
I would have been a published author at like 18, literally exactly no, and i would have been calling that that contact up at like 16.
Yeah.
You would have been transferring the money into the bank accounts.
Let's go.
Yeah.
I would have been paying for it myself.
It's so frustrating.
That's frustrating to me.
And, like you know, there are worse things like in the world than that, but that's one of them that I'm always like dang, like I wish that, like people just believe that I could work hard, and obviously privilege has so much to do with it.
And I never want to shy away from that fact.
Like the privilege I've had has undoubtedly set me ahead and allowed me to achieve the things I've achieved at such a young age.
And that's not what I'm trying to suggest.
I'm just trying to suggest when people like blatantly make up lies about me, it can be frustrating.
I think it's also frustrating because it obviously like are things that go so deeply against your value set.
Like I'm sure people have a lot of things that you could easily dismiss and be like No, but it's when something is like so deep, actually against your core values and who you are as a person.
Yeah exactly.
Because I'd be honest, like if I think it's so.
I always see those memes of like when you find out your friend's parents are paying for their rent but they like lie about it, and stuff like that.
Like if my parents were paying for anything, I would be so open about that because I think like transparency in that regard is so important in our twenties, especially around money money, so awkward.
And I would like to your point about it going against my value set.
Like if my parents connected me with somebody in the publishing world.
I would also be honest about that, because then my story would be a lie.
The story of like how I got to where I am today would be just a total lie.
And like, that's so problematic and unfortunate, you know?
Yeah, exactly.
And also it's like... it just wouldn't be smart business.
It just wouldn't be smart business.
Yeah.
Like if you, if you believe nothing else, like you can believe that you would be doing what's best for your business and for like your identity.
That's a dumb lie.
Yeah, exactly.
Exactly.
It's like lying about like your parents being nepo baby.
Like to be like when nepo babies, they're like, I'm not a nepo baby.
I've worked so hard for this.
Like people aren't pissed about nepo babies.
They're pissed when they don't admit. that they had a leg up.
You know what I mean?
Yeah.
No, I know.
I don't know if you know the comedian Robbie Hoffman.
I feel like I talk about her on the podcast all the time.
She's so funny.
She is so funny.
Yeah, so underrated.
Like she was on Hacks, like she was on Dying for Sex, two really amazing shows.
I feel like if the frequent listeners of the podcast are sick of me talking about how good she is.
But she did this interview with Raven from That's So Raven.
Obsessed.
And her wife and she was like, I don't care if you have money, I want the money.
Like that's why like, people care about it but don't lie about it.
Like we don't want you to be poor, we just also want to be rich and we want you to be honest.
Um yeah, and like it, and it was.
It's very, very interesting because, like I remember, I went to this like inner city public school in like Melbourne and everyone's parents there well, the majority of them were living in an incredibly wealthy area and And no one would really admit that, like maybe they'd had a few handouts and that, like maybe actually, like they were doing pretty well.
And there was this whole culture of like.
Who like?
I think it's even more offensive when someone takes like, takes the idea of like I don't know not having much, or like of poverty, or like really struggling and never having had anything.
And cosplays as it.
Yeah, exactly.
A hundred percent.
I think it's so important.
Like I've always been transparent about growing up privileged and being a privileged person and like having parents who are able to like aid me with my education.
Like that is a tremendous privilege.
To lie about.
That would be crazy because it is a massive leg up to graduate from college without student debt like a massive in america.
Like that is a massive privilege.
It sets you on a different path.
It allowed me to be financially independent how i am now.
So i think that to your point, like you're totally right, like people who have money and who are financially privileged.
Like Nobody is mad at you.
They just want you to be, unless you're, you know, super unethical billionaire.
People just want you to be honest about it.
People want you to be honest about it.
And I think what frustrates me about lies that have been told about me is that I have been so honest about all of it so far.
And they just pick and choose what to believe.
Like why would I start lying now about, you know?
Oh, like my parents bought my book deal, or something like that.
Like, that's just frustrating.
Like, why would I lie about that?
Like, if that happened, I promise I would be telling the 100% truth.
