Welcome to English as a Second Language podcast number 12, Small Talk.
This is English as a Second Language podcast number 12.
I'm your host, Dr Jeff McQuillan, coming to you from the Center for Educational Development in beautiful Los Angeles, California.
Today's topic is going to be small talk, talking about things that aren't very important.
Let's get started.
I admit that I'm not very good at small talk.
When I'm with friends, I can just shoot the breeze all day long.
But when I talk to a stranger or someone I don't know very well, I'm always casting about, searching for something to talk about.
Politics and religion are definitely taboo subjects, at least here in the United States.
But you have to chat about something, otherwise there are these uncomfortable silences.
So we end up talking about, what else, the weather.
This usually begins with something like, So, nice weather we've been having.
Or, it sure is a warm one out there today.
Of course, we have to comment on the temperature.
My favorite is, it's not the heat that's so bad, it's the humidity.
Actually, I think that's true.
I hate it most when it's muggy outside.
Back in my home state of Minnesota, everyone is obsessed with the weather report.
Every TV station has its own meteorologist with a high-tech radar giving you the five-day forecast.
They tell you when the temperature is rising or falling, what kind of clouds are moving in and how cold the wind chill is.
My favorite quote about the weather comes from Mark Twain, who once said that everybody talks about the weather but no one does anything about it.
I begin our story by saying that I admit that I'm not very good at small talk.
Small talk is an expression we use to describe things we say to someone just to fill time.
Small talk is always about something that isn't really very important.
It could be the weather, it could be a movie that you've seen recently.
Anything that isn't controversial.
That's not going to get you into a fight with that person.
We use small talk often with strangers, people we don't know.
I said that when I'm with friends, I can just shoot the breeze all day long.
The expression to shoot the breeze B-R-E-E-Z-E is an informal one, which means to talk about lots of different things, but nothing again, very important.
It's a little different than small talk.
Small talk is almost always with someone who perhaps isn't very close to you, someone you don't know very well.
To shoot the breeze just means to talk a lot about something, usually with a close friend.
I say I can shoot the breeze all day long, meaning for a very long time.
When I talk to a stranger or someone I don't know very well, I continue.
I'm always casting about, searching for something to talk about.
To cast, C-A-S-T, about, means to look for something.
It could be a physical object.
I'm casting about for a new pen.
Or it could be, as in the case of the story here, a topic that I want to talk about.
I say I'm always casting about searching for something to talk about.
I continue by saying that politics and religion are definitely taboo subjects, at least here in the United States.
A taboo.
T-A-B-O-O is a subject that is considered inappropriate to talk about, not something you should talk about, something that is even forbidden.
You're not supposed to talk about it.
To talk about politics and religion, two things that people often disagree about is considered taboo in the United States.
Those are taboo subjects.
We don't usually talk about those with strangers.
We often don't talk about them with family either, if your family doesn't agree with your politics or your religion.
I continue by saying that you have to chat about something, otherwise there are these uncomfortable silences.
The verb to chat C-H-A-T just means to talk to someone in an informal environment, an informal situation.
The verb to chat is usually used when things... being discussed are not very important.
You're not talking about anything very important.
You're just chatting.
You're just talking.
It could also be used to mean the same, as I say that if you don't chat about something, there will be uncomfortable silences.
You know what happens when you're talking to someone and neither of you can think of something to say, and then there's just silence.
No one is talking.
If that goes on for too long, it could be uncomfortable.
It could make you feel a little strange, like something is wrong.
I continue in the story by saying that We end up talking about, what else, the weather.
We end up means, after a certain time, this is what happens.
We talk about the weather.
I continue.
This usually begins with something like so nice weather we've been having, or it sure is a warm one out there today.
These are expressions that you might use as small talk.
However, because they're so common now, because everyone uses them.
Some people use it almost as a joke.
To say that means that you can't think of anything better to say.
A little less common and perhaps...
A better choice in this situation is an expression such as, it sure is a warm one out there today.
Or you could say, it sure is a cold one out there today.
You're saying it's very cold out.
You're talking about the weather to allow the other person to give his or her comments.
Again, it's something that people aren't going to argue about.
They're not going to have a fight about whether it's cold or warm out.
Most people will agree, one or the other.
