Welcome to English as a Second Language Podcast, number 85, The Blind Date.
You're listening to English as a Second Language Podcast, episode 85.
My name is Dr Jeff McQuillan from the Center for Educational Development in beautiful Los Angeles, California.
On today's podcast, we're going to learn about two people who don't know each other going on a blind date.
Let's go.
I broke up with my boyfriend last month.
We had gone out for a year and i was ready to settle down, but i could tell that he still wanted to play the field before getting married.
I don't think Don ever cheated on me, but I finally realized that he wasn't the marrying type.
My friend Sheila was thrilled to hear that we had split up.
She never liked Don, and she was anxious to set me up with some of her single friends.
I told her that I didn't want to go on any blind dates, but she kept telling me about this guy, Alan.
She thought he was my soulmate, and she was sure that he would be my Mr. Right.
According to Sheila, he was good-looking, he had a good sense of humor, he was bright and witty and was kind and considerate.
In the end, I told Sheila to give him my number.
He called, and we agreed to meet for coffee.
I walked into the café and looked around.
I saw a nice-looking guy sitting by himself near the window.
Hi, are you Alan?
Yeah, you must be Lucy.
Did you have trouble finding the café?
No, I've actually been here before.
I'm really glad you could make it.
Sheila has been telling me all about you.
Well, Sheila likes to play matchmaker, but it's nice to meet you too.
To tell the truth, I'm not big on blind dates.
Yeah, me neither, but I'm glad I came.
Yes, so am I.
Today we go on a blind date.
A date is what two people who are romantically interested in do, such as going out to dinner or going to see a movie.
A blind date is when the two people don't know each other and they've never seen each other before.
Hence, therefore, we call it a blind date.
Blind meaning, of course, if you can't see.
The woman in the story says that she broke up with her boyfriend last month.
To break up with someone is that when you end a relationship, a romantic relationship between a boyfriend and a girlfriend,
For example, it can be both a noun and a verb.
You can say I'm breaking up with you, meaning I'm not going to see you anymore romantically.
Or you can say he had a very difficult breakup.
A breakup meaning the event of breaking up with your boyfriend or girlfriend.
Lucy mentions that she and her boyfriend had gone out for a year and she was ready to settle down.
To go out, in this case, means to see someone in a romantic way.
For example, two people, a boyfriend and a girlfriend.
If they're going out, that means that they are in a relationship.
So you may say to someone are you going out with anyone right now?
You don't mean that you are leaving your house, you mean are you in a romantic relationship with someone?
Usually we say this before someone gets married.
After that you can't go out anymore.
Well, you're not supposed to anyway.
Lucy said she wants to settle down.
To settle down here means to get married.
So when a woman or a man says I want to settle down, they mean I want to get married.
Settle down, two words, as a verb, also means to be calm, to be relaxed.
If you say to a young child, settle down, you mean, don't be so excited.
Lucy mentioned that her boyfriend, Don, still wanted to play the field before getting married.
To play the field means that you want to date or go out on dates with other people, that you want to see different people before you get married or settle down.
To see other people here means that you are again in a romantic relationship.
Lucy says she doesn't think Don ever cheated on her, but that he wasn't the marrying type.
To cheat on someone in a romantic relationship means that you see someone else, you go out on a date with someone else while you're still in the relationship with the other person.
So you have a girlfriend and you meet another girl at a party and you decide to go on a date with her.
Or if you're married and your husband is away on a business trip and you decide to date or see or get romantically involved with the mailman, that would be cheating on your husband.
Now, that's why you shouldn't go on very long trips.
Lucy said that her friend or her boyfriend Don wasn't the marrying type.
The marrying type just means someone who's willing or interested in getting married someday.
Her friend Sheila was thrilled to hear that the two of them had split up.
To be thrilled means to be very excited, to be very happy.
Someone says, I'm thrilled you came to dinner.
They mean I'm very happy you came to dinner.
To split up is the same as to break up.
Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston split up.
That means they separated.
And that could be true for a boyfriend or girlfriend.
It could be true for a husband and wife.
Her friend Sheila wants to set her up with some of her single friends.
To set someone up with someone else means that you are going to arrange for those people to meet each other and to go out on a date.