If my parents were paying for my lifestyle, I would tell the truth about that, because it sells everyone a falsified sense of reality and what's possible.
Like, I'm just going to be honest about my financial situation. place in this world as I have been and I think it's important that other people do the same other people especially who come from privilege like to the point of like oh my parents pay my rent and other people are looking at you like how can you afford all of this and it's like because they're getting help it's it's I think really important in your 20s to be very open about that kind of stuff because a lot of people are struggling and also a lot of influencers are posting lives online that people don't understand how they could lead I know.
And then I think it sets people up for failure when they're like, this is possible for me.
And then they like bankrupt themselves.
Yes.
Yeah.
It's bad influencing.
It's bad influencing to omit the truth about your reality on the internet in order to make it appear a certain way, because people will feel influenced by you.
And I try to take that with a heightened level of responsibility and like, be really honest.
Yeah.
See the thing that, like I like, the biggest misunderstanding that someone had about me was really similar.
No way, I'm curious.
Yeah.
Well, it was, like, I remember it was this one comment and one, like, thread that I found.
Like, just never look up yourself on Reddit, by the way.
Like, anyone out there, like, just don't do it.
It's the worst decision of your life.
But someone was like, oh, she's money hungry.
Yeah.
Because, like when I signed – I signed my you know deal for my podcast when I had a full-time job and you know there were all these expectations for how many ads I would run and it was kind of the only way to be able to quit.
And, you know, that contract is for many, many years.
And people always get frustrated by ads on the podcast.
And every time someone brings it up, oh, my God, it just really upsets me.
And I –
I know, I know it.
Just it really upsets me and I can never figure, like for a while, like my friends were like, why is it this?
Like, why is it this that you people say it all the time and every time you have such a visceral reaction?
And I think it's because again, it's that there is all this context that people don't know and they make an assumption off of a very, very limited thing.
Also, it's like How are you supposed to pay your bills if not for ads?
Like they should be excited that you have more time to focus on the podcast because you've been able to leverage it as a full-time career.
And again, a woman who is self-made is so important in this world.
I don't know why we're not applauding more self-made women.
And instead we just need to tear them down constantly.
And it's always like a man paid for it or she's doing too much or she's money hungry now.
But a dude could be like, I want to be rich and nobody cares.
Yeah.
Exactly.
Exactly.
And I think there's like again it's this value thing where it's like you have no idea how below my means I actually live.
And, like you have no idea, like how much money I even make and like the money that I give to like family members and the money that I give to like like through donations, and like how I help friends.
Like, I think that's the thing where it's like, you don't know.
And it's like, my parents always raised me to be, again, it always comes back to this value.
Like, my parents always raised me to be very generous and to always like take what you have and give it back.
And so when people assume that you're not what you've always been raised to be like for you, you were always raised to be hardworking and people assume that you are not, that it's like just the deepest wound that can be cut.
Um, and i think it also again comes down to this thing of like people not being honest about about things and thinking so you assume the worst.
Like you assume the worst of someone that you really don't know anything about.
And i don't judge anybody like i do judge people for coming at you like that, but i get where they're getting it.
They're getting it from people who have lied.
Do you know what i mean?
Yeah, like they're getting it from the people who have lied, because there are people who have lied.
But ultimately, i just think we need to be celebrating more financially independent, successful and self-made women, especially who are just like unproblematic and doing their best and like are honest, like seems that you've been very honest.
So that's just like so horrible.
I'm sorry, i'm sorry.
I'm sorry for you as well, like it's, but again, i love how we're like let's give, let's give advice on how to be misunderstood, and we're like west, i'm still angry.
Yeah I yeah, I think it's frustrating, right.
But like, I think at the end of the day, like I freed myself from that kind of stuff.
And you asked about it.
So I'll bring it back up.
But the idea that my parents paid for my book deal, the idea that I don't fund my own lifestyle, like those things are deeply rooted in sexism, because they wouldn't say it about my brothers, they don't say it about men and it's deeply troubling to me when they levy it at women who didn't come from privilege, like i understand how you got there with me, like i can see how you got there, it makes sense.