Of course, I say I had to comment on the temperature, how cold or hot it was.
I say that my favorite, that is my favorite expression is it's not the heat that's so bad, it's the humidity.
This is an old expression, maybe in many countries, but certainly in the United States.
When people complain during the summertime about the weather being hot or They'll often say well, it's not the high temperature that's the problem.
It's the humidity.
It's the amount of water in the air that makes you feel uncomfortable.
It's not the heat.
It's the humidity, we say.
I then say in the story that that's true.
To be muggy, M-U-G-G-Y, means to be very humid.
If you are in Florida, in southern Florida, for example...
It will be very muggy in July and August.
The temperature will be very high, and there will be high humidity, a lot of water in the air.
I'm originally from Minnesota, in the north-central part of the United States, and There, I say, everyone is obsessed with the weather report.
To be obsessed, O-B-S-E-S-S-E-D, means to be concerned about one thing, typically one thing only.
That's all you talk about.
That's all you think about.
I say that Minnesotans are obsessed with the weather report.
The weather report is when you listen to the news or read the newspaper and you find out what the weather is going to be today or tomorrow or this week.
So report here really means news report, report about what the weather is going to be like.
I say that every TV station has its own meteorologist.
A meteorologist is someone who goes to school to study meteorology.
That is the weather, the science of the weather, you could call it.
I say that every TV station has its own meteorologist meteorologist with a high-tech radar giving you the five-day forecast.
High tech means very high technology, very sophisticated, very expensive.
When we talk about the TV station giving you the five-day forecast, I mean they're telling you what the weather will be in the next five days.
A forecast F-O-R-E-C-A-S-T is a prediction about what will happen, obviously what will happen in the future.
I say that they tell you they meaning the meteorologists when the temperature is rising, is going up, or falling, is going down.
They tell you what kinds of clouds are moving in.
To move in here means to arrive.
What kind of clouds are arriving from a different part of the country.
The phrasal verb to move in can also mean to go and live with someone.
But we're not talking about that.
We're talking about the weather.
Meteorologists in Minnesota will also tell you, at least during the wintertime, how cold the wind chill is.
Wind chill, C-H-I-L-L. is used to tell you how cold it feels on your skin.
Not always how cold the temperature is.
So if it's 10 degrees below zero, 10 degrees below zero Fahrenheit, it's very cold.
But if there's also a wind, a strong wind The wind may make it seem even colder.
It will feel colder.
And so there's a way of estimating, of figuring out what's called the wind chill how cold it feels typically on your skin when you are out in a cold temperature with the wind blowing.
I end by saying that my favorite quote about the weather is from Mark Twain.
Mark Twain is a famous American author, what we would call a humorist.
He was a novelist, but he was also a very funny man.
He says or once said that everybody talks about the weather, but no one does anything about it.
People talk about the weather, but of course, they don't change the weather.
That's normally something we can't do.
Now let's listen to the story, this time at a normal speed.
I admit that I'm not very good at small talk.
When I'm with friends, I can just shoot the breeze all day long.
But when I talk to a stranger or someone I don't know very well, I'm always casting about, searching for something to talk about.
Politics and religion are definitely taboo subjects, at least here in the United States.
But you have to chat about something, otherwise there are these uncomfortable silences.
So we end up talking about what else?
The weather.
This usually begins with something like, So, nice weather we've been having.
Or, It sure is a warm one out there today.
Of course, we have to comment on the temperature.
My favorite is, It's not the heat that's so bad, it's the humidity.
Actually, I think that's true.
I hate it most when it's muggy outside.
Back in my home state of Minnesota, everybody is obsessed with the weather report.
Every TV station has its own meteorologist with a high-tech radar giving you the five-day forecast.
They tell you when the temperature is rising or falling, what kind of clouds are moving in and how cold the wind chill is.
My favorite quote about the weather comes from Mark Twain, who once said that everybody talks about the weather but no one does anything about it.
We want to thank Dr. Lucy Say for today's script and for all of her wonderful scripts.
From Los Angeles, California, I'm Jeff McQuillan.
Thank you for listening.
Come back and listen to us again right here on ESL Podcast.
English as a Second Language podcast is written and produced by Dr Lucy Say, hosted by Dr Jeff McQuillan.
This podcast is copyright 2006.