This can be very painful sometimes if you don't like the person they set you up with.
This sort of date is called a blind date, because you don't get to see or meet the other person before you go out to dinner or see a movie.
Sheila tells Lucy that her friend Alan is her soulmate and that he would be her Mr. Right.
A soulmate.
S-O-U-L Soul is someone who thinks like you, who has the same opinions, someone who is so close to you that that they are like your own soul, your own force, that that keeps you alive.
To say you are going to be someone's Mr Right is an expression that girls and women use to describe their ideal husband, the perfect husband, or simply the person that they are going to marry someday.
You are Mr. Right for that person.
We don't say Ms.
Right or Mrs. Right, but we do say Mr. Right.
Sheila says this friend of hers Alan, is good-looking, has a good sense of humor, he's bright, he's witty, he's kind and he's considerate.
Now, she's not talking about me.
Good-looking is someone who's very attractive, someone that other people will find physically attractive.
A good sense of humor means they can laugh, they can tell a joke, they like to laugh.
To be bright here means to be intelligent.
We say, he's a very bright guy.
We mean, he's a very smart guy.
To be witty, W-I-T-T-Y means that you say clever things, that you can think of a funny or interesting way to say something.
That's to be witty.
To be kind, of course, is to be nice.
And to be considerate is to be thinking of other people, to consider the feelings and thoughts of other people.
Lucy said that in the end, she told Sheila to give him her number.
In the end here means at the conclusion.
She finally decided after some time to tell Sheila to give her Alan's number.
Her number here, or rather Alan's number, means his telephone number.
We sometimes just say, give me your number.
We mean, give me your telephone number.
So Alan and Lucy decide to meet at a cafe, and she describes him Alan, as a nice-looking guy sitting by himself near the window.
Nice-looking is the same as good-looking, attractive, physically attractive.
Lucy and Alan introduce each other.
Hi, are you Alan?
Yes, you must be Lucy.
You must be Lucy is what you would say to someone that you haven't met before, but you know that that's the right person.
So, you must be John, meaning I know you're John even if I've never met you.
You wouldn't say that to someone who you know already.
Lucy says that Sheila likes to play matchmaker.
A matchmaker all one word M-A-T-C-H-M-A-K-E-R is someone who likes to set people up with other people.
That is, likes to match people who they know and get them to go on dates and be romantically interested in each other.
Alan says, to tell the truth, I'm not big on blind dates.
The expression to tell the truth we use when we're going to tell someone something that is very honest.
That might be a little bit too much.
So we're saying, well, to tell the truth, I don't like this movie.
It's often with something that's negative, but not always.
Alan says he's not big on blind dates.
When you say, I'm big on something, you mean you really like that thing.
I'm big on watching football on Sunday.
I really like to do it.
The opposite is to be not big on something.
Now let's listen to the dialogue again, this time at a native rate of speech.
I broke up with my boyfriend last month.
We had gone out for a year, and I was ready to settle down.
But I could tell that he still wanted to play the field before getting married.
I don't think Don ever cheated on me, but I finally realized that he wasn't the marrying type.
My friend Sheila was thrilled to hear that we had split up.
She never liked Don, and she was anxious to set me up with some of her single friends.
I told her that I didn't want to go on any blind dates, but she kept telling me about this guy Alan.
She thought that he was my soulmate, and she was sure that he would be my Mr. Right.
According to Sheila, he was good-looking, he had a good sense of humor, he was bright and witty and he was kind and considerate.
In the end, I told Sheila to give him my number.
He called, and we agreed to meet for coffee.
I walked into the cafe and looked around.
I saw a nice-looking guy sitting by himself near the window.
Hi, are you Alan?
Yeah, you must be Lucy.
Did you have trouble finding the cafe?
No, I've actually been here before.
I'm really glad you could make it.
Sheila's been telling me all about you.
Yeah, Sheila likes to play matchmaker, but it's nice to meet you too.
To tell the truth, I'm not big on blind dates.
Yeah, me neither, but I'm glad I came.
Yes, so am I.
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From Los Angeles, I'm Jeff McQuillan.
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English as a Second Language Podcast is written and produced by Dr Lucy Say, hosted by Dr Jeff McQuillan.
This podcast is copyright 2006.