Women who didn't come from privilege, like that is so insulting.
Like they are completely and entirely self-made And that's what you're going to say.
Like that is so deeply sexist to say about somebody who has put themselves in a financial situation they never would have been in before, which is true of so many female content creators and entrepreneurs in the media space.
And this is the thing is like whatever situation you find yourself in again, you know your truth, but also people can have those opinions, and it does not change how much you have worked for this and it does not change all the effort behind the scenes, and it's this thing of like.
Okay, if you truly believe that this is all that it took, give it a go.
Like, if you truly believe that this is what happened like, try and find another story like that, or like, and for people who are, you know, obviously not kind of in the space that we are in, I think it's just about having such a stoic mindset and being like okay, but genuinely, how does this impact the actual reality of the situation?
It's just words.
And someone who is thinking about you that much is like they don't have time to think about themselves in a way that's improving them and bettering them.
So it's like you, it's your gain through their loss, right like they have chosen to like, let you occupy their mind.
That's a win for you.
Like you just can't let that happen to you as well and let them occupy your mind.
I think the cost of sort of being seen and putting yourself out there is dislike, like the idea of people disliking you.
You have to be brave enough so that people could dislike you, which is scary, but real.
It's the cost of like a lot of success.
All right, we're going to take one more break.
But when we return, I want to talk about your relationship and also a little bit about your new book.
Stay with us.
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Am I right in saying you got engaged this year or last year?
Yes, I got engaged last year, 2024.
Okay, how was it?
It was so magical and perfect.
And I'm so excited for our wedding, which it's crazy.
It's like eight months away now.
And it feels like it happened so quickly.
My gosh, eight months away.
How was the wedding planning period?
I guess you're still in it, right?
It's interesting.
My mom is definitely doing a lot of it.
So that's really helpful.
Frankly, with like this whole book situation, I haven't been thinking much about the wedding.
But I know, once the book is behind us and we kind of get closer to 2026, it's going to be sort of all hands on deck which yeah, it's crazy.
You're having like a little summer wedding, almost like a pre-summer wedding.
Yes, pre-summer wedding, like kick off of summer, which i love because summer is my favorite season.
Yeah, it's the best.
Okay, this is a question i get, speaking about 20s, i get all the time which is how do i know that i'm with the right person?
What are your thoughts on that?
How did you know that you were with the right person?
I think it's so annoying to say
I can't stress how annoying this is going to be, but if you have to ask, it's not the right person.
You will know.
I promise you, you will know.
It is the most subtle and also deeply comforting feeling of just like, this is my person.
There's no other way this could go.
It's only us.
I can't describe it other than that.
Like it just makes sense.
And like, you will know if you're, it's not some big fireworks, explosive feeling.
It's very subtle and very comforting.
And I think if you're searching for it, it's not there.
And I don't mean to be condescending.
Like at all.
I just had never felt the way that I feel with my partner now, with anybody else that I'd ever been with.
And I thought some of them were the one, but they weren't.
And it took meeting the person who was to be like damn, like that's what it feels like to be with the right person.
It's just very comfortable, very subtle, very comforting, very obvious.
This is like the line that everyone always says like you know, you know and I think when you and I think again, like when you were in the situation where you're like what do they mean by that?
It's like, well, you probably haven't experienced it.
You haven't felt that way.
And that's okay.
Like it's more special if it's singular.
Like it's going to come for you and who knows?
Like, but why would you want to feel that a million times?
Like the person that you're going to want to end up being with, like that should be more special than the rest.
So like being patient for that feeling is worth it.
When do you think is the time to leave a relationship?
So if you have this feeling and you're like I'm just not sure, how much time do you think you should give yourself to really maybe investigate it?
If you've got like a bit of relationship anxiety, or like you just found yourself being quite stressed about relationships in general or think it depends on how long you've been in the relationship, like if it's been like six months and you're like i'm not.
I think every individual relationship is different, right?
I think you just have to take the time that you need to investigate it and be real with yourself.
I would talk to someone about it maybe that's a therapist, a trusted family member or friend.
Sometimes, like getting the feelings out into the world with someone like non-judgmental can be helpful And then I would make your decision from there.
I wouldn't linger for too long.
Like I feel like the same way.
If you know you know about wanting to be with someone, there's an.
If you know you know about wanting to get out.
And sometimes we avoid the feeling for far too long.
But like, the longer you avoid it, the harder it'll be.
Yeah.
And trust your gut.
Like it's not relationship anxiety.
If it's been following you for months, like if this has been like three months, six months, like there's something else going on there.
There's something else going on there.
And you'll feel like a huge sense of relief.
I think like a lot of people don't want to be single and that's actually why they stay in a relationship.
What's like your thoughts or advice on that predicament?
I don't think like being single is inferior to being in a relationship.
Like I don't see one as like a waiting room and one as a destination.
I see them as like sort of equivalents, or like being single can be equal to dating and can be equal to being in a relationship.
You can be single and want to be in a relationship, but there's like nothing wrong with being single.
And I think once you realize like being single is not a waiting room, It gets so much better because you're like yeah, right.
I was waiting to live my life till I was in a relationship.
That's sort of so sad.
Let me just live it now.
I understand being scared to be single after being in a partnership for so long.
But being scared means that you care.
And I think that's a really good place to start.
And not only that when you are scared and when you do something brave, that's when the greatest transformations of your life happens.
You have to keep the faith that on the other side, it will be good again.
And I do believe that it will be like no one has been heartbroken for their whole entire life.
It's not a thing.
And even if they have, they've made amazing art from it like, or they have like poured that into other people, like yeah, something.
But even though yeah, this is the thing.
Like I was saying this to my friend the other day, I was like maybe that's where all the cat ladies come, and there's a lot of souls that need love and like there's always, you're always going to find love in like some form right, like maybe you, maybe you will grieve this person for the rest of your life.
You probably, most certainly won't.
But if you do like, that means that you're going to have so much more emotion to put into other things as well.
Like, and that means you're going to feel very, very human.
And also you're just like, that's the worst case scenario.
It's obviously not going to actually occur.
Like people are so flexible and get over so much more and so much worse.
And like your heart can take so much more than you expect.
Let's like turn our focus back onto your book as we wrap up.
It's out now.
When this episode comes out.
You guys may have caught on that we are recording this a little bit early, but I just had to get Eli on the show.
It's out now.
What is your favorite chapter or favorite takeaway from this collection of essays?
I love the last chapter.
Like that's probably my fave, like if i had to choose my number one it would be the last.
I also really like the first, but my favorite thing is like getting to see what other people think of it.
Like somebody's favorite chapter is not going to be one of those two that i just mentioned and i can't wait to find those little nuggets of reader feedback out once it's in the world.
What's the last chapter on?
So we all know?
Does anyone else feel like it's okay not to know everything?
The biggest fear about 20s.
The fear from which all other fears stem from, I believe.
The fear of the unknown.
Yes.
I can't wait to read it.
We always finish with this one question and I'm excited to hear your answer, which is what is one thing you wish you knew sooner about your 20s, or one piece of advice you would have for someone in your 20s.
That has nothing to do with what we discussed today.
I would say like, don't try to waste it away.
Don't try to be like onto the next all the time.
I think there was a large chunk of my twenties that I like was just so wanting to like be out of that phase, out of my skin, and into a different phase, into a different moment.
And I just like really regret not living in the present more.
So I would say just like lean into the moment, even if it's uncomfortable, sticky shitty awful, you hate it.
You're never going to get the time back.
And who knows what the future holds.
Yeah.
Respect all seasons.
They're there for a reason.
Even the terrible ones.
Yeah.
Well, I want to thank you again for coming on the podcast.
Where can everybody find you?
You can find me on instagram eli at eliralo and tiktok at eli ralo, and you can get the book wherever you buy books.
Yeah, you can get both books.
I will leave yes, them in the description below.
They have really cool covers as well.
Oh my gosh, thank you.
I appreciate that.
The cover, like i remember when you announced like your second book, i was like that's a really sexy cover.
Thank you.
Thank you.
People are going to love it.
Thank you again for joining us.
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